Explain in general.

symptom of liking someone:-

1) butterfly effect in stomach and heart area when ppl are talking about her infront of u or u saw her

2) feel happy and relax at the same time when is sharing time with her, just same like being high...

3) something tingling sensation inside ur mouth, and feel like crying and heartache when she talks about other boys, or some other ppl saying she has someone else

my experience that is...

feel that she is right for you, feel that you have the urge to protect her and that her can bring you support when you need it

someone which can trigger your hormone and pulse

when you tend to rationalize everything, u will lose that kind of intuition

Makes me think relationship is no technical stuff.

Well maybe our thoughts are just different.

I do judge my first impression, but I keep it to myself.


And for me, first impression decides my first step.

it should never be treated as one,

which kinda explains why engineering and science grads hard to score gurls

its good to have balance between rational and emotional, rational can feed you with foods but emotional can make your innerself more fullfilled

Ask them whats their past time, fav food, or listen to their words, sometimes they can be thinking of something that makes them sad, then ask them, whats bothering you. As much as a girl can be cold, they are cold so that you are the one to break their ice and be with them. =) Take interest in what they do. Like even if its balet class, ask them, what are the moves? Is it painful, can you show me? It makes them feel that they have someone that can talk about their interest. =)

Everybody judge, its both right and wrong. But if you think that judge gives 100% of everything, then you're losing a lot. A food can look not so nice, but the taste can be something that makes you want to come back for more.

First impression does give a major impact in everything. But, it is actually a 1% of the 99% that you may not know of if you were to venture down the rabbit hole. =)

it is not a technical...more about the emotional part...feel it

me too...but first impression doesnt affect the final result...

found out more about the person, and not really that good, then also set him/her in which group of category of friend...

if good, proceed to the next stage...

Point taken

Looks like i need hard work.

How do i make her attracted to me in emotional aspect?

this i'm not sure...because i'm the doormat guide creator...

so my way was, cared about her, helped her, accompanied her, and suddenly didnt know why, became a doormat...

Doormat is not enough.

Doormat is not different from being a Mr. Nice Guy or Best Friend Forever.

yes, for bf guide pls consult others who succeed be4...

This post has been edited by gundamsp01: Sep 18 2010, 01:32 AM

I need to break ice.

The time has come.

be a bit naughty, flirt, try not to plan too much things during outing, make surprises, anyway if u can somehow make her pinch you or hit you (not slap in the face ah) then you at least break the ice alrdy

wait u havent break the ice?
that means it is practically love at first sight...

corrupting kampung XD

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Spontaneous is the only word to describe what you are saying?

this is what ppl at his age should do

plan for marriage, kids, $$$ pls postpone it to at least after graduation

even for me I also dun think stuff like this

lol

be a humorous guy can have a deep impression on a girl

Be more open, talk more crap, more eye contact, more flirting messages/hint..

Perhaps grab her hands and let go.. Do silly things and make her smile XD