To those unlucky fuglies who got rejected, you might think that when you been rejected by someone you admire a lot or "love" for all I care, you think that "I will try again and again until he/she accepts me". Well I tell you this, persistance is one thing but complete anoyying is another.

1. You might have this idiotic self concious in the back of your thick head saying "He/she is playing hard to get (jual mahal)".


2. You have this idiotic concept of persistance is somehow noble and show her your sincerity.


3. No is NO. Simple as that!


4. Persistance is annoyying.


5. You can't force someone to like you.


6. Don't push him/her to the max.


Hate me all you can, I know I speak the truth. Don't live in denial.

This post has been edited by Evangelistica: Jul 19 2010, 05:23 PM

+999999999

Don't just be persistence blindly. Find out the problem & tackle each of them:

i) Is money an issue?


ii) Is look an issue?


iii) Is it your oral hygiene?


iv) Is it your sense of fashion?


Last but not least, does she have someone in mind?

thanks for adding.

Hahaha, this sounds much better =D

let see what those people still in denial will flame me..

Hahahaha, well, there are always those who cannot accept the truth, for accepting the truth will destroy them.

i rike it!!

Its about time you write down all your failures. Its good to admit you were annoyingly persistent before.

If only you could do something to rearrange your face, but well, i think sunshine attitudes would suffice.

U sure you're not looking at one who cannot accept the truth? This is like the third same thread I read from TS. Yea, what he pointed out is true....SO? Set your goal differently la!

Face or attitude? I think its attitude. Negativity will only chase ppl away.

I'm blind,

I will go on and on reminding those unfortunates. I wont stop. You dun like, so be it...

Agree. persistent won't work for everyone.

ts kena dump againnnn?

nope.just to remind to some people who still living in denial.

i like it when other guys are persistent, makes it easier for me to score with the ladies.

haven't they heard..."bunga bukan sekuntum"..."there are more then one flower in the garden.."

This post has been edited by atria83: Jul 6 2010, 02:31 PM

Who taught or influenced you to be persistant in the first place ?

True points; the more you chase a dog, the farer he will go away.

Paksa takde Bahagia!

Forcing doesn't bring Happiness!

lol

persistence only works for girls with self esteem issues coz they so easily give in. later u complain "oh why my gf so lousy, alw do what i say, no backbone!"

doh

this thread has to be pinned on CC permanently

lengzai persistance girl sure say romantic.
ugly persistance girl sure say annoying.

u can say that again, sista! LMAO

hahaha, i rike to read TS's thread, somewhat funny+reality

persistance doesn't work all the time.

guys also need to use some tactics and the right timing

This post has been edited by vivienne85: Jul 6 2010, 09:22 PM

reality bites.

Reality yes, funny...err...annoying?

QFT! How many females has Edison nailed? His persistance = right to bed with multiple pretty girls and to take their pictures with his batang. Lengzai power..

This post has been edited by SwooshY: Jul 7 2010, 03:52 AM

Are you one of them in the past?

I thought persistance doesn't work for everyone? You seem persistent on sharing your sad life with the whole world ... it only works for you or you change your thoughts as and when it suits you? Be consistent man ...

by sharing my f*cked up life, i hope to enlight few people.

This thread is so f** fact.

i am persistent

+1

those persistent guys scenario in those tv dramas isnt gonna happen in real life.
so stop watching those lovey dovey drama and stop listening to lovey dovey shit songs.

think i wanna subscribe to evangelistica's posts. wahahaha

Neek your picture <<< is it you or other people? With that you can be slightly lovey dovey but if over then she says bye bye too..

This post has been edited by SwooshY: Jul 7 2010, 06:32 PM

You again!! Get a grip brother!

No wonder there's another post about guys becoming p*ssies....so what if girls reject you? Izzit the end of the world???? Ya, it hurts when you try to go after a girl and she turns you down/treats you like a doormat...SO??? You wanna crash your face down and start whining or posting the same old thread about how girls are b*tches or wh*res or whateveryoucallit? Smart move....very smart.

what can be done bro, some ppl tends to blame others rather than accepting the hurtful fact

For ppls info...I was rejected many times. Heck...still?????! Do I make a fuss????? My life is not limited to just girls girls girls. Just because you got rejected 5-10 times you start making stupid repeato thread. No confidence at all, no wonder TS can only suck attention from internet forum. Sad case.

O-wait....TS will say "go f*ck ur mum's tits la...." "Dun like thn f*ck off la" "Go s*ck cock la". My reply will be....


SO???? Thats the best you can come up with?

This post has been edited by [F]atalit[Y]: Jul 7 2010, 08:20 PM

Yes thats me.
i have no issues with the fairer sex, lovey dovey or not. i'm just playing along with TS' post. i find them very entertaining.

Dear Evan,
Lets see, you think you are fugly. Went all in on a pretty chick whom you think had fool you, your heart, your dignity, your time and your money.
Anything you wanna add on for you so called f*cked up life.

As i expect, many idiots and denial-ees will see this offensive, while I just want to remind some people who still lives in his fairy fairy land far far away where everything is beautiful.

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Added on July 8, 2010, 10:29 amBy all means, welcome aboard.

This post has been edited by Evangelistica: Jul 8 2010, 10:29 AM

No I don't find your statement offensive, I can't agree more on what you put down.

Question is why would you feel like you got fcked up in life simply because you got rejected. People get cheated, betrayed or neglected in a relationship which is painful. You haven't even started a relationship and yet you were so hurt? I don't get it.

i think he simply has too much negative energy in him liao.

I'm not talking about me, im reminding those denial-ees out there that unwanted persistance leads to nothing.

if a person already in denial mode, do u think he/she will listen to the advice in dis thread?
he/she in denial mode will also deny ur advice.

let dem learn from natural course, let dem fall, let dem hurt, let dem feel the pain....it's the best way.

true. im just gently knocking some senses. up to them to realize or terasa. hahaha..

Its FURTHER.

hey Evangelistica,my gay mate!!!!

i sense something; when a gal sense that you are going to confess she will tell you that she still lke her ex, or cant forget the person she love...

i kena once, she told me that she like a guy and whenever she saw him with other gal she will feel 'heart pain'... and wtf i tot she just sharing her damn problem wit me becoz we were discussing about relationship that time...and i tot i going to 'sucess'...but at the end she tell me to take that as a friend conversation and she said she dont want a relationship.... indirectly she just asking me to Fck.Off.......i wonder will she said that if the other guy(he oredi gt gf but she like) said tat to her...

when we dont confess we are call balles...grow a pair....no 2inc....

when we confess we are call despredo...stupid stalker.....

so conclusion is fall in love with ourselve rite??

Conclusion is your face sucks and your ketiak stinks. You dunno how to tackle the girl, waffor she want to accept your love? You didn't even impress her romantically nor appealed to her sensitivities and sensualness. Who would want you?

ya...im nt goodlooking, body sometimes stinks, dono to tackle gal, not romantic(most suxk thing)......
any suggestion??

use your mouth la.

fill it with honey and sugar, and make your woman sweet sweet and make her feel horny korny.

and im a dono to talk..quiet kid...anti-sosial.....always shy shy de...nt to mention humor samo...

Im also anti social, shy, but if u have the character like TS, u can wait for eternity for a girl to like u. Filled with stupid negativsm.

Then girls are off

you should try guys. Male bonding is gooding

hmm...guys?? ok...maybe after Evangelistica....you will be in my target list...welcome...

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Added on July 9, 2010, 6:18 ambut Ah-du ask us to 坚持到底!!!!



This post has been edited by slayer12: Jul 9 2010, 06:18 AM

slayer12 you should go die la..

I think Evan is making out with some hot chicks now. He is brainwashing you guys. When you take his advice and starting to act like a sissy douchebag, he wins and he gets all the hot stuffs.

Boys you either choose to become a man or a douchebag, your call.

If he is also, not my problem. Not even close to my attention. If he isn't, thn its just to say he's a douchebag. That's why u see nobody layans his posts except to give him tiny bits of orgasm by agreeing with him.

Evan was right at some point, what he put down makes perfect sense.

Characters differeciate a person.
When a loser lose, he gives up. No hope, and will not try it again. Sitting at the back of the keyboard blaming everyone including himself. Spreading his awful experience to enlighten the lost ones. He thinks he is telling the truth and truth hurts. Agree but it is only the truth for loser.

When a winner lose, he keeps trying. He may never win but he tries his best hoping for the best. When it reaches a point where success is a never, he walks away with no regret. Experience is what he gains. He will be better off next time. Or he may just get what he had wished for because of all the effort he put in.

Neither do I say he is wrong. But whining like its the end of his life? Don't u think its unfruitful?

I explain, not whine. while youn kept on replying when you said my thread was not your attention. or you whine at my thread also.

If ure explaining, why are u repeating nonstop?

because some idiots just wont understand and still live in his la la land.

Then let them be. Its their choice. Some people are beyond salvage.

Nope. I just love to spread the misery so they will learn, and doubt. Doubt is good. I just dont want them to become f*cked up like me.

How f**ked up were u in the past?

Corrected..


This post has been edited by Evangelistica: Jul 9 2010, 06:52 PM

+XXX!
i agree with u dude
u do make me wake up
cause it somehow sounds like the uglytruth to things

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Added on July 10, 2010, 12:25 amif there was a "like" button like in FB i would have liked it hahah

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Added on July 10, 2010, 12:30 amit might be the only way
but the truth is why are the hurt feeling this way is because
they thought they had done their best
they thought they had do all they could
they worked hard for wad they wanted
they just happen to fail on the way..
so dun give up is all i can say. sometimes u need luck in these things
and many other factors come into hand at the sametime

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Added on July 10, 2010, 12:33 amagreed! +1!

This post has been edited by starpillow: Jul 10 2010, 12:33 AM

persistence can always be done in either smart or dumb ways

care to elaborate more Mr dattebayo? you said you're 50 something. sure there's something you can guide us.

Totally agree with TS~!! should have posted this earlier...by a few months...needed something to pull me back up...
anyways nice thread and very 'detailed' explanation of "Persistence"...

and yes, dattebayo...please do elaborate and share with us more...

I was persistent, but she didn't tell me that she was annoyed until the end (or the max, as Evangelistica put it).

She kept telling me she was busy only; I guess this was one sign, but I didn't think of it that way. *shrug* Already got blocked and all that; oh well...

The more you look witnout actio,the further the dog rum

Proves that I'm speaking the truth and not "whining" as some smart-ass claimed.

persistance to winning love is just a myth

This post has been edited by gh0sty: Jul 11 2010, 11:32 PM

owh really?Me being persistance ending up getting the girl I want.I spent 2 years trying to court this girl and all this while she said she is not ready or said to me that I already know her answers.

However time well spent and in the the same girl is madly in love with me right now. Been together for almost 3 years right now.

It happens most of the time, Evangelistica.

She saying she was "busy" was before I told her my feelings, though; maybe she could see through my actions as to how I felt about her, but that doesn't make sense, then. It's not like I was bugging her before I told her.

AzureOfSky: She said she's not ready; not a big fat NO (yes, it might mean the same thing ><). That's kinda different, I suppose. Evangelistica is saying for those who has solid and firm "NO"s for replies.

Don't flame mee >< Just sayingg

"not ready" is another classic "on the hook" phrase.

the actual meaning is....."b my doormat while i'm waiting for some1 hotter".

at first she did say No.Even asked me to go find and look for other girls. I do have to add that she is one of the anti-guy type of the girl. In the end its all depends on the girl and ur techniques.



Not in my case. Since I'm the first guy she ever go out and fell in love with.

This post has been edited by AzureOfSky: Jul 12 2010, 12:40 AM

i'm very sure dat she thinks dat u r bellow her league at dat time.....

thinking she can bag a better guy den den.
eventually, she just settles for u.

wisely said.

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This post has been edited by Evangelistica: Jul 12 2010, 09:38 AM

sometimes, u need to know that "he/she is just not into u"... very rarely that by remaining persistant, the other person will finally open up his.her heart to u unless ur imagining it like in the dramas. instead of wasting ur effort waiting and hoping and moping, isnt it better to try other fishes?

sh1tty love dramas should be banned because what they portrayed is far from the truth, misleading and sadly, many unfortunate fuglies are entertained by it and sparks the angan angan in their heads.

As long as people don't mix the dramas and reality up lol

it's unlikely.

What if, u like the gal so so so so so much.....that even you tried to forget her alot alot alot of time by when in class u see her sitting nxt to your (love enemy-crossing her left facing him)...your heat felt damn damn damn damn pain...cannot focus study dy....

so is like, if u lost her, u would like lost your direction in life....ur feeling just cant let her go.....eventhough u tried many time.....so isnt persisting is better as u still got hope ??

nope. unwanted persistence is loathing, and degrading yourself in the process as well..

yes that phrase "I will wait for you" is sooo lame. yea go ahead and wait for the impossible. most of the time, when the girls dun like means they dun like. the more u linger arnd, the more they get tired of u stalking em. why not just channel that "waiting" energy and that persistence into tackling others worth tackling? if u reject drinking pee, persistance will not change the fact no matter how long u wait.

Yup, lets brainwash those unfortunate idiots who thought otherwise.

Hahahaha.my goodness.I cant believe these kind of reply.owh well,you can go on thinking whatever you like.man,you guys really give me a good laugh.

goodluck on whatever you guys doing.Peace.

n fyi,none of you all said are true.but up to you to believe or not.I'll be having the last n best laugh after all.lol

Then with all do respect, have your laugh in a corner alone, Mr AzureOfSky. Please bring your popcorns, porn whatever and go fap somewhere else. Peace...

Persistance will not work if you didn't try to improve your life at the same time, in that I agree, being blindly persistent is stupid indeed.

Imagine you and the other person are at the same point now and she has rejected you.

Now, instead of dwelling on it, try to improve your life instead, make it a source of motivation for you, date others and give others a chance to appreciate you further.

Years on maybe you'll meet the same person at a different point of both of your life and maybe, maybe you stand a chance if both of you are available, ready and she saw the growth in you as a person.

Or

You could dwell on it, and persistently making the same mistake over and over and over again, while standing at the same point where you are now while she has moved on to the other point of her life.

Peace

This post has been edited by Gr3yL3gion: Jul 12 2010, 05:59 PM

i dont think by just improving ourselves will turn a "No" to "Yes", not until the other party undoubtly, without force, genuinely starts to have feelings towards you.

To wait for a person isn't stupid; it's how you do it that's stupid.

Let's say if a person thinks to wait for the girl without doing anything; just waiting, not improving himself and giving blind persistence now and then. This is stupid.

However, if a person were to wait (as in not date others; maybe he just can't forget the girl and doesn't wanna date others) and improve himself whilst waiting, this guy is surely not stupid. At least he's not blindly doing something.