why not??? ere's no rules stated dat guys n gals couldnt make as frens...well 4 me, i have more boy friends den gurlfrens....n im cool n happiee wit it...i dun fall for them..but actually its a new thing oredy..

sometimes quite hard ... the boy may fall for the gurl or vice versa .. but not impossible lar ...

sometimes can wan la..it happens 2 me..my own close fren fall iinto me...kinda awkward....

Definately. Its more like brother-sister relationship to b exact.

I hv a few good frens of d opposite sex n we can really talk crap or anything under d sun. But for my case where i hv a gf, i prefer to let her noe n meet d ppl close to me so tat she wont misunderstand.

ya, is possible! but not much!

handsome guy with ugly gal, yes can be just good friend
handsome guy with pretty gal, no way! not just friend anymore, more than husband and wife relationship, "tong kui", u know.

my opinion, definitely not for ex-couples (despite the 'we are still frens' declaration)...anyway, i always prefer guys for frens...no rivalry ma...girls can be pretty mean to each other...but then the sexual tension....hmm...depends on individual...it'll be easier if not so attractive...otherwise, tough...i did something wrong with a 'fren' before...

me and my ex are still good frenz... and yes, u r right... its easier to do the 'wrong' when u find each other attractive

i knew this one girl few years back coz she always lepak with us. im not even talk much with her. but recently we're getting closer and closer, almost everyday we went out together until our friends thought that 'something' goes on between us. when we lepak together they asking a killer questions.

i denied and refused to answer them. few days later she suddenly changed and we are not 'that' close anymore. she told me that she don't like people talking about us. so then i'm a bit sad coz i can't go out with her as always like before. she's been a good partner to me.

i can't hide that i starting to like her but when i think about what she said that she dont like people talking about us so i think i better keep my feelings and just being a friend to her

My friend once told me this... No matter how close a guy and a girl can be bestest of friends, the guy will always have a thought of fuxxing that girl in the corner of his mind.

Nowadays, I believe this applies to girls as well. We live in a fair world now, mutual respect, mutual needs. What men can do, women can do better!

all i know is when the relationship become better n better the boy/girl will fallin in love wif the girl/boy........

possibilities of being a gud fren only is 10% ( tat oso ole d higher )

Simple - if you want to make friends - shag them first; you create fcukbuddy friendship and emotional relationship is not built.

As to ex-lovers being friends, why not? If they split with no hard feelings it's fine. It only requires respect for each other, no insecurity and being grown up emotionally.

Wow.. you just made into my dumb and dumber list. I never seen anyone so shallow as you man! You are the man!

I used to have a very close girl friend and now she's my lover.

Shallow? Hmmmm well maybe if years of experience indeed make me dumb. Else you are just so naive... Usually being young = being naive. I guess you're still in your early 20s?

me and my close girl friend...we sort of made it known (indirectly) that we are really good buddies...we share a lot of stuffs...we even teach each other to tackle guys/girls...besides...she's totally not my type...so i guess we're alright... =)

yeah why not le?

It's really depends on individual...
But, whatever so, you partner will be not happy with it if like that...

why not.... girls and boys, men and womens, uncle and aunties can be good 'ol friends.


i have 6 female good close friends.

and 43 female good friends.

and 72 female friends.

and 205 female hi and bye friends.

no way....if a gurl is nice to a boy...then she will have the hots for his boy 'fren' if the boy is her taste or the boy tak layan her....

the samething to a gurl...she cant be a boys best fren coz if she is too hot to handle...then Free!!! Free!!! Free Bump Bump!...just like the sitcomm FRIENDS...and the boy will have the hots for her Gurl 'fren' but the gurl just tak layan..."frens is just frends ok!!"<---ever heard this phrase guys???