Since when respectable ever need to demand respect from others? Only people who like you who has not earn your respect will demand so much just to cover your own mistakes and protect your "min-chi" (face, pride in Cantonese).
And that gives one an excuse for bad English huh?

Because you are not happy that people are able to pinpoint your mistakes SO WELL, that's why.

How can I correct you when, because you are not able to put forward your query in a way that I can understand, I don't even know what you are asking for?

It has nothing to do with grammar. It has nothing to with "coolness" (In fact, I am perfectly aware I am one of the least "cool" people, by any metric, to the world at large). It has nothing to do with "looking down" at anyone or anything. It has nothing to do with pride.

And mistakes are not a bad thing, as long as one learns from it. (How else do you think I pick up Mandarin?)

You say your learning to improve your English but instead of trying to use proper English everywhere necessary you do not try and improve yourself by writing proper English be it Australian English or whatever when asking a for help? If you don't ask the right questions you will never get the right answers. Why aren't you typing proper English when using the Internet? Do you think it is inappropriate or irrelevant? The internet is among the best place to try and improve yourself without people knowing who you are.

You should use proper English wherever is necessary in order to improve your Language so that this kind of situation don't happen and in this context where it has been warned to use proper English when asking for help here it is totally necessary to use proper English.

In the end, you still care about your "min-chi" (pride). If you got so much pride, how to learn? If you really feel uncomfortable or felt like people are looking down on you, it's because you care too much about your pride.

Not really. There are people who are smart enough to feel humble, and can still learn despite being criticized.

Haha. Don't know what you're laughing about, except that you're the one getting criticized here be it for the language, or for your attempt to save yourself from embarrassment.

Haven't you met some really humble people in life who can still learn properly despite after being criticized?

And why are you not satisfied? Cannot accept that your integrity is lost because you got criticized for it?

And why are you not satisfied? Cannot accept that your integrity is lost because you got criticized for it?

And when you mentioned that you did not have the same principle as me, so you're admitting that because you do care about your "min-chi" more?

I am following everything you said.

You said you can accept people who can pinpoint your mistakes, but you want people to do it nicer because you don't like people being HARSH to you, even though it isn't.

I am saying you FELT harsh because your pride, nothing less, nothing more, and you cared too much about it that you made a trivial issue as if it's damaging your self-esteem.

I'll point it out.
What about this?

Why did it sounded offensive to you, and not to others?

Have you ever asked?