Saying that, you leave your life in the hands of the commoners. Are they worth your life? DO they know you? Do they see your every struggle? Do they LIVE your life? Ask yourself these, and there is your answer. =) If I am naive, so be it. To me, money is not everything for me. Even a mechanic can earn money. Its the knowledge he has that he encounters everyday that enables him to find his own bowl of rice. See what I am seeing? I don't care what commoners see. Friends, family, and loved ones are what I care. =)

how do u think i get so energetic and re-gain to be positive in no time?

requested u liao

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Added on September 18, 2010, 12:59 amfirst of all, don't always think using your left brain, sometimes you need to use right brain too

This post has been edited by dattebayo: Sep 18 2010, 12:59 AM

Right brain = Street smart?

Well a relationship starts off as stranger -> friends -> special one, right?

If you don't care about a commoner/stranger's thought about you, how do you want your "soon-to-be" special one to live with you together?

Love your statement XD

Sounds correct actually >"<

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Added on September 18, 2010, 1:01 amPeople who judge you are not worth your attention xD

This post has been edited by chiahau: Sep 18 2010, 01:01 AM

for something known as relationship, u cant be too logical and rational, u gotta use right brain to process

Well, don't you notice judging applies on everyone?

Unless you have no evil thoughts in your mind.

what? r u a computer?

u uphold the "it's my life!" spirit strongly! respect!

inb4,



u have to be Einstein...

Please explain more.

I need enlightment, and help.

Is everyone the type that sees your money? If so, they don't care to know you. They care about your money. =) Let me ask you. When you first fell in love, did you know anything about the person? What do you see first? When you first wanted to know someone, what was it that you see first? What made you gain more interest in a simple food? Or what matched your tastebuds in food? Was in the money? It was the taste, am I right? What made the taste? Salt, pepper, ingredients and so on.

Its not in a bad way that you do not care, but its how you view yourself. Do you live because of them? Or do you live because you know its your life you are holding in your palm? Your special one to live with you, is someone who sees you for who you are, not what you materalized. You are your product.

nothing, my point just jk point, nothing concrete...

let's just say...getting urself a tree is not really a pre-program system...but a system that think...
u take ur plan, the person u interested in also has her plan...

Why people want me to get 3.9 like its so damn easy ZZZ????

Swts~"

I really want to unsingle myself.

I really do.

its not complicated, is that I think you have overindulge in your life plan

many things in life, if u plan in too detailed, chances are it won't go according to plan, u always said want to get married at age x, have kids at age y, after earning RM zz rite?? u re making as if ur gf or wife is an item of ur life project

for those over 30 year old maybe its normal to think like your ways, but at your age it isn't good to be too "rational" in love deal, get the 'feel' with her first, then only talk about the future

This post has been edited by dattebayo: Sep 18 2010, 01:12 AM

maybe due to ur previous result?

So, what is the "feel"?

Nothing to do with right brain or wat actually...this one is a little complicated, that is what piques my interest in human and their cognitivity. =) Relationship, is a combination of emotion and logic. You feel love, you don't think to love. You feel heartache, you don't think to feel heartache. The result is like this. You fall in love with someone, you THINK of ways to court them/get their attention. What makes you think to do that? Your feelings. Its not logic. =) Different people has different ways to court a girl. Me...? I just show them...I don't tell. Right brain is what triggers your emotion. =) Its a chemical reaction. Which, many of us still wonder, why we can get angry, and what made the right brain triggered that chemical release that triggered that emotion in me. =)

Regarding finding the right girl? I think, you just need to talk, and show them you are interested in them. DOn't be too good, cuz people nowadays are greedy. You give, and take. give and take. =) Eventually, you will know who actually sees you for who you are. =)

at least u're taking action and have a existing target...

i'm rooting for u...

when will ur plan gives result?

Take ponders to this quote I made myself "Judge all you want about me, its your freedom to judge. But don't talk shiet like you know me. Cuz you don't"