seriously nid 2 ask gf read it..haha
anyway,any1 can understand their opposite sex if they wud juz think out of d box n try putting urself in their shoes
advice 4 d guys..
sumtimes in d relationship when she gets u mad n when u feel u dislike her so much,
control urself control wat u planned to shoot at her when u r mad,juz tink 4 a moment,how much u love her
how much she means to u b4 n not when u r mad,coz when u r mad u tend to say hurtful words without tinking
juz pause,n b sweet when u shud b furious..

e.g from my experience
she suggested A while i suggested B
while in fact B is d best way
i was mad coz by doing A is more troublesome
i juz did wat she insisted
after doing A only she realizes she was wrong by asking me to do A
she felt she was so studpid tat time
i was so mad at her n wanted to say hurtful words..
instead i tot of how much she really means to me
and i erased my typed reply,n retype "its ok baby,i noe u were anxious and therefore made a prompt decsion without thinking,
i nvr blamed u=)"

although i so wanted to vent my anger by sending my planned msg,i felt so good retyping it to a sweet n understanding.
she was so happy although feeling guilt,but i guess her happiness is my hapiness as well.

when she realized she was wrong,she said "sorry,i didnt tot of tat,y r u not angry wid me,u have d right to be mad at me"
she was confused by my sweet msg instead of fury..but i knew tat she was glad i 4gave her
n after tat she keep saying sorry n i keep saying i nvr blame her(although i almost did,but tis technique is sumkind of anger management) haha
i tink if evry man use d power of love to cool anger,there wud b more happy cpls n less break ups=no heartbreak,no hurt

bside trust,tolerance is also essential,men cant juz b d boss n mr-right,mr-know it all,mr-juz listen to me
sumtimes we muz put our ego away for the better stuffs..
evrytime i feel i love her so much reflects d time i am unsatisfied wid her
n evrytime i m mad wid her reflect how much i love her
i guess tats d way to trigger it