My situation is like this....Im an IT guy....always serve other companies for servicing...

I met this girl working one of the companies im servicing....

Been frenz with her like 3 years now....just normal frenz nothing much...meaning to say we never hang out, we never really texting....only when servicing their company's pc stuff.

With the 5 steps noob showed in this thread, its her who showed this 1,2, and 4 stuff....over and over again for the last 3 years..whenever i went to her office, she never fail to give her full attention to me (whenever she's not bz)...i always play along and act cool....like she always good eye contact and always smile at me whenever she's talking to me....always touchy2 whenever she's got oppurtunity.. ..she's attractive to my eyes, but somehow i never see myself with her.......not because im too good, but the opposites, she's too good to be true to my eyes....and im really noob about this realtionship stuff.....just like 1st class noob

And one day, when i went to her office, she said to me that soon she will resign from her current company she's workin....she's letting me know because she dont want me to feel that im searching for her when she's gone...
This really just like i've been struck by lightning....somehow I felt like she's telling me something....to read between the lines......

All this years, i tried to denied that she attracted to me...but somehow i convince that she's really attracted to me....when she told me about her resignation, its felt like a timebomb.....

What you guys view on this? Thanks..


Sorry for the english, hopefully u guys can understand

Well dude, she's not interested....~! I believe most of us learnt the hard way that includes me
The one is really interested in you WILL replied you back...and if unable to reply, she will get back to you and give you reason(s) why she not able to reply.....its the basic things actually, just some guys including you and me and others easily melts/stutter/dumb when it comes to girls/crush.....haha