Am just wondering what's sexy to you exactly?

Isit always by what we wear (like short skirt, low-tops, or even revealing g-string)??? most of my guy friends think so although I had known a guy who once told me that he is even "turn-on" by certain moaning sound when gal bang her toe...to him that is very sexy.

Opening this thread in getting gals opinion.

sometime personality can also be sexy..ROFL..tat depends..clothin are juz part of it..

Usually, guys look at breast as the first talking point, together with body shape + face.

Of course, everyone has his/her own definition of "sexy".

For me .. not into clothings, but ..

- Eyes
- Lips
- Cheek

inclusive of ..

- good attitude
- nice
- responsible

girls no lar...i prefer women, women with attitude... to childish girls sometimes boost a men ego. but over all woman with attitude normally will out class all of it. Not easy to build your own personality, the way the woman talk, walk, style...is all put into consideration.

generally, sexy cloths usually sexually attracts a guy.

Somehow girls with black stockings seem sexier.

scant clothing, big boobs, hot round ass........ these dont really attract me in a girl. They might catch my attention but they dont grab my heart. Im not ghey btw.

Im more attracted to girls with a healthy personality, good character, morally balanced. These are things that impress me in a girl.

Other things comes secondary as a bonus.

Well IMO, clothings are what catches the eye, not the soul. It all comes down to personality and attitude especially in a long term relationship. Oh yeah and figure

I stumbled upon a quote today: "LADIES: You are more than your physical appearance"

To me, Sexy isn't always about the appearance- clothes, sexy outfit, big boobs, hot figure and what other says I think having a strong attitude is sexy, and confidence as well.

eyes + smiles

actually there is a study tat say the scent of the girl or women is the one tat seals in the attractiveness. But for MOST guys even if they dun admit is is the girls assets.. haha. But like wat some said, it captures the eye for a short time, but not the heart for a long time. But sometimes u could get lucky... both also jadi hehe..

down boy! control yourself!

to me.. if u have big boobs but have face problem.. its a no go.

i dont mind having a flat-chested GF who has a pretty face....

but most of all GOOD ATTITUDE wins.

beautiful pancreas?

This post has been edited by quinieleong: Sep 11 2010, 02:03 PM

I don't see how internal organ can be beautiful as they are all standard.

Nen Nen and bontot la what else

then imagine licking nen nen n put face at the butt licking kaw kaw

You're asking girls what turns them on bout other girls?

i thought this is a female thread..
but most guys are the one replying .. LOL...

confident is sexy
-quote by gisele ..

looks: sweet
heart: energetic, optimistic, and fun.

cuz I don't understand how u can ask female to answer the question?

sexual attraction on girls?

Eyes+smile is the best make up a girl can ever get.

Confidence+maturity level+warm attitude =sexy

Body is just an extra extra plus. But if the above fail...its only worth.....nothing.

no discrimination or prejudice here but one of the biggest turn downs in a girl for me is if she smokes.

It somehow reflects her consciousness abt health but i think it also indicates something abt her life. Its a choice lar, but im not attracted to girls who smoke.

No offence k? =)

2 types of sexy for me...

sexy 1: wearing tight n sexy clothes...can see cleavage+nipps...<---this sexy for men will bring their thought into sex...yup..dats normal...when u wearing sexy clothes eg bikini, men will think fantasize bout u and think to have sex with u...<--human nature...but depends on men..some can control,but some can't will rape u..

sexy 2: confident, polite, clean, charismatic, etc<----this sexy will make men respect u

choose ur side girlss..

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Added on September 12, 2010, 3:36 pmfor me chinese girl wearing baju kurung is very sexyy...

This post has been edited by egoiste: Sep 12 2010, 03:36 PM

My opinion? I think girl/woman with a cool attitude but soft in the heart is very sexy. I'm not a lesbo, but I admit I do sometimes look or what-you-say checking out on the other females as well as males. Well, that's it.

to me, tall is sexy

giraffe very tall

whaha, any girafe here?

LOL good point... or maybe TS is a guy..

*looks up*

dont see any............

i rike hairy 1
especially those hu dont shave their pubics
xD

sexual attracts guy = legs, boobs, face

these few element

u tarzan dude?

somehow i'm quite agree wit tis

he's Rambo

careful........Rambo like make fire..........dun make wildfire...........

hehe thx for agreeing with me

cute , cute attitude , not lanci type , love to do good thing , that all i rike :S

you mean "刘三好''? haha...just kidding

Awww

a girl who can do just about whatever a guy does.

like playing guitar, riding a bike, hiking....

and wearing a low+boot cut pair of denim would be nice.

Hi Shirley_Andy.
Dont get me wrong. I know probably 80% of guys will think sexy=physical stuffs.
But I am just asking for own female opinions. Guys should not be giving 100% opinions on what's sexy but we gals have our rights to voice our own opinions too.

A guy may even think that a gal wearing tudung is sexy but to her, its just normal, nothing special. same for gals who thinks that wearing g-string is normal but not to the guys' eyes.

To me.... is the gal hair style and color, with boosting from clothes........

if u want to know what females think is attractive/sexy, just skim through the pictures in women magazines. Women magazines' target audience is your everyday women and their content and pictures (of mostly sexy and attractive women) are there because it is what attracts women to buy the magazine.

Women like to look at other women. Everybody knows this but why leh heh?

This post has been edited by B@rt: Sep 13 2010, 02:12 PM

I want a woman that thinks in a mature way. Is there any out there?
I HATE it when women thinks that men is the ONLY one who should sacrifice when that woman is not ready to commit to the relationship after so long together. Why need to test the partner? Why need to demand this and that and when it's fulfilled, you want more? The problem with girls nowadays is that they think they are smart, and although they do, the are not smart enough to think that the man has feelings too.

Men who are stable would want a woman that can think maturely.Very simple. We don't need u to be unique or whatsoever. We don't need u to be someone else u're not. And when u're 20+ and thinks like a bloody 15 year old who rants all the time, all guys would run away without second thoughts. Men are simple-minded in a way that we're practical, and when we love u means we love u. Those guys who find other women are special case(bad luck for those ladies then), but those who love u unconditionally and u still whine about it. And when all is lost, then u start to whine and say "it's the guys fault!" or "why, why he left me? Sob Sob" and tell me women, what is the purpose in that. Do u think that by crying, the guy would be back?

Women has always been stereotyping that men are evil, although that is partially true(who isn't?), when you are already in the relationship itself, trust is important. Unnecessary jealousy, hatred towards those who come near ur bf. If u don't trust, just immediately break-up, because there is not purpose in the relationship no more. But of course it takes time to build trust. (Those guys who exploited the gf's trust, good luck in ur future endeavors)

So what makes a guy fall in love with a gal? A lot of reasons. Most importantly, positive behavior and attitude, nice and polite as well. Some girls who feel inferior, because they kept on reading those lousy fashion magazines, please stop wasting your time because u will never look like those models. Well, they are called models for a reason. And they are photoshopped. How on earth can someone look that perfect? Attraction itself is not just by looks, although that is the first barrier. So do u think all guys looked handsome as well? All guys won't feel inferior looking at other hunky dude (Edward Cullen)? yes they do!

Always take time in everything u do, and most importantly be urself. If he or she doesn't like they way u are, then never start at all because it would be a waste of time, especially when one is obstinate and hard-headed(there are a lot of girls who are stubborn also ok, not just guys). Patience is the key!

*Sorry for the ranting*
*Ready for bombardment!*

because sub consciously we compete with one another!! its nature

dats y girls will nvr b happy.

To me, megan fox is the answer

yup.. sexy is an ATTITUDE...
nothing physical...
the girl has to FEEL sexy..
and it will show, and radiate..

"They say that women get dressed up to impress other women.
I think that's true because no guy ever turned a woman down
because her shoes didn't match her earrings."


This post has been edited by ravi6662: Sep 13 2010, 07:36 PM

As a girl, I think guys are sexually attracted to girls who can hold eye contact and have a hearty laugh. I guess it's like a signal that the girl will pretty much be able to hold her own in bed, even if all she's wearing at that time is slipper and shorts.


BTW, I like to look at girls not bcos of bad feelings, but bcos ppl wear so nice, appreciate mah! I hope 5 years from now all girls in Malaysia will be fashionably conscious and look hot like girls in South Korea! Amen!

o pls god no........

now also i'm getting sick of the growing numbers of taiwanese/korean/japanese wannabee........
pls....no more........
all these, turns me off, & frankly speaking, there r growing numbers of guys which sick of dis as well.....

create ur own style la........

the more skin you show, the more sexy you are.

wat type of bike? and how hard?

its ok dude. Ive been there before.......relax *pat pat*

you made it sound like no one wants to settle down with you. and you PMS kah?

lol...haha...

there's a lot of things that i will considered sexy

in random order
- smooth hand gestures, i.e like in dancing, putting on make up or even when painting
- passions & concentration
- proportionate curves
- eyes & lips
- broad shoulders!! (on men )
- smooth & clear voice (like Olivia Ong) or deep manly voice (cant remember one, currently)
- silky smooth body hugging dress / deep V, halter.. etc

Ppl that I considered as sexy~


This post has been edited by Eclipxe: Sep 13 2010, 10:39 PM

Normally guys see physical appearance most of them =P dun get offended though saying physical appearance is not that important is quite fake ~
Compare good looking and not so good looking, you will be turn on by the goodlooking and be frens with the not so good looking ! =x!

how i describe the pictures (in order):

-sexy

-totally gay

-man

-if not bcoz of tattoo, he's gay too.

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Added on September 13, 2010, 11:47 pmmoney buy looks.
fair & square.....

This post has been edited by tech3910: Sep 13 2010, 11:47 PM

at least these dudes ada ter-jolted me lor

I like girls with "fox-eyes" and small face

A "sexy" girl can be as b****y as Lindsay Lohan
wat's the point?

simply and nice to be with.....not need to be so complicated....

hardworking, honest and frank girl

yeah, I know.

impossible to find

but I haven't given up hope yet.

keep your body slim and firm - skin color is not a problem to me

pretty face with "over-healthy" figure is a turn-off

and decent make-ups on face is enough.

let's talk about what girls look in a guy

i like guys with big n strong arms...hehehe

although he has a beer belly?


i think both guys and girls would want their partner to have nice and firm solid+slim body, or better to say their tummy - no?

i wouldn't mind a less pretty face and skin color, though.

just my opinion la

wat abt a strong heart but not so strong arms? =P

trying to recommend urself huh?

must be cute!!

Cute like your hamster?

no not really......lolz

that's a mini rabbit..

Eurasians!!
like chinese,european mix haha,they are like so hot

but honestly,
i prefer average guys as they can love me above themselves

most good looking guys are plain vain/player/gay

eye candy tho

lol'ed at bold statement

i dun like men with slim body.. >< i prefer fit or meaty and huggable.
and strong arms/broad shoulders!! yummy~

i support ah ! just be urself girls out there . dont try to be somebody .
i think it's better to find a girl who understanding . not so stubborn . dont be to arrogant . keeping humble . smiles more . i think bout girls outlook it comes on 2nd la . which experienced guy would like a woman have a great looking but bad attitude . unless those non exp i guess .

that's why I love honest girls
they have no emotional problems underneath.
so they always cheerful, helpful and does not talk bad too much about people.
also they have less stress so no outburst for no reason at all

but others also like them and they have more time and money than I do
well that's life i guess
cest la vie

At first glance, looks always prevail. Do not let anyone else fool you. Slender legs with matching breast and buttocks to match the figure. And no, overly sized boobs are no go for me.

Once you get to know that girl, then her personality and character will be the pulling factor, which can be sexy as well. The way they communicate, the way they laugh, the way they giggle, their body language speaks a thousand words, and that is as sexy as hell. Even then, dressing sexily helps. By my definition, I don't mean to dress like a slut. Something that almost reveal, but never really reveals. If you get my drift. It gets the imagination going.

Once you know her on a deeper level, then the guy will determine if she is the one or not.

not all good looking guys are gay la...

i didnt say all
i said either ....or gay

Pretty face???
Guys like to surf online and hunt for leng lui~~

many fake....

heavy make up + camera angle trick + photoshop = leng lui.....

wen see in real life.....

U got gf b4 meh?

Agree on that.

no la, some got really natural cute looking, even without makeups

no

but i have had his feelings before. =P

you don't have to wear less to be sexy. my boyfriend finds me sexy even when I'm wearing my baggy sleep clothes xD

maybe you havnt meet much

So true.



I wore a fitting long sleeve baby T (a plain one, no word, no brand names/logo, no pic, nada) and baggy khaki pants; in fact, since I had to take a bus today, I didn't even wear accessories or what not as to not attract attention. I took a bus today and there was this guy sitting by the aisle on the right, a seat in front of me, so, it's diagonal from me (I was by the aisle on the left). This guy kept turning around to look at me every few seconds. At first I didn't notice but he wasn't being secretive anyway. I tot he was looking at me but as it turns out, he kept turning around to look at my chest!!!

I didn't even had makeup on or what, I didn't even dress up. Just really plain Jane. It doesn't have to be clothes to be sexy. I know I wasn't. I'm not even heavily endowed! It's not bout clothes, it's subjected to the guy. The guy I ran across today may have been a pervert but his idea of sexy is what floats his perversion, no?

This post has been edited by BlurSotong: Sep 26 2010, 01:55 AM

well,having just 7 girl cousins and like 44 Male cousins is helpful
especially,if the ''good looking'' ones keep changing gfs like water *coughs*

This post has been edited by melcat: Sep 26 2010, 04:44 PM

i think girlz is sexy when she has beautiful body, nice face and also
good attitude and not forget how she can adapt the environment and control
herself.
;-)

Were you wearing white shirt with pokka dot push up bra

LOL BlurSotong. purposely go find Misaki to show expression. he thinks you have nice bust size perhaps?

Nope, nope and no. Plain plain plain. Plain dark green long sleeve fitting baby T; plain baggy white khaki, boring white tennis shoes. No vpl, or anything for imagination. Nada. I was gonna take a bus, so I was dress pretty boring. Enough to be looked over. In fact, I like being under radars, and I took extra miles to make sure of it whenever I wanna stay invisible. Thinking bout it makes me boil.

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Added on September 28, 2010, 6:42 pmEw, no thanks, I prefer creeps to not have any opinion bout me at all.. You watch Kaichou wa Maid-sama too?? Yay, another fan. But season ended on the same day that pervert was on the bus. What a day. Any news bout second season? We still have Usui's secret!

On a happier note, last episode: moe~ They made my flowers of moe bloomed.

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Added on September 28, 2010, 7:38 pmWait, hold on a sec. Why are both of you looking for reason for a creep???? Drian's humorously looking for something that might reason a creep's action, and goldfries's defending the creep's action. I understand I'm a stranger but if some guy is looking inappropriately at your whoever (say daughter), I willing to bet it gets your blood boiling too. Let's see if you guys would look at things so lightly. And that's few times less how a girl feels. What are you ideas of counter measures? Being a guy, you're better aquantainted with what male perverts perspective, what can a girl do to deter these creeps?

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Added on September 28, 2010, 7:40 pmIn a good way, I think I came off pretty aggressive in my post, ignore the aggression pls and thanks.

This post has been edited by BlurSotong: Sep 28 2010, 07:40 PM