Since you're at it, can you get him to buy me a Tokyo Flash watch??

OMG...seems like now talking about shopping in Japan.

I'll summarize to see if I understand your environment.

The both of you first were introduced to each other in a club via mutual friend. The next outing you two met at a club again and in the heat of things decided to couple up. French kissing and petting followed.

The following days are filled with 'couple activities'. During this time, he's almost had sex with you.
You've said you and him have little in common to talk about.
He doesn't want to meet your parents
He doesn't want to meet your friends.
He gives one word answer then you talk

Strictly coming from a third party observer and being non judgmental, it appears this relationship isn't healthy.
I am not here to stand to say whether you rushed in or not. My opinions of "Rush" and yours probably differs. On the basis that you did not rush it - this relationship is currently exhibiting unhealthy signs.

I could be wrong, but from the signs you have explained, a rough deduction is that there is a high percentage that this guy, just wants to get into your panties.

Fortunately this guy isn't experienced and he is exhibiting signs of disinterest in a long term relationship. There is still good in this experience, be thankful that he wasn't a professional player or your thread would start out explaining how you woke up one morning stark naked and a certain body part feeling unnaturally tender and sore.

One more word of caution. If you're a frequent club goer, it is wise to bring some trustworthy girlfriends along to be your wingmen (winglady)
These can ensure that even if you get piss drunk, you're home safely (on the basis that all of you don't get piss drunk)
Secondly, if a guy tries to or successfully spikes your drink, you still have your friends to fall back on.

It's not wise to drink until you're smashed and go alone with some guy whom you only known for 7 days. You might wake up next morning regretting it, unless that is the type of lifestyle you with to pursue.

This post has been edited by Tatsumaki: Apr 25 2009, 04:09 AM

There's more people out there that would love and appreciate you.

Depends on da quality, outlook n personalities.

I agree with u

TS I think u better stop dis rship
He jux wan yours "dat" u know wad lol
Wake up he jux nt de guy for u.

TS, dont waste your time in this relationship. Since he just dont give a shit on what you are talking about. So other than his friends issue. Both of u got no topic already, how can both of you maintain this relationship with only talking about his friend. And now he is going to Japan, you think he will call u everyday, pay attention to what you are trying to share with him? Sorry to say that, but i dont think both of you can maintain this relationship, since too many attractions in Japan. As if he got a gf in Japan, and come back to Msia and ask for your forgive, will you accept him? No way.gal.LEave him

Girl,
Leave him.

And then stop going out with your friend whom sent you to his house when you were drunk. Weird friend.

Trust your heart. You knew it isn't a relationship.

Totally agree with you. Leave him, and stop going out with that 'friend' who sent you to his house when you were drunk. Yup, better if you have wingladies with you, to watch each others back.

And i'll say again, leave him, before this destroys ur life.

yes, agree with the comments that given by these guys. i once get fooled by a guy in a club, he's my fren's fren. thn the nxt day my fren hint me that it's not necessary to be serious in club. guys jz wan to hv fun. so i learnt to b a smart gal after that. luckily that time i din rugi to him. haha

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Added on April 28, 2009, 3:05 pmyes, agree with the comments that given by these guys. i once get fooled by a guy in a club, he's my fren's fren. thn the nxt day my fren hint me that it's not necessary to be serious in club. guys jz wan to hv fun. so i learnt to b a smart gal after that. luckily that time i din rugi to him. haha

This post has been edited by carmenlow_25: Apr 28 2009, 03:05 PM

You come my house la, if you want some advice. My house got chivas and martell.

all i see why he wanna be with u is because he wanna use u physically.

Lulz.

If ur posting the problem here, then most probably u already know the problem and the solution.

Stop seeing him. Or ur gonna turn out into his little slut.

so you gained some experience..

No wonder clubs is not a good place to meet peoples ~~

forget him
he pay no interest to know u

He just wants to get in your pants,dump him immediately before losing your virginity to some useless person.(Save it for your true love)

As a guy,I don't know why some guys always think about s*x s*x s*x only,especially those strangers that you meet up in a social areas or in a large community.(These kind of guys give us guys a bad reputation)

This post has been edited by Tij: Apr 29 2009, 02:54 PM

TS, You love Him and does he do the same thing to you?
Very common things de lor, inside the club out of 0.01% are good guys and the rest.. noneed mention.

The relationship moved to fast and very unstable for both side. i think that he wanted is s3x only, but your looking for a long term relationship.
still got alot udang out there la~ will u give up others udang just for 1 udang only?



anyway~ decision is in your hand. You able to rise the problem already, but it's up to u how to solve it.
CC community can give advise only, in the end you was the one will choose what is the best for yourself.