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Group LYN Buddhism Retreat - SERIOUS TALK, No trolling please

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post Aug 20 2010, 04:19 PM

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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Aug 20 2010, 04:16 PM)
Not like that.

In daily life, of course the 5 precepts are important and it's the duty of all buddhists to keep the 5 precepts as best as possible.

However, there might be people out there, who think they can go further to the 8 precepts (or 10 in noviceship) and to attempt to get some insight into the 4 noble truths.

It's commendable and encouraged for those who are ready, to do so. You never know, that the Neyya class of individuals might just attend some Insight at the retreat, and might just penetrate into the 4 noble truths.
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sometimes its just very simple things like not shouting at the waiter who brought you the wrong food, or smiling and saying thank you to the sales assistants. And reducing arguments with friends, family and colleagues. Not littering. not doing things that would cause inconveniences to others in any way.

things like that. very simple.
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post Aug 20 2010, 04:20 PM

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QUOTE(eXPeri3nc3 @ Aug 20 2010, 04:17 PM)
Working now. Unless it's during the weekends lor.

How long is it? You said weeks right?
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mine was asked by my teacher to do it. there are other ways of retreat like reciting sutras or mantras, water offerings, prostrations etc
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post Aug 20 2010, 04:30 PM

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QUOTE(eXPeri3nc3 @ Aug 20 2010, 04:26 PM)
Hmm. I'll go with the reciting sutras then.
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the main point is to retrain your mind to think in a way where it becomes less selfish.
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post Aug 20 2010, 04:41 PM

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QUOTE(xecton @ Aug 20 2010, 04:39 PM)
Hmm... isn't MBMC rather infamous for temple politics (you know, like office politics)?
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politics is everywhere lah. we're in samsara wat. it's one of the features. temple got politics..whats new? just avoid and get on with your personal practice. If u kena involve take the decision that benefits the most people. end story.
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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Aug 20 2010, 04:42 PM)
don't get involved in temple politics. When it comes to money / committee / power , sure will got some politics.

Our job is to help as we can , go there listen to dhamma lectures, learn some meditation (if got teachers), enough. Not our duty to police the monks (some lay people do that!!)....
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QUOTE(Palmolive Thermal Spa @ Aug 20 2010, 04:42 PM)
haha, just go there for the environment and keep to yourself. it's easy to stay out of their way. temple politics are very strong in myanmar meditation centres too.
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*plugs his teacher here*

http://www.kechara.com/publications/public...nment-for-sale/

how to deal with temple politics 101: the official buddhist way where everyone wins.
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QUOTE(xecton @ Aug 20 2010, 04:46 PM)
That's why I prefer smaller temples. Less of such nonsense. The bigger the group, the dirtier it gets.
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small temple oso got. big temple oso got. company also got. friend groups also got. with relatives oso got. family also got.

u wanna run to where?! isnt it better to just learn how to deal with it and handle it accordingly?

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QUOTE(eXPeri3nc3 @ Aug 20 2010, 04:58 PM)
OT -- I somehow hijacked Single's Club into few pages of Buddhism chat @_@
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hahahahaha

its okeh. spreade the worde
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post Aug 20 2010, 07:43 PM

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QUOTE(eXPeri3nc3 @ Aug 20 2010, 05:29 PM)
Over there there's an interesting one.

What's the difference between: parinirvana and buddhahood..

http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?act=findpost&pid=35745145
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parinirvana is a state of cessation of suffering

buddhahood is a state where the being can benefit all beings in every way.
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QUOTE(xecton @ Aug 20 2010, 05:32 PM)
I maneuver around office politics because I need to cari makan. But there is no reason for me to stand for holier-than-thou people squabbling about petty issues.
Er...... no. But there was one time when I had a serious issue at work that I considered going for one, in Kelantan. But never did.
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If you could do it for your makan why not do it for Dharma? Same techniques, different motivations, different outcome. If you tahan politics in a temple you will be able to find Dharma. Consider the effort and the struggles an offering to the Buddhas.

QUOTE(Maxieos @ Aug 20 2010, 08:43 PM)
Both are the same if you read more

and to NOSelf which it's equivalent

You dont need temple politics it if you are practicing noself.Just obey order , that simple.Dont go complicated
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you dont need temple politics if you're living alone in a cave somewhere in india or a forest somewhere in pahang. it's because you NEED the help of others in order to survive these days. Since you need their help it makes no sense to avoid them. Also, a community of practitioners is very important to help you practice the Dharma and so that you wont burn off due to lack of support.

wanna REALLY avoid politics? be a duthangga monk or go for solitary 12 year retreats where you wont be meeting another human in a cave for the next 12 years. tada no politics.

politics existed since the Buddha's time but i didint hear the Buddha go "okay we dont need temples already. everyone practice alone. no poltics. no sangha." but is that the case? hmm.

he just let it happen because it's part of human nature.

we're in samsara dearie, everything in samsara is 'complicated' in reality but just that we choose not to see that aspect of it.

if there is noself then where is the self that faces with all the poltics? if you attained noself isnt it even easier to face politics because those people cant hurt you; since the 'self' dosent exist? wouldnt it make sense to be part of it as well?

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QUOTE(Palmolive Thermal Spa @ Aug 20 2010, 09:13 PM)
oh, nice speech.
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coz it came from experience, dearie.

sorry to talk about it because i know it made you feel uncomfortable.

*tones down*



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QUOTE(Maxieos @ Aug 21 2010, 12:14 AM)
I didn't expect you explain that much .Thank you smile.gif
As I mention "Just obey order , that simple.Dont go complicated" and forgot to add "Just smile when you see people"  biggrin.gif

I dont understand much your reply , maybe I am stup|d or maybe I didn't explain much , i mean "dont need" doesn't mean avoid and "dont need" doesn't mean don't apply.
Don't need mean don't need to remember on having a temple politic.If temple politic comes , you don't need to tahan , you just need to accept , obey , leave it.
erm , and about the noself , you explain already so it concludes all. biggrin.gif
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hmm...if i've achieved noself i'd probably get involved in the politics just to steer the temple into a better direction because then my ego will no longer get in the way and i would be able to influence them into being more spiritual. But that is if i manage to achieve that level. If I really do.

I was involved in the thick of it once. My teacher has some pretty nasty students and well they didn't like me. Whatever that could happen in the office is nothing much compared to these guys. They could backstab you and make it look like they did it because they care to everyone else. i was even barred from telling my side of the story with accusations that prevent me from doing so. But you know what? the whole thing just accelerated my Dharma practice and woke me up from the dream that "i am a good Dharma practitioner" and to the reality that I am not and me knowing and seeing what needs to be done and doing it. And in the end it's not their fault because they were just not used to adapting to someone like me.

in reality it all depends on what you want from a Dharma center: fame, sense of belonging, friends, society, OR Dharma practice and sincerity? There's only 1 side to choose from. If you choose the former, you'll be hit with temple politics and if you choose the latter it will still happen but it will never seem to be able to affect you.


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And now, some homework for you guys tongue.gif

I'd like to share with you one of the most illuminating texts: Advice from Atisha's heart. These pointers given by Atisha applies to anyone and everyone especially those that call themselves Buddhists. Perhaps it would give many of us a clue on how to further our own practices.

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Advice from Atisha’s Heart

When Venerable Atisha came to Tibet he first went to Ngari, where he remained for two years giving many teachings to the disciples of Jangchub Ö.

After two years had passed he decided to return to India, and Jangchub Ö requested him to give one last teaching before he left.

Atisha replied that he had already given them all the advice they needed, but Jangchub Ö persisted in his request and so Atisha accepted and gave the following advice.

How wonderful!

Friends, since you already have great knowledge and clear understanding, whereas I am of no importance and have little wisdom, it is not suitable for you to request advice from me. However because you dear friends, whom I cherish from my heart, have requested me, I shall give you this essential advice from my inferior and childish mind.

Friends, until you attain enlightenment the Spiritual Teacher is indispensable, therefore rely upon the holy Spiritual Guide.

Until you realize ultimate truth, listening is indispensable, therefore listen to the instructions of the Spiritual Guide.

Since you cannot become a Buddha merely by understanding Dharma, practise earnestly with understanding.

Avoid places that disturb your mind, and always remain where your virtues increase.

Until you attain stable realizations, worldly amusements are harmful, therefore abide in a place where there are no such distractions.

Avoid friends who cause you to increase delusions, and rely upon those who increase your virtue. This you should take to heart.

Since there is never a time when worldly activities come to an end, limit your activities.

Dedicate your virtues throughout the day and the night, and always watch your mind.

Because you have received advice, whenever you are not meditating always practise in accordance with what your Spiritual Guide says.

If you practise with great devotion, results will arise immediately, without your having to wait for a long time.

If from your heart you practise in accordance with Dharma, both food and resources will come naturally to hand.

Friends, the things you desire give no more satisfaction than drinking sea water, therefore practise contentment.

Avoid all haughty, conceited, proud, and arrogant minds, and remain peaceful and subdued.

Avoid activities that are said to be meritorious, but which in fact are obstacles to Dharma.

Profit and respect are nooses of the maras, so brush them aside like stones on the path.

Words of praise and fame serve only to beguile us, therefore blow them away as you would blow your nose.

Since the happiness, pleasure, and friends you gather in this life last only for a moment, put them all behind you.

Since future lives last for a very long time, gather up riches to provide for the future.

You will have to depart leaving everything behind, so do not be attached to anything.

Generate compassion for lowly beings, and especially avoid despising or humiliating them.

Have no hatred for enemies, and no attachment for friends.

Do not be jealous of others’ good qualities, but out of admiration adopt them yourself.

Do not look for faults in others, but look for faults in yourself, and purge them like bad blood.

Do not contemplate your own good qualities, but contemplate the good qualities of others, and respect everyone as a servant would.

See all living beings as your father or mother, and love them as if you were their child.

Always keep a smiling face and a loving mind, and speak truthfully without malice.

If you talk too much with little meaning you will make mistakes, therefore speak in moderation, only when necessary.

If you engage in many meaningless activities your virtuous activities will degenerate, therefore stop activities that are not spiritual.

It is completely meaningless to put effort into activities that have no essence.

If the things you desire do not come it is due to karma created long ago, therefore keep a happy and relaxed mind.

Beware, offending a holy being is worse than dying, therefore be honest and straightforward.

Since all the happiness and suffering of this life arise from previous actions, do not blame others.

All happiness comes from the blessings of your Spiritual Guide, therefore always repay his kindness.

Since you cannot tame the minds of others until you have tamed your own, begin by taming your own mind.

Since you will definitely have to depart without the wealth you have accumulated, do not accumulate negativity for the sake of wealth.

Distracting enjoyments have no essence, therefore sincerely practise giving.

Always keep pure moral discipline for it leads to beauty in this life and happiness hereafter.

Since hatred is rife in these impure times, don the armour of patience, free from anger.

You remain in samsara through the power of laziness, therefore ignite the fire of the effort of application.

Since this human life is wasted by indulging in distractions, now is the time to practise concentration.

Being under the influence of wrong views you do not realize the ultimate nature of things, therefore investigate correct meanings.

Friends, there is no happiness in this swamp of samsara, so move to the firm ground of liberation.

Meditate according to the advice of your Spiritual Guide and dry up the river of samsaric suffering.

You should consider this well because it is not just words from the mouth, but sincere advice from the heart.

If you practise like this you will delight me, and you will bring happiness to yourself and others.

I who am ignorant request you to take this advice to heart.

This is the advice that the holy being Venerable Atisha gave to Venerable Jang Chub Ö.


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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Aug 21 2010, 10:39 AM)
for samatha meditation yea, got about 40 taught by the Buddha.

Not all of these meditations are suitable for everyone. It depends on your temperaments (past karma, tendencies, affinity, etc).

However, there are universal meditation such as MEtta (loving-kindness). This one is suitable for all types of temperaments, because deep inside all of us, there is a lot of hatred in our subconscious.

The effect of meditation is not something like a one-time fix.. but gradual. It has to be applied in daily life too.  Meditation serves as some positive reinforcement into the subconscious - everyday we tell ourselves to be loving-kindness to all being, slowly slowly over years, over decades,  you find your level of hatred reduces.....

For example, playing video games like dOta or Wow... They look harmless.. but if the individuals play those games, they got angry when TMNET down , or they got killed in Dota by their friends, they got angry..... on daily basis.  slowly, day by day , that person gets angry for about 10 mins everyday.... over the years... he finds himself become a very hostile person in real life... easily get irritated, angry, etc.

I am talking from real experience.

So this mental conditiioning is very gradual... if we want to become a good person , we need to do it daily, slowly... everyday throw away some bad habits.. over time, over years, over decades, we will succeed.

By the time of death, we will be a very happy person and calm person. At that time, our 'habitual kamma' is that of a person with very much reduced hatred/anger.. and this kamma will help to help us avoid those destinies associated with these hatred based kamma --> hells, demons who fight each other, animals.....

so i hope this helps you to get a brief idea on meditation.

No need to look very far or greedy... some people meditate they want to attain Jhanas (their sole intention), but when they cannot attain it (not realizing that practice of dhamma comes altogether with Good morality and dana too).. they got pissed with buddhism and dismiss it as 'false'  I met these types of people. Motivated by greed and hatred they approach buddhism.

We shouldn't go that direction.
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nice. i really agree on this post. it is a very lucid and clear explanation on the importance of meditation.
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post Aug 21 2010, 02:17 PM

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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Aug 21 2010, 09:41 AM)
good morning.

life is so blissful. zzzzzz

40 objects of Samatha meditation
10 Recollections
10 Kasinas
10 Asubhas
4 Brahma viharas
4 Immaterial states
1 Foulness of food
1 Four Element

ANyone tried any of the above yet??
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I usually do vipassana

QUOTE(soul2soul @ Aug 21 2010, 10:18 AM)
MEditation got 2 types

1. Samatha - calm meditation. Objective is to attain Calm and tranquility.  Got 40 types listed.

2. Vipassana - Insight meditation. Objective is to attain Insight into the nature of existence - Dukkha (suffering), Annata (nonself) and Anica (impermanence).
Most popular Samatha meditation are
1. Anapanasati (mindfulness of in-out breath on nostril) - this is ONE of the 10 types of Recollection

2. Metta (loving-kindness) - one of the 4 Brahma viharas (divine stations of the Brahma).

Confused liau bo?
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actually vipassana is analytical meditation. we do it every day too just on other subjects like for example when we think about what are we gonna wear today: that's meditation as well but not one geared towards improvement.

a more intense or advanced form of meditation would be keeping track of every single thought and intention that pops in to your mind and questioning and seeing where it comes from, why did it form in the first place, what is going to happen when actualized etc and then whether nor not it should be done... this way you can reduce the chances of performing negative deeds by a lot because you can see what you are doing and its effects. This kind of meditation is done every waking moment. It is part of the Lojong or mind training teachings. This kind of meditation allows you to not only look deep into your own mind but into the minds of others as well based on observation.

meditation is a very important tool but what is your intention and motivation to doing it? Whatever you do there has to be an intent behind it and a goal to achieve. insincere and selfish practitioners can meditate a lifetime and not see any results, while sincere practitioners can achieve various spiritual attainments with just a few hours. The right motivations and intentions make sure that you can go far, the wrong ones can turn even the most virtuous of activity into something harmful.
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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Aug 23 2010, 09:34 AM)
Depends lo. Some got good karma can encounter good teacher and true dhamma, and the states can arise in him quite fast.  Some try entire lifetime cannot see any results, got a few explanation for that actually.

But any effort is not wasted, as there is this Dhamma that will actually lead us to Nibbana. Have confidence we must all in the teaching of the Buddha!
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If we place all responsibility on karma, then how can we be buddhist?

In reality, it is not really about encountering a good teacher or the true Dharma but its your ability to lower your ego and accept more challenging Dharma texts. There are texts that make you feel like you're targeted and it can be very painful. But it is those texts that will help you progress.

Those that i've encountered who have met the right teacher and true Dharma, are no longer interested in politics and self benefit. Those with no results are often stubborn, hard to get along with and have problems accepting all of the Buddha's teachings and can only accept those that make them happy, but totally avoid those that point out their weaknesses.

It's all about effort and willingness to give up and put effort.

Which reminds me.

Do you believe in Karma?
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even if you are born in a bad condition but you work against it and create the causes to do something more, it will happen.

some people dont make it not because of karma, but because they refuse to accept or examine themselves more carefully and make necessary changes. If they did they will open up the positive karma needed to propel them into success.

Yes and to work against the limitations imposed by these tendencies and affinities for the sake of others is to hold vows. I have given up on the view to engage in politics for my own benefit but to engage in it to keep the temple in 1 piece, but as for self benefit, to be very honest not yet because i'm still not a monk yet.
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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Aug 23 2010, 11:41 AM)
wise decision. you sound like one of the committee for a temple.
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nah i'm not. in fact i had to distance myself sad.gif but now getting involved more but at a very slow rate.

the other day i went to help them do a retreat and my teacher suddenly appeared and gave a nice talk on why not to be disenchanted, and why great masters never give up despite having nasty students is that because the problem is not with the students but with samsara.

you can watch the recordings here on youtube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MW2CX4Kzxbk http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QS8xYQnItU0

the way he phrases it is very funny because it was quite late so he presented it in a funny way to keep everyone awake.
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I spoke regarding a few thoughts:

How not to get disappointed over a period of time when doing work.
Based on individualising problems, we become angrier, depressed, bitter et al.
How not to give up on certain people if we really are serious on our practice.
How doing group retreats makes us think less of our own problems.
How group retreats/work at Kechara can increase altruism which can be applied everywhere.
Different types of retreats such as on subjects, on Yidam, or on a protector.
How to feel hope again after being bitter, angry, disenchanted and depressed.
One talk I gave over the phone to everyone, the other one, I showed up in person to share my thoughts. Both talks have been uploaded here. Please do take a serious listen and contemplate. I feel it can really help you wherever your mental state may be.
the gist of both talks

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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Aug 23 2010, 01:52 PM)
Just to share only, in the Abdhidhamma there are listed different kind of individuals in the world today.

1. Ugghatitannu
2. Vipancitannu
3. Neyya
4. Padaparama

1+2 no longer exist in the world today.

3. Neyya - those who require guidance , and having encounter the True Dhamma with sufficient effort attain the various stages of sainthood.

4. Padaparama - those who practice the dhamma, although putting in sufficient effort and encounter true dhamma, fail to attain any stages of sainthood in this life, but will do so at the immediate next life.


Added on August 23, 2010, 1:57 pmSo if a person practices with supreme effort, but fails to attain any stage of sainthood, it could be due to

1. Insufficient paramita (past cultivation)

2. A personal vow in past life (to be a boddisatta, or to attain enlightenment under Matteyya Buddha, or as chief disciples, etc)

3. A sure prediction by a past Buddha (to enlighten at certain time or Aeons from now)

There is another factor which will destroy the ability for enlightenment , which is obstruction by the evil veil of Kamma. in this case, an individual has committed a serious kamma (like killing of parents), even if he has sufficient paramita, he will fail to attain any sainthood stages.
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My goal isnt to go to nivarna anyways. It's to attain Buddhahood for the sake of stopping the sufferings of as many beings as possible.

There are many, many Indian and Tibetan saints who attained enlightenment within a single lifetime, but most of them have also been very serious practitioners as well.

then again, what quantifies to you, as results from Dharma practice?
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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Aug 23 2010, 02:07 PM)
i don't get your question, can you rephrase it?
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What do you see as successful or unsuccessful Dharma practice? Or what do you see as results of Dharma practice?

QUOTE(PVCpipe @ Aug 23 2010, 02:39 PM)
i watched thai movie, and it shows like they build buddha statue, worship, to treat ppl from illness... y? buddha is nt goddd rite? also got thai buddha temple that sell charm.... isnt that deviant from bbuddha teaching? y no one tell them thats not what buddha preach
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Buddha's not a god. besides that's a movie.

some 'buddhist' monasteries are in fact of the thai native religion: the religion before Buddhism came.

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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Aug 23 2010, 03:30 PM)
I think it depends on individuals. Each of us are so different , a success to one would seem as a shortcoming to others! But I think all buddhists want to attain cessation of suffering, it's just the matter of 'when' only.

To me, the nearer things in Dhamma , more down to earth things are like reduction in anger, hatred , and become more tolerant to differences, and to be more Calm and happy. If a person sees this happening in his life, the dhamma is working. If he becomes more angry.. then he obviously needs to re-examine his approach to dhamma.

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Once the foundation is right, the rest will come naturally !
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but if it depends on individuals then by right there should be many different states of enlightenment! but in reality there is only one state...

not all buddhists want to attain the cessation of suffering because mahayana and vajrayana aim to lift the suffering for others.

all beings want pleasure and happiness, and abhor pain and suffering. if we practice Dharma to avoid suffering, i dont see how it can lead us out of samsara as the intentions of practicing buddhism is not that different than getting good education and a good job so that there will be no 'suffering'. If we think like all other beings in samsara, how do we get out of it?

on the 2nd part, yes. Many great masters have said and reaffirmed that the results of Dharma practice is that people around you become more comfortable with you, there are less disagreements and all.

problem is many people would probably have to fight a huge barrage of wrong views and mental stubbornness to get there. For example would you read a text written by a tibetan master?

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