should try reading Men from Mars Women from Venus Together Forever.....really teaches alot

yup, bought the book. & it has a few series.. maybe can update everyone as soon as I finish the books

Try find this author too, cucan pemo. This person is damn good. Her books are awesome.

seriously nid 2 ask gf read it..haha
anyway,any1 can understand their opposite sex if they wud juz think out of d box n try putting urself in their shoes
advice 4 d guys..
sumtimes in d relationship when she gets u mad n when u feel u dislike her so much,
control urself control wat u planned to shoot at her when u r mad,juz tink 4 a moment,how much u love her
how much she means to u b4 n not when u r mad,coz when u r mad u tend to say hurtful words without tinking
juz pause,n b sweet when u shud b furious..

e.g from my experience
she suggested A while i suggested B
while in fact B is d best way
i was mad coz by doing A is more troublesome
i juz did wat she insisted
after doing A only she realizes she was wrong by asking me to do A
she felt she was so studpid tat time
i was so mad at her n wanted to say hurtful words..
instead i tot of how much she really means to me
and i erased my typed reply,n retype "its ok baby,i noe u were anxious and therefore made a prompt decsion without thinking,
i nvr blamed u=)"

although i so wanted to vent my anger by sending my planned msg,i felt so good retyping it to a sweet n understanding.
she was so happy although feeling guilt,but i guess her happiness is my hapiness as well.

Thats the smartest thing to do man. Though you've made the wrong decision at least you nvr regret it and forgive her. Trust me son, she will remember in her heart what you did.

when she realized she was wrong,she said "sorry,i didnt tot of tat,y r u not angry wid me,u have d right to be mad at me"
she was confused by my sweet msg instead of fury..but i knew tat she was glad i 4gave her
n after tat she keep saying sorry n i keep saying i nvr blame her(although i almost did,but tis technique is sumkind of anger management) haha
i tink if evry man use d power of love to cool anger,there wud b more happy cpls n less break ups=no heartbreak,no hurt

No its not the power of love, but more towards the power of yourself as an individual. Not many people, understand how to resolve the matter and what you did is that you let your ego out of the way, and let love overwhelm you in a way to forgive her. Sometimes little things we can just let go but when it comes to the real deal, sometimes it is really hard to let go off your ego especially when it comes towards challenging a man's manhood. So it is the individual tolerance and persuasion that really matters. The power of love is broad in context. So thats why i 'm trying to say it in details.

bside trust,tolerance is also essential,men cant juz b d boss n mr-right,mr-know it all,mr-juz listen to me
sumtimes we muz put our ego away for the better stuffs..
evrytime i feel i love her so much reflects d time i am unsatisfied wid her
n evrytime i m mad wid her reflect how much i love her
i guess tats d way to trigger it

Well you have your way....and keep it to yourself.

Mysteries works wonders with girls.

Your such a sweetheart

I'm also a sweetheart.....

Ok fellas , This book Men are from mars and Women are venus is good , But its for couples for maintenance techinically referred to as Mid Game , If you guyz need to read something about Starting game and End Game , read the posts http://www.sosuave.net , I also have a copy of Mysteries Venutian arts hand book , Get a copy of it , if you want the super cute chinese girls in your life !

hmm..
looks like this book is gud...

no wonder i've heard about it from my aunt...

I do belong from Jupiter....sorry guys!!!

Jupiter .. Really !!! Hey I am on miranda which moon are you on ?

I think Dr. Gray is overrated and outdated.

Here's a great article that sums up why.

http://web2.airmail.net/ktrig246/out_of_cave/mf.html

How overrated is the author is one thing. Look at his book and judge his quality of his masterpiece. It is worth reading.

Sure worth a read if at least to see that he promotes the sex-role theory and a patriarchal society.

The New Male Female Relationship by Herb Goldberg makes much more sense but then again, that's just me.

Great to know that. Btw, is his book available at the book store? I mean around kl area?

I heard his book What men still don't know about women seems quite interesting. I saw him on Oprah.

This post has been edited by peinsama: Jul 5 2008, 10:34 PM