She was my classmate last year.

We were pretty darn close before the sh!t happened.


I was in the wrong timing as she didn't inform us that she was with another guy at all. So it's that I am rejected.

How awkward it became between me and her, we wouldn't talk much when we see each other, probably it's that the embarrassing scene.


But this year, I don't know why the feeling came back, faster and more serious.

I told myself to really take this feeling seriously.

And I've told her that I'm interested in her and that I would wait for her to accept me.

Therein perhaps lies your mistake, telling her all these romantic stuff. Did you ever put yourself in her shoes for one moment and think?

Did it ever cross your mind perhaps that most of the time she receives these sort of 'friendship' for lack of better word? Every guy that wants to get to know her, wants to date her. Few or none guys wants to get to know her and be good buddies.

Ever thought of that? Ever thought of how that would make her feel?

The thing with you is that, the one girl which you went a little head over heels, you automatically think that you're going to spend the rest of your life with her.

From your post, you:

a) Are unable to accept another person's decision (clearly exemplified by your actions despite her decision)
b) Unable to handle rejection (distancing behavior after being turned down)
c) Still confessing business after 1 year and thinking that waiting for her is proving your love to her.

My dear friend, contrary to the popular believe, those actions point more to immature attitude and behavior than anything else.

I'll gladly be the bad guy, in hope that you may learn more about this:

You're not quite ready yet for relationship based on those few responses to disappointments that you faced. There is still much to learn before you should fully commit to someone.

Well well...

Ah, I share with all of you 1 neglected golden rule..

NEVER TRY CONFESSING/DATING/FALL FOR WITH CO-WORKER, CLASSMATE/COURSEMATES.

Period. Anyway, sh!t happens. The best you can do now, is don't care about the other person. Or forget about it, come back as friend in a week or two. You must tell her and yourself and act like this ---> "hey, it's over, I am past that already, let it go, will you?"

Oh since you liked her.. TS, move on, find another okay? Rejected, you go find other girls. No joke. If not you will be stucked and it will disturb your mind if you are studying (been there, I think I was kinda disturbed for 2-3 months in class until I decided to strap on my heart and become the playboy! I was getting numbers and very selectively choose some for dates until I can "charm" girls of other races and my own (mastery!)..).

I do experience this kind of situation before.
My advice was be sporting. You wouldn't expect the girl to take the first move to talk to you.

So you as a guy, just take it as normal and talk to her. Then just tell her straight forward "we can be still friend right? =) "

You shudn't move so fast.

Hell yeah bash him more!!!! wake him up inside.

well, it all depends on the other party, if she is open enough to appreciate your confession and still treat you as a friend, then just remain as friends, but try not to talk to her that often anymore, and try not to view her fb profile unless you are sure that you are strong enough to take it, let time be the healer.
if she refuses to treat you as friend, seems to avoid you, then move on, there're mny fishes in the sea.

never confess unles you're 100% sure that he/she has interest in you too

meaning you only get to watch from afar until you had the nerve to confess to him.. or else just wait at a corner while watching another gal snatch your guy in front of you lor

he has someone that he likes so no point clinging to him let alone confess ..after all already got the answer

if the option is closed, try look for another alternative lor.