I'm in a dilemma right now. I got to know a girl while i was working in Johor many months back. I'm now back working in KL. She called me up earlier today to inform me that she is 3 months pregnant. I've only had sex with her 3 times......ever. We were together for only 6 weeks, so our love is not really that deep. I've yet to reply to her calls & sms's, as i'm deeply troubled.

Neither 1 of us knows which direction to take. Its impossible for me to marry her, b'cos there is absolutely no love between us. Moreover, she is unattractive(flat-chested, has bad breath, protruding upper jaw), not feminine & unsophisticated. I regret bedding her. I'm 30 & she's 31.

I realize that i've made a huge mistake & many folks in here will slight me, but pls offer me some solutions 

Seems pro-life post are more welcomed compared to pro-abortion. While those pro-abortion may sound like spam, in actuality it does carry some weight.

U know there are some parents who don't love their children, they treat them like trash and the child just gets more resentful. Things like these do happen u know. Sometimes, the child ask why their parents bother having them in the first place if they don't have the heart to proceed.

Before some say, they do this because they love the child or whatever, i can tell u that it's easy for someone to detect when there love and when the parents just don't care.

If you choose not to marry the mother, then the decision is not yours to make. It's up to her whatever she wants to do with her baby since the child is not legally yours.