i was dating wif a gal that has been developing well for around 2 months+ dy...

until recently she keep mention to me that she's going out to hav a drink wif her frens... (mostly is guy) and those guys are known to hav feel to her... actually im ok with whoever she wanted to go out with... but everytime she'll go till very late and she need to wake up early in the morning (6.30a.m) to get prepare... when she's with her fren she dont like me to bother her! eg; sms or calls...

things continue to happen until 1 day i cant stand of it and im telling her that i am abit angry while we're on the fone...

the next day she's telling me that she was in bad mood and asking me not to bother her ! ok... then things became worst as she's starting to feel feedup by ignoring my calls and sms !!! i told her we need a talk ... she was not willing to do it and instead telling my frens that she NEEDS TIME to calm down.

at first i thought nth serious as she told my fren she wanted some time,space, and privacy... she felt that i locked her too much i cant get any chance to talk to her now ... i've try to send her msg... but she get annoyed and telling me not to msg her anymore during this period ... she told me that she juz need some time... what is that??? what's the meaning of this ? should i wait ?


im feeling depressing now... what can i do to win her heart back ?

This post has been edited by StarNet: Mar 30 2010, 12:51 AM

Probably should just go and check out what is she doing behind ur back....

Don't bother la.
Why do guys like to waste their time on girls who won't waste their time on them.

U orang 2inci? if yes, dump that selfish girl. If no, dump that inconsiderate girl for your sake.

Agree. Had a similar experience with a girl but she's not my gf. Very wild and uncontrollable/doesn't like to be confronted and very defensive when she's clearly in the wrong. Good luck if you decide to stick with her.

When girl say she wants time, it means to tell you to get the fly out, and shut the fly up, and not disturb her go eat people's sosej.

If i were you, i will ignore her liao and look for other girls, since she has no consideration about you nor even want to talk to you. If a relationship has no communication, its as good as gone. Even deaf mute people talk with their hands. Problem is, her hands are busy groping someone elses sosej instead of yours.

So please move on.

btw i've juz place an order for flowers... will sent to her office tml...

if she stil cant feel anything of it... i dunno what else can i do...

i am really like her...

my fren advised me not to call or sms her oledi by now... wait her to call back .. he said when gals dun bother u means she really wont bother u ...

This post has been edited by StarNet: Mar 30 2010, 01:22 AM

why waste money on flowers?

if her heart dont even have you anymore, no amount of gifts is useful. If she has heart for you, you dont even need gift.

correct ...support
she doesn't put u in the 1st place. what the heck so important cannot take ur call when she with her fren, fill the blank
this girl very childish i would say.

better dump her... dun waste time, ur future on her not so promising.

if i were u buddy i just break up with her didn't mean to be cruel but all this 2 month together i believe most of precious memories between ya n her then suddenly she's ignoring you just dump her buddy they are lots of gurl out there are waiting for a good guy such as ya

aiya..juz break up...ther is still many gals in the world..^^

Just let her go. not worth wasting your effort.

say easier than done... sometimes, it is just too hard to dump someone u

really love... u will suffer even dun talk to her for like 24 hours...

is she ur gf?

I guess she is starting to like others compared to you.

No offense tho

well.. you try watch this video..

http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=...59460337&ref=nf

There planty of gal out there.. No offence ya..

this is what im suffering now... im am willing to wait becos i love her very much... what can i do ? wait for another week and see how ?

i have another solution... that is to secretly spy her after work... see who she's going out wif and what she did... my heart juz can't calm down.. although she told me she treat them as frens only... but my heart juz cant take it when she going out wif them oftenly...

This post has been edited by StarNet: Mar 30 2010, 08:09 AM

next play..u need to have more than 2 gf..i tell you..hehe

well.... alots of ppl gave me different advice... most asked me to put this relationship a side and look for the others... some asked me to continue to wait and said she'll find me back when she's ok and asked me dun msg or calls as this will worsen the things...

well i hate waiting seriously.. the waiting period were damn sucks and suffer...

LOL! he just dated for
2 mths! not that deep yet laa...still can climb out of the hole...a man cannot sulk sulk cry cry whine whine 24/7 .... it will only turn the gal off...



aiyo, get a life please. u so free go and spy on her meh? dont u tink it will make things worse by spying and peeping on people?

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Added on March 30, 2010, 8:16 amu cannot rush love.

This post has been edited by BoboTheGrouch: Mar 30 2010, 08:16 AM