that is nothing gotta do with rich or no rich....
its the eastern culture, especially cainis who over-protect their children......
Who here have rich parents?, money money money.
Who here have rich parents?, money money money.
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Jan 23 2011, 10:37 PM
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that is nothing gotta do with rich or no rich....
its the eastern culture, especially cainis who over-protect their children...... |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:38 PM
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my family is rich "poor" type
no camry, no accord, no rolex collections, no european trip but no housing loans, no study loans, in fact my dad has stopped working when i was standard 6, and i managed to studied till uni without taking a cent from govt... yet from the outside i looked so noob, no iphone, no vios, no amoi |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:39 PM
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I wanna see the scars
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Jan 23 2011, 10:39 PM
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QUOTE(finch! @ Jan 23 2011, 10:36 PM) Thanks, I guess. I'm doing well. Well, I see I'm better than some of my friends, by earning money myself. Cannot really rely on lah, more like they rely on me loh. SOmetimes I feel like I born to "work" for family. Working on project basis etc. And to TS, be grateful at least u have your family there to rely on when the hard time comes. Now still same, even more so, cause have to give money, give time, give effort plus do everything else I used to do for them loh. Just add more and more and more, until my back sakit liao, too heavy burden. |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:41 PM
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QUOTE(Heart Kylie Heart @ Jan 23 2011, 10:22 PM) hehe, I"m not discriminating rich people, just want to know how many of you have rich parents? I'm same with you about being a prisoner problem. Whenever I go out now as an adult, I still have to go without their attention, I don't want to be asked what I'm going to do outside. Friends, mainly online friends. I dont have loh. Have to take care of little brother, help with family hawker business (small biz lah, barely enough to feed family), study hard, pay for own stuff (almost everything) and used to naik bas everywhere until I got a small scooter. The injury I got from naik scooter, haih, tell also people no believe, but I still wear short pants, dont care what people say about scars liao, its not like I can remove them, if they dont like me because of my scar, they are not my friend anyway. I recently noticed many rich children their parent keep at home like precious treasure, dont let them do anything dangerous outside, until they become loner and have to rely on computer and internet to cure loneliness, most of them sit at home after study, tuition, kurikulum and violin/piano lesson cause parent no allow them go outside do bad things with friend. They usually facebook or surf forum lah. This include my tauke son, they have one son and one daughter, both keep like prisoner, so after they grow older also they cannot live normal, always stay at home and computer/internet/facebook/forum, cause already fixed mentality loh, no parent watching also they act like prisoner as adult, even after going oversea to study they also act like this, surf internet in dorm after school and activities, not much friend also. So how many of you is like this? |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:41 PM
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See, what we can do is our turn to work hard! and re-pay our parents with something that they hardly achieve!
In my parents world, their goal is educated us and make sure we have the right! My dad still driving a RM5000 jeep, i keep ask him to change car, he keep say wait you finish studies, after i finish, wait my brother finish, after my brother, wait my sisters..haha My life time goal is make sure my parents can retire happily! |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:42 PM
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QUOTE(killbox @ Jan 23 2011, 10:37 PM) QUOTE(monochrome1234 @ Jan 23 2011, 10:39 PM) I use laptop niah, my phone no camera also. So late liao, dont want lah. QUOTE(geforce88 @ Jan 23 2011, 10:37 PM) that is nothing gotta do with rich or no rich.... Yalor, this is what I noticed, many chinese parents do this, but some malay also. its the eastern culture, especially cainis who over-protect their children...... QUOTE(dattebayo @ Jan 23 2011, 10:38 PM) my family is rich "poor" type Wow, how you manage it?no camry, no accord, no rolex collections, no european trip but no housing loans, no study loans, in fact my dad has stopped working when i was standard 6, and i managed to studied till uni without taking a cent from govt... yet from the outside i looked so noob, no iphone, no vios, no amoi |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:43 PM
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i make my parents rich
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Jan 23 2011, 10:44 PM
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i hate those anak datuk bragging about their parents kaya itu ini.
that was their parent. not him. he got nothing. stupid in study, in life, even got money but no girl. dimanjakan sangat dengan duit then became a total looser. unlike those manja2 loser anak org kaya, i have to work in my dad's company to get money. if i refuse to work and stay at home diong nothing, i got scolded and only 500 a month. |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:44 PM
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QUOTE(Heart Kylie Heart @ Jan 23 2011, 10:39 PM) Cannot really rely on lah, more like they rely on me loh. SOmetimes I feel like I born to "work" for family. That mindset is a no no. Who we are if not for our family. I understand the burden becoz my family also rely on me. But that responsibilities that I have to take for I am the eldest. Just remember tomorrow is a better day.Now still same, even more so, cause have to give money, give time, give effort plus do everything else I used to do for them loh. Just add more and more and more, until my back sakit liao, too heavy burden. |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:46 PM
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QUOTE(jackwylde @ Jan 23 2011, 02:44 PM) i hate those anak datuk bragging about their parents kaya itu ini. i also only get 600 a month leh.that was their parent. not him. he got nothing. stupid in study, in life, even got money but no girl. dimanjakan sangat dengan duit then became a total looser. unlike those manja2 loser anak org kaya, i have to work in my dad's company to get money. if i refuse to work and stay at home diong nothing, i got scolded and only 500 a month. » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:48 PM
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my father owned sarawak timber and black coal business, he also share his bird nest business with his partner. my mum is public bank branch manager. got lotsa money but don wan give me how? all my banks account need my parents signature to withdraw, and my own personal bank is really low. sad but true
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Jan 23 2011, 10:48 PM
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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Jan 23 2011, 10:38 PM) my family is rich "poor" type Wah, mind telling how did u attempt to go so far? Dad no working yet no need any loans no camry, no accord, no rolex collections, no european trip but no housing loans, no study loans, in fact my dad has stopped working when i was standard 6, and i managed to studied till uni without taking a cent from govt... yet from the outside i looked so noob, no iphone, no vios, no amoi |
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QUOTE(LKH9 @ Jan 23 2011, 10:41 PM) I'm same with you about being a prisoner problem. Whenever I go out now as an adult, I still have to go without their attention, I don't want to be asked what I'm going to do outside. Friends, mainly online friends. Same? I no rich boh, but prisoner to family loh, have to take care of everything for family. QUOTE(almighty @ Jan 23 2011, 10:41 PM) See, what we can do is our turn to work hard! and re-pay our parents with something that they hardly achieve! Haih, I kindergarten till now already work for them so many years, I am like third parent to family liao, brother used to call me "ma" also. In my parents world, their goal is educated us and make sure we have the right! My dad still driving a RM5000 jeep, i keep ask him to change car, he keep say wait you finish studies, after i finish, wait my brother finish, after my brother, wait my sisters..haha My life time goal is make sure my parents can retire happily! No personal life, just work for family until time to study and sleep also not enough, they dont really support me in study also, I have to curi time off from family to study. Really feel like I was born to work for family. |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:49 PM
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QUOTE(Heart Kylie Heart @ Jan 23 2011, 10:22 PM) Have to take care of little brother, help with family hawker business (small biz lah, barely enough to feed family), study hard, pay for own stuff (almost everything) and used to naik bas everywhere until I got a small scooter. I have my bestest fren here beside me rite now ..... his parents are not 'rich' rich but own a bungalow. So my fren is going to be a millionare when he inherit the bungalow. He says you may submit your resume if you are looking for a ticket out of Poorsvillle. |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:49 PM
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QUOTE(BatangBerjuntai @ Jan 23 2011, 10:33 PM) sometimes i just wanted poor parents. true.its hard to keep parent's expectation.its like when they can hev 5 series,they want their son to hev ferrari 1st hand.wtfsimply because the expectation to succeed is much lower than being born into a rich one. poor men's definition of success = honda accord/toyota camry rich men's definition of success = mercedes s class/ bmw 7 series |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:51 PM
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QUOTE(Heart Kylie Heart @ Jan 23 2011, 10:42 PM) I use laptop niah, my phone no camera also. So late liao, dont want lah. i didn't manage anythingYalor, this is what I noticed, many chinese parents do this, but some malay also. Wow, how you manage it? just choose the noobish lifestyle, in fact my salary is just to support my lifestyle and car loan in end 1980s to mid 90s, economic was booming in Malaysia, money was easy to make back then, many kampung ahpeks earned 6 figures simply by goreng the stock market many people became millionaire overnight, but not many of them can sustain the simplest point is, when you see rm100k dropped from sky, don't spend it all in enjoyment, keep some if not most of them for future purpose |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:54 PM
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QUOTE(jackwylde @ Jan 23 2011, 10:44 PM) i hate those anak datuk bragging about their parents kaya itu ini. that was their parent. not him. he got nothing. stupid in study, in life, even got money but no girl. dimanjakan sangat dengan duit then became a total looser. unlike those manja2 loser anak org kaya, i have to work in my dad's company to get money. if i refuse to work and stay at home diong nothing, i got scolded and only 500 a month. QUOTE(Balaclava @ Jan 23 2011, 10:46 PM) QUOTE(Hung Low @ Jan 23 2011, 10:48 PM) my father owned sarawak timber and black coal business, he also share his bird nest business with his partner. my mum is public bank branch manager. got lotsa money but don wan give me how? all my banks account need my parents signature to withdraw, and my own personal bank is really low. sad but true Wahh, so nice, you guys should even more appreciate, cause when you really need the money, they will support you. 600? 500? Wahh, I have to give myself pocket money. QUOTE(killbox @ Jan 23 2011, 10:44 PM) That mindset is a no no. Who we are if not for our family. I understand the burden becoz my family also rely on me. But that responsibilities that I have to take for I am the eldest. Just remember tomorrow is a better day. Haih, Study, work, choose path, I do all for myself plus have to work for family since I can walk and talk. The only contribution from them I think is making me niah. I also hope tomorrow better day. |
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Jan 23 2011, 10:55 PM
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In future when I'm millionaire or even billionaire, I'm gonna inherit my son all my asset AND the loans as well!!
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