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Serious 24 and still never had a relationship, No gf until now, I am 24

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TSredracer2004
post Nov 18 2009, 05:09 PM

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QUOTE(jacktai @ Nov 18 2009, 05:02 PM)
Anyway I totally agree to the story, please appreciate people beside you. Guys & Girls, please don't always think that in the future you will meet a better guys or girls. Time fly, & your spring are limited. Don't wait till when you are near 30's (especially Girls) still very choosy for guys.

I have seen that some nice guys (good looking & kind) keep approach the girls, but saw that the girl never respond to guy kindness & approach, just treat him as a friend. Anyway try to look around nice guys is not all everywhere, so as girls. So please don't over demand your partner, you not perfect as well, when someone which good enough, try lower down your requirement & accept him/she, being a relationship doesn't mean you will get married with he/she. If anything don't go well, you can always go back to ground zero/break up.

I can see that especially Chinese who are so conservative, thinking being relationship mean must get married in future. You never know who suit you the best, unless you try being together.

Good Luck to every Guys & Girls.
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Yup, the story really did touch my heart although I am a guy but I know that girls do jual mahal which is stupid. There are actually more details to the story, cousin actually tried to date Lily for at least 6 times but she never agreed. She will say not now, next time or busy, later, kind of crap. EVERY MALE IN THE WORLD WILL THINK SHE'S NOT INTERESTED but mana tau she's actually playing hard to get. She explained to cousin that she wanted to test cousin's endurance to see how determined is he to pursue her so she can judge how much she will be loved in the future. Now, it's too late. She can't turn back time anymore and I heard she's become over sensitive. Whenever a guy dates her out, she will immediately agree and ask him if he's going after her.
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post Nov 19 2009, 08:46 AM

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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Nov 18 2009, 08:50 PM)
TV and comic is not a good way to generalize all koreans and japanese are awesome, look at Rain - before & after, and many other pop artists - before & after
normally it was her female siblings or even worse - her mom taught her to jual mahal
because for some women of dominant nature which also happens to have a very tolerable spouse, tends to think that every single women should behave like that when it comes to choosing partner.
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But isn't that stupid to think this way? Don't tell me if a guy who stops at the first few tries when rejected doesn't love a girl as much as a guy who never stops trying even REJECTED gazillion of times?. If there are other choices around, why bother to be so persistent? Only when guys got not much choices tend to be persistent and that doesn't mean the guy will love the girl more.
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post Nov 19 2009, 12:45 PM

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QUOTE(nimrod323 @ Nov 19 2009, 10:38 AM)
i'd be worried if i am girl i would think that guy is an obsessive compulsive person.
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You're normal. I've heard some stories that some girls actually boast about how hard guys tried to woo them. They even feel it is a glory to have turned down a guy who tried berpuluh-pulh kali and still hasn't given up. As for that Lily, I think she followed her friends too much. According to cousin, one of Lily's friends rejected a guy for 3 months until finally she agrees to go on a date with him, and finally being a couple. The friend told Lily that it's vital to keep a girl's dignity to jual mahal so that you won't be regarded as cheap.

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