Oh yes, I thought of blogging it once but decided not to. I have a best friend and willing to hear me out, Not hear though, just MSN. But, it helps me a lot. At least I will not mind if he feels annoying.
You stated cut off all contacts included delete his no. right?? I wanna do that as well because I did that with my previous few ex-es but they contacted me back after a few years. But, this current-just-over-ex, it's hard too because I scare I can'd him anymore

Sometimes I wanted to find someone who can hear me but then I don't feel any better, don't know why but I really do appreciate one of a friend I know who has been there with me when I was really down after I broke up late last year.

Yea I wanted to cut off but I couldn't, and I remember his hp no & email. Hell I still remember my first crush's car no....haha..

Anyway, did your ex contact you after you stopped contacting him?

Nope, I have difficulties remembering hp no. even MINE!! And once I confused my dad's and my bro's

Nope, I don't remember my ex car plate, msn n hp no. because I'm not observant type and I don't find a need to remember it but I have this special senses, I know that car is mine(any of my family members) just by seeing side doors, roof, anywhere but not the driver or the car plate.

After we broke up, I was the one who start the convo then I stopped coz it seems annoying. 4 times he started the convo with me.

1st: Calling me in the middle of the night(3am) saying he's bored and nothing to do so find me to kill his boredom
2nd: Msn before midnight inviting me for a movie
3rd: Calling me in the middle of the night again(1am-4am). That's when I know where he lives in much more details.
4th: The next day after we went for a movie asking me my UNI orientation day.
5th: MSN me Where am I staying in my UNI? coz his friends also interested to study there and also when will I get my driving license(he read my blog and knew I took driving test already)

That's all then I never contact him nor him contacting me till now.

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Added on May 28, 2010, 11:41 pmI understand what you mean there because it didn't do me good too but at least I'm expressing it out rather than keeping it to myself and think stupid thing. At least there's a friend that willing to hear my story and didn't stop me from being a jerk and just encouraging me.

This post has been edited by peachie-momo: May 28 2010, 11:41 PM

So basically you didn't delete any of his contacts? My ex always MSN me, almost everyday. I think I should stop too. But I don't want to delete his contacts, and if he msg me again, I can't ignore..tell me what to do?!!

Yes with my just-broke-up ex. A few years ago ex-es, I deleted their contacts coz it's just a junk in my phone however we met again in tuition center and got contact back *sigh* But i was over them already so keeping contact as a friend.

Because you initiated the break up that's why he wanna be with you back. As for me, my ex wants it, so I want to be with him back. basically, I'm your Ex and you are me. Don't want to give anymore second chance and what's over is over, no turning back.

Sometimes I'm doubting, will I give my ex a chance if he really did ask me back?? and I doubt I'll reply "Yes" spontaneously.

I thought you said you don't want to give second chance? Yea I always have that doubt too...But I must move on now. Don't linger too much on the "IFs". The world is so huge and beautiful, just that I never had a good look at it cause I'm so tied up with my ex. I shall enjoy my life now! You must do the same too k? We don't lose to the guys!

Did I say that? Maybe I sounded like that. I'm sure your ex will be happy if you give him a second chance, like if my ex give me a second chance too. Yea, I'm too much with the "IFs"

You're right, my ex gave up on me is his lost. I thought of calling him tonight, maybe it's not such a good idea. If he can find a new girl, so could I.

I never get back with my ex-es, so I dunno the feeling of being back with ex. But, I think it's hard to work out since the betrayal is already there.

Yea, you said in the previous post, "Don't want to give anymore second chance and what's over is over, no turning back."
I did give my ex another chance, but he rejected. So I guess it's his turn to give the rship a second chance, but I'm not going to put much hope in it.
The bigger the expectation, the bigger the disappointment. So I will just follow with the flow.

YES you shouldn't call him anymore. You deserve a better guy! But I know it's hard to let go someone you love even though they are not the best.

About getting back with ex-es, it's going to be hard. But if both of you are ready to be fully committed, then it might work. Start things slowly, and enjoy the feeling of being so loving again. It's rare to have successful second chance stories, but there are. Like I said before, just follow with the flow. Maybe your ex isn't happy with the new girl, but again, that doesn't mean he will come back to you.

it is time to start the next V of COBH =)

I called him last night and chatted for hours but he's really helping me to move on indirectly. Whatever we chat, he'll say something that make us both feel there's a gap between us and not really will work out together. Then, I start to think lesser on him anymore.

He's indeed a responsible man.

When you break up with your partner, you two will become a known stranger to each other which sometimes I find it hard to believe. You used to be so close to each other and then because of something, you might not talk to him/her anymore in any short period.

yeah, thats what i felt too... its like we lost a part of ourselves... and its hard to believe that we can just lose it just like that

I think we just can't adapt so quickly with a sudden change of things in our life. I felt my life was so empty right after I broke up, even till now still feeling it but I'm ok.

agree ... i had this feeling too ... but then i apply gym so that got myself occupied =)

Oh you called! I've talked to my ex before too, but the loving feeling just comes back again and again..

Why is he responsible?

hey ppl..i think among u guys..im one of the stupidest person..maybe even on earth.. when i broke up, i became totally depressed. I was not a strong person to begin with..n that time I started working. Not to mention, workload n the ppl around me was not helping..so I gave up my job..I even cried at my work - in front of everyone. UGH.. im so embarassed of myself.

They say work helps to heal me.but its making me worse :/ Now i kinda regret I did tat..But during that time, my emotions were overpowering..instead of using my brain n head to think. Serve me right though..

What matters is now you are ok right?

You're referring to me right?

Now I'm quite ok already, although not that stable yet. I think I'm getting better, but I find myself isolating myself from the world and people..Im ashamed to be what I am now..something like Im scared to show myself to the world. I lost my confidence in myself too. At the moment, Im just trying to find a suitable job..and I hope this time I will be able to focus 100% in my work.. I cant change the past anymore

Yeap, I do feel it even now as well, although I'm fine already. I guess memories just creeps back

Be confident in yourself that u could pull out of this. Good luck my fren