i'm one of the 0.01%

the 0.01% doesnt exist

it's sad to hear this but i believe there are many cases like this happening every day.

Too rush or not, why is it so important anyway? You can have a rush relationship but also be fruitful as long as both of you wanted to maintain a long relationship.

From what you have elaborated, it's quite clear that you have already know the decision or the correct thing that you need to do. TS, you are just lack of courage that's all or you just feel it's kinda "wasted" your effort to maintain the relationship and not able to meet his friends thats all.

Think this way: If he can get on to you so fast in just a week time, what's so hard to find another girl like you in the club or in Japan? You're probably just one of his collections.

Wake up before it gets too far. It's pretty obvious that this guy is not your man. He don't even want to listen to your stories even both of you are still in "hot season"? Strange isn't it? If during hot season both of you not enjoy already, what about this relationship gets longer?

Courage is all you need.

it does! because i'm in the 0.01%

Yeah agree. And you already do Or** S** with him..!! Mean you already rugi..although you havent lose your virginity.
Erm , she did mentioned that the guy is quite wild , what if he menjadi lembu and beat TS?? LOL ...
Ok..address??


TS ! Seriously he was not a good guy ! A goof guy wont take advantage on a weak and drunk girl !! So just finish the relationship and go look for some nice guy that wont take advantage on you !

ai.. well.... thats life... people will only tend to be learned after mistake.... BUT throw your damn friend that who sent you to his house when u were drunk.. as most probably both of them planned it as they are friend right? OR u r the one screaming want to go to his house at that time?? In the matter of Sex if u didnt being forced to do should be no question and i suppose u already awake if not how r u going to do oral with him?

Your friend was

Your bf or bed friend was

You are even to not realize it.

Here's some woman survival guide.
What a man really mean when he says..

"I'm hungry." = I'm hungry.

"I'm sleepy." = I'm sleepy.

"I'm tired." = I'm tired.

"Do you want to go to a movie?" = I'd eventually like to have sex with you.

"Can I take you out to dinner?" = Same as Above

"Can I call you sometime?" = Same as Above

"Nice dress!" = Nice cleavage!

"You look tense, let me give you a massage." = I want to feel your bare skin

"What's wrong?" = I don't see why you are making such a big deal out of this.

"What's wrong?" = What meaningless self-inflicted psychological trauma are you going through now?

"I love you, too." = Okay, I said it...we'd better have sex now!

"Yes, I like the way you cut your hair." = I liked it better before.

"Yes, I like the way you cut your hair." = $50 and it doesn't look that much different!

"Let's talk." = I am trying to impress you by showing that I am a deep person and maybe then we can get down to business

"Will you marry me?" = I want to make it illegal for you to have sex with other guys.

(while shopping) "I like that one better." = Pick any freakin' dress and let's go home!

Sigh. girls are now getting wilder .

This post has been edited by Kang17: Apr 30 2009, 12:58 AM

seems to me this is a bit off and extreme. Copied from email?

let him go, girl..
he's goin japan u see...
japan....hmm.......

u see, both of u cant even have a good relationship in this short distance, how can u two be able to mantain for a long distance one?

u r wasting ur time~

most guys want sex, and i think only like what 0.0001 doesnt want it?

n about guys in clubs..don think so need to elaborate. ive been to a bar before and theres this guy, he kept on bugging one gal for hp number or something..geesh its so irritating when everyone is trying to dance. then i ask my fren wheteher that gal (my fren's fren) knows that guy. she said no he is a total stranger.

i think gals shouldnt layan so much this kind of guys. first of all, they gv us some kind of bad impresion expecialy when theyre a total stranger. even if that guy is a friend's fren, dont put too much trust also...don think so club is such a good place at meeting new ppl. not saying all ppl in clubs are bad, but then lots of things usually happen there n beyond

i used to be crazy at clubs or bar (im not into drinking, just like to dance around) and when guys come approach my frens or me, we usually just ignore them haha. and the toilet...omg. dont want to mention it. full of (*)(*!$ all over n its a gal toilet sumore.

anyway to TS, dont think so much. thx goodness u both din go beyond the boundaries...so at least u dont feel bad for urself. he is not worth it, i mean since he doesnt even wan to meet ur parents. the reason is because he dont want ur parents to recognize who is he and in case anything happen, he doesnt want ur family to go after him. i think meeting one's parents is often the sign to acknowledge that ur ready to go steady and take responsibility of one's daughter or son... just forget about him alright? good luck and tc

This post has been edited by ahmoi: May 1 2009, 06:43 PM

Japan clubbing more fun.

i think your relationship order abit mess up

yours is XXX > Couple > Know each other
i think
Know each other > couple > XXX will be alot better .
never introduce sex b4 the relationship.
it messes with the guys brain / balls

im a guy,having SEX and LOVE is a two different word and two different thing.

if you can have both SEX and LOVE in one action.its a good thing.in LOVE,never expect that guy@girl will give 100 percent.because we human is inperfect.almost in everything,but pls don't make that as an excuse to ruin things.

for your case,i think you still can't find the spark.give the guy a chance.sometimes when a guy fall in love,he gonna go blur for a while.thinking is he doing the right thing at the right time.

i've experienced this before,its normal.if you could give him a chance.....

you are so lucky that the guy didn't take full advantages over you even though he took some of it.

maybe he is more into a FRIEND relationship.not LOVER.sometimes we feel we love someone,but not into LOVE thing.

that is how things work.if onli think about SEX and SEX and SEX.go find some 'sickf**k at Brickfield there pay RM30.satisfied.

no need ruin ppl life.about VIRGINITY,lose it to someone you will remember the whole time of your life.

don't lose it easily,to someone u fell in love yesterday.but not today,not tomorrow.

last but not least,LOVE is COMPLICATED.you will never get to understand it even you research it your whole life.what does matter is how you flourish it.

aiyah. have some dignity girl!

leave him. Every girl should be treated with respect.
If he does not, he does not deserve you.

If you do like him, let him go.
If he comes back, (not for the sex), he's yours.
If he doesn't, good for you.

Plenty of fish in the sea. Don't spend so much time eating this one.
Not a keeper.

sorry for not replying soon or neglecting any of you peoples.


This few days, it happened. I broke up with him, but I felt empty in the heart. I don't regret dumping this shit guy. But end up I bump back to him. Just the night I bump back to him, he wanted to drag me home. I told him the next day I won't be free since I'm having family trip, but he insist to bring me home. He himself requested to Call my mom, and tell her to let me sleep over at his house. Seriously I'm shock =.=

At the next thought, I felt so, SO annoyed of what he did, I really feel like slapping him hard, eventhough he wanted to show his love using his dainty body, but sorry, I don't like it. He really call up my mom, and keep on request and request eventhough my mom decline his request, until at last my mom threaten him that she might launch a police report.

Heh, after that day, I seldom text him, and stop calling him and answering his phone call anymore. Who knows what is he thinking? Even my girlfriend whom introduced me to my current boyfriend also shock after I told her about it.

I get over him already.





I am a happy happy girl already, forumers! (: admit that I'm quite naive and stubborn, but it's not easy to get in love or even falling in love.


Yes yes, I'm just a youth.

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Added on May 5, 2009, 9:41 pmoh dang, force to remove topic (: sister found my account

This post has been edited by toxicgirl: May 5 2009, 09:41 PM

Luckily you did not fall to that...

Lucky I am, clever I am. for now la. lollll !

You've earned an experience notch under your belt. Remember it well so that you can advise others in future that they may not (I don't have an English term for this) "Terjerumus ke dalam lurah kehinaan
(well maybe I do, "FUBAR themselves")