no vasectomy or condom...

i am looking for the best way but reasonably price and if possible less pain....

my friend told me IUD is good...

are they any other options? since i love having sex without condom it feels alot better ...

anyone been through the process? how was it? how much ? thanks

mod : i hope its ok to ask this question here thanks.

Thought about pills?

heard that if taken correctly it is very effective.

wont IUD like damage the lining of your uterus?

buy noriday or postinor at ur nearest pharmacy

pls dont take medicine i suggest..it wil effect yr child in future..

Juz count a day..Start counting it on the days u period,which is means day 1....If usually ur period will end a week(7days), means day 7 lo...& the next day will b a day..8,9,10 & 11 (safe for having sex)...Every women women have 28 rounding day for our uterus/ovari..Day 1 which means ur first day of period ON THAT MONTH (not ur first period on ur age 12)..Dun mistaken k..

Day 12 will quit dangerous la..try to avoid having sex on day 12...

Every 13,14,15 of the days will very easy to get pregnant,try to not having sex during tis 3 days..But mostly i will try to avoid having sex start on days 12 until day 16 (5days).....Start on day 17 will be safe to having sex d...

Must start record on the day u period on tat month..Cuz sometime our period r not 'come' on same day of last month..Sometimes will b early & sometime will late too...So u dun need to worry,juz start record on the day ur period 'come'...

This is real..If u r not believe me,u can try to do reserch on ur Form 3 (Bab 1) & Form 5 Science text book

Or ask ur bf/husband shoot their sperm out la..but he must b very expert & fast...

This post has been edited by chrisw: Nov 17 2009, 01:19 AM

^ that is a flawed technique. Different people different cycle duration. Not covered in your sasbadi reference book.

tats y i need u to record down the day u start period on tat month...not the last month k...Every month is different...tats y every women will count on different day...i did not means start counting on 1st of the every month k?...I means start counting on the day ur period 'come'...

This post has been edited by chrisw: Nov 17 2009, 01:55 AM

lies.

Transdermal birth control patch can be very effective in birth control.

i'm using B.C. pils...
i find it ok for me....

i have friends who is using IUD. they didn't complain anything also.

For me , postinor would be my last solution.
u have to read the instruction properly.
and taking too much , will ruin your period cycle. Since it makes ur period come 3-5 days later after you take the pils.
max 2 box / month.
i don't recommand it.

thank you for all input guys

would u like share more about B.C pills? where do i get this? and how do u eat them ? ie every day or 1 once a month?

This post has been edited by Michi: Nov 17 2009, 04:40 AM

I have to say in theory, it works well. Some women cycle are so accurate that it works for them. For others, its a lottery. The best and most accurate way to pinpoint ovulation is by either temperature monitoring or buying a kit in pharmacy that detect certain hormones changes inside the vagina.

So dont go missing if your GF suddenly misses her period and came here to create a new thread 'abortion'.

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Added on November 17, 2009, 8:56 amYou better think wisely whether you really wanna take it or not. There are so many BC pills on the market and dare you say not even one of the women had their fertility affected? Though I have to say its a really low percentage of them. I think the best BC pills is Yasmin. It came in 30tablet and take it according to the precription which is 1tablet/day.

If you aint married, ask your BF to wear condom better. Not only its contraception, it also help with STD prevention.

This post has been edited by -Velvet-: Nov 17 2009, 08:56 AM

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This post has been edited by eif: Mar 9 2010, 10:48 PM

50% will agree . 50% will disagree.
50% say it has effect on pregnancy. 50% says it won't , it is safe.

So it's all depend on you only. If you are worried, it's best to find a gynae to talk... til you are satisfied. , ease your worries.
It's just about RM30-RM50 a session , to ease your worries. Better than to think and think and think and stress about it .

Birth control pils are available in pharmarcy.
Diff brand give diff effect. Some with higher dos , some lower.

Effects : weight gain , unstable temper , etc...
Good effects : control your acne prob , makes your period circulation better , etc...

i eat it every 21 days , rest for 7 days.
advisable to eat at the same time everyday. but i dun really take note in that. LoL.

Best is dun do. I dun want pills to have effects on my gf whether is short term or long term.

Even its has its own benefits but we never know the long term effect.
or it may cause addiction to her, she may not notice it.

There is a possibility that if one day she dun take, the body start to react as if its hunger for the chemical reaction that it has for a period. Well conclusion is best dun take.

Agreed with u man..........

the thing is tat sumtime those girl wait for her period to come waaaaay to long and then have 2 result 2 abortion...if discovered early...they just insert a vacumm tube inside n then suck out the ovum which is starting to stick to the wall of the *****

This is truly, truly stupid.

imo, if u follow the counting period days technique, ur bf will more likely to ejaculate inside when the so called "safe" days to have sex. the better way is to discuss with ur partner once in a while, cos they might not be too aware of it if u dun talk to him/her after long time.
cos nowadays people loves to try new n newer things.

What I meant was that different people have different cycle durations, eg. some have 4 week cycles, some 5 week cycles and some even longer. I'm not talking about specific dates.

Is it me or does eif look like chrisw's dupe?

Hey girl, there's something call the Cervical Cap if you haven't heard about it. But I'm not sure whether we can get it in Msia.
You can ask your gynae about it. I would like to get it too if anyone actually comes across it. If I'm not mistaken, the gynae will insert it for you.

More information about cervical cap.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-to...l-cap-20487.htm

Actually for my case, whenever I'm fertile and had unprotected sex, I'll just turn to Postinor2. Save all the trouble worrying and waiting for menses to come.

Regarding BC Pills, you should ask your gynae about it because certain BC pills might have an effect in the future, such as can't conceive or effects on the baby. I'm sure they are pills that can minimize effects. I took the pills once and my mood swings was awful. I argue with my bf for almost 4 or 5 times in a day when we went on holiday. So I don't really like the pills.

I also follow the theory of sex during unfertile period and it works quite well for me since my period is quite stable. And I know that I'm ovulating by monitoring my vaginal discharge.

I dont know in English, But Its Like Tanam Sesuatu Di Bawah Kulit.
Ask Normal clinic, they will know.

i think postinor is a 'morning after' pill rather than prevention. it has side effects and is not recommended as a regular thing, only when u 'terbuat'. i think it increases the risk of breast cancer and messes up the cycle as well

First of all, I seriously can't imagine the amount of misconception and myths about the pill and the most effective contraceptive methods stated here... I'm horrified!

Ejaculating during the "safe period" does not work! no NO!! Sperms can survive for about max 3-5 days (not sure). So if you ovulate on day 14, and have sex on day 9 thinking you're in the "safe zone", Baaammm! You'll be having sleepless nights for the next 1 year....and 9 mths! (LOL). Thta's because the sperm can survive up to when ovulation occurs and then...fertilisation takes place, and the rest is history.

The pill is the most effective method. Try Yaz instead (Yasmin's sister:)). A couple of my friends are on it. It's the only OC (oral contraception) in Malaysia indicated for the treatment of mild/moderate acne AND treatment of PMDD (a more severe form of PMS). It's also the only birth control pill that has proven properties of preventing fluid retention (hence no weight gain) and antiandrogenic properties (positive benefits on the skin). Please do check out the the new 24/4 pill. Instead of taking the usual 21 days, then stop 7 days. a 24 days, then stop 4 days is much better; as it promotes compliance and less hormone fluctuations (no mood swings...etc).

If I have a girlfriend, I'd definitely want the best for her. The Pill has advanced much over the past 5 decades. The non-contraceptive benefitsare well proven and known.

Aha, and the good news is, do check out theYes, I Can Challengecontest offering a prize of RM10,000! Join the facebook fan page.I find the website to be truly informative. Just visit, read and get educated!

the best and no side effect way to u and ur gal is use condom...
pill = chemical = birng side effect , no matter how the scientis mention no side effect bla bla bla...it might due to our current technology cannot detect the side effect now. but god know after 3-5-8 years only found out that is side effect...it already harm ur gf...then how??
or u already break with her, then u ruin her life!
Think twice before u did it...Gals please think if ur bf ask u do it...
Ask him back, y don u use condon...n it is easy to clean the mess!

Dude, love u gf, care about her health...Use condon...else no sex!!

LOL, before ejaculate pull out the d*ck lo

u can try implanon . they will insert a tiny needle inside ur arm, its effection is for 3 years

ya...i study this before...

i know im going to be flamed here but STILL the best is ABSTINENCE

implanon insertion sometimes cause skin rash and unsightly scarring, and some cases, after a few years, there might be difficulty finding its location as it "moves" in the arm.

While one has to take the pill everyday, given the benefits of the pill (prevents miscarriages, cancer..etc), I still feel the pill is the best option. www.yesican.com.my has a good resource on this.

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Added on May 12, 2011, 4:34 pmCheck out IUS.

You might want to check out the newer 24/4oral contraception pill.

This post has been edited by sojourner: May 12 2011, 04:34 PM

noriday vs yasmin vs postinor, which is good?

Yasmin of course

Postinor is ECP. It's called EMERGENCY for a reason.

i heard many bad things on yasmin


yep

friend took yasmin, got mood swings, sudden crying,,, then decrease libido. better consult gynae

yup. that's what i heard among many other things, but it seems the most popular contraption pill these days