Hi guys,

Lately i have experienced PE, and it really frustrating.

After some researching via internet, it seems like anti-depression drugs are effective in controlling the PE. Those drugs are Prozac (fluoxetine), Paxil (Paroxetine) etc. The internet research has no clear conclusion whether to take it daily @ 20mg or on-demand before action.

I consulted my family doctor about the problem, and he prescribed me a medicine named Frisium, recommend me to take it 3 hours before intercourse, it should help. I have not tried it so not sure about the result.

Does anyone have experience in this PE problem, your advice is very much appreciated.

My question: based on your experience……

Q1: Does the anti-depression drug such Prozac, Paxil is really effective?
Q2: Daily dosage or on-demand?
Q3: What about the Frisium by my doctor, internet info is limited in this drug type?

Many thanks.

If you can't be constructive, don't post at all.

This post has been edited by malaysianPotato: Apr 13 2009, 11:28 PM

i thought most of the guy have PE...its not a big deal anyway...

Hi Perseus,

What did you mean?

I am actually asking for advice because i have not tried this drug type before.

Any experience with this type of problem is welcome, so everyone of us can learn more.

As we all know, it is kind of difficult to talk face to face with PE.

Appreciated.

All I said was to masturbate before having sex.


What is not constructive about this advice?


The 2nd time is always harder to ejaculate so after you masturbate before sex you would've at least controlled it somewhat.


The moderator obviously has an ego problem to see the advantages of the advice.


If moderator has no iq please don't simply censor my posts.


I do not advocate drugs to control premature ejaculation.


My advice is way more constructive than drugging and harming your body.

This post has been edited by Perseus: Apr 14 2009, 12:08 PM

Yeah, i have tried to maturbate before intercourse, it will definately prolong the timing, but the problem is, you have no mood / lesser mood to go for the intercourse after the masturbation.

This infact affect the quality of the love making. I could not feel the high enough and it always ended unsatisfactory.

I prefer safe drug.

Please help.

No need drugs. Use interruptus technique.

You could get your gf to arouse you to the point almost wanna cum then stop by squeezing hard.

Train a few more times until you learn to control in future.

You said if tak boleh no hope or some crap which I can't be bothered to remember. How is that in any way constructive? How's that an ego problem on my end? Do you even know what the word ego means? If I had a problem understanding the advice it would be a comprehension problem.
IQ is irrelevant, a low IQ is not indicative of one's ability to read and comprehend.

While we're at it, you did read the part where he say's it's a new problem right? How does masturbation = no brainer? Depending on the cause of the problem, psychological or physiological, fap before sex may not work. No brainer? Hardly.

This post has been edited by malaysianPotato: Apr 14 2009, 11:02 PM

The original posting by Perseus was:

get to the root (pun intended) of the problem. could it be some psychological prob/stress thats affecting ur performance? maybe try exercising if u havent done that.

Meaning before this you never had this prob before? Maybe stress gua

@TS:
have you tried using Durex Performax?

that is what i use to deal with my problem.

.is it more excited after using it as it is more smooth?

My wife did not like condom.
I used the Durex Performax - yes it help a lot, but she did not like to have condom.
Really headache lah.....

i think you should try vco31 ... yea actually no girl like domdom...

erm no la.

it allows boys to poke longer, faster without cumming too fast.

aiyo susah lah then i dunno how to help liao.

how come she do not like to use condom eh?

mind sharing her reasons with us?

what is vco31 oh?

why say that "no girl like domdom?"

what is wrong with using condoms? :

I am with poster on this to avoid drug use. Look around the net for good articles (not junk ones) that help with dealing with this issue.
Part of it is indeed psychological but there are other little exercises that can help.

Off the top of my head one is where just before you reach the point of no return, you stop and wait a while for the 'tension' to lessen. If I remember correctly, repeated exercises of this could result in you lasting longer before you climax.

Wife also has a part to play in helping the man to reassure him that there is nothing wrong and she is there in full support.

I can point you to Menshealth for a start. Try the natural remedies first before going to drugs. Drugs should always be a last resort but in our day an age when 2 minute noodles are considered 'good' because we're always rushing, drugs seemingly are a quick fix to things but there are always possible side effects (long term) which we might not be aware of.

well, what are the side effects of long term usage of benzoncaine, if any?

Natural way is the best. anyway how long can u stay? 10 minutes? 30 minutes?

You should research more and try to find a natural way to stop PE. There are many useful solutions out there, the only thing is your effort of looking for it.

how long can you stay then?

can you poke very fast like a choo choo train?

i'll place all assumptions ... i apologize if it offends you. my words may be very straight forward

some ppl have different level of understanding .. so ....
i assumed that you might be misunderstood on the your body fluids .....
Cum and Ejeculation is different - cum comes first (as lubricant) then Ejeculation comes later
if this answers you .... that you've misunderstood, so basically maybe you lack of endurance to continue, so jog more, exercise more .. build up ur endurance


here's where you can identify which is Cum, which is Ejeculation .... so .. basically you have a problem ....
drug only works temporary ....... but for you, for me, for everyone else .... we want permanent solution ......
so ... basically PRACTISE MAKES PERFECT .... your body will improve with practise ...
but keep in mind, this can happen to everyone NOT ONLY YOU ......
Although everyone of us is born to run, but very actually run the BEST. WHY? coz they TRAINED themselves ... similiarly to your problem ... we may by instinct of such a thing, but we are not born BEST, so CHIN-UP, don't feel depressed, and practise hard


this is extra ...
to help you exercise the internal part of your muscles to be extra tough .. so it'll give OT (unpaid ones)
it's quite simple .... there's 2 ways

first method - play with your urine (no joke)
remember when you're a kid when you played with your urine? every kid does it ... urine half way, then hold the urine (it hurts right?)
1st stage
drink a lot of water, go to the toilet, and urine, hold it for 5-10 seconds and release ... do repetitions
for some ppl ... doing it may be painful ... but do it regardless ... do it until you can hold it for more than 5 mins
this stage might take up to a month or two before your internal muscle actually strenghten up .... in this stage, ur problem most likely is solved

2nd stage
to further strenghten your part ... remember previously you've hold your urine?
instinctly ... you'll know which part of your muscle used to hold the urine ......
so ... you squeeze the muscle and perform it around 100 times per day ... you can do this anywhere, so 100 per day quota is pretty easy to fill in
by the time you can do 300, most probraly you already qualify for a porn star (compliment)
btw .. women can do this as well .. it helps their child birth (during/after)


the second method
this method is harder ... and quite messy the first few times
it's a very simple ... but hard to master

Sit down on the floor, and cross your legs
give DEEP breath, till it FILLS your STOMACH/BELLY with air .. your stomach will be round and hard
and then shrink your anus (at this stage most ppl can actually leak in their pants, and later abandon this method, that's why it's hard)
shrink and release it for 10 times

there are a few ways to work out ... do both
do it very quickly (1 sec per rep) ..... this will help you to release anytime you want
and do it very slowly (hold it for 30 sec and release) .... this will help you withstand long OT
increase the repetition as you improve


either one of these 2 methods will ensure that you wont be needing any adult diapers when you reach age of >80
this applies to females as well


hope this helps

Yu sure these gonna help? Seriously...Any scientific prove on these kinda methodologies? I'm sorry but I'm kinda skeptical bout it.

Regards, Joey.

p.s: But it sounded like an interesting experiment.

This post has been edited by Joey Christensen: Apr 15 2009, 04:59 PM

lol...i can control it myself..there a way to control it la. not so hard. it all depend on ur feeling and what u thinking during the sex

i usually stay until my wife say she tired and surrender.

it a bit funny. whenever u feel u about too choo choo quickly think about something funny or anything that can slow down ur nafsu

This post has been edited by Perunding: Apr 15 2009, 05:06 PM

Try not to moan, if you do. This will certainly reduce the urge of ejaculation.

VCO31.

Yeah, found many peoples talking about it in another forum, seems pretty good.

Just bought one from the stockist cheap 35 only.

I have not tried yet.

will find out the result and update you guys.

Thanks.

Try PC muscle exercise. It works for me
But there are two pitfalls with PC muscle exercise. Timing and failure to locate correct PC muscle.

what serpentarius posted was about training the PC muscle...

as about timing, practice makes perfect...

Sunat It ler?

practice makes perfect....can last 30mins...then game over

how to make HER last longer ler ?

its easy to handle girl dat comes faster then guy...why you wan her to last longer le...btw i have tried dat vco31 it works for me...but cannot last more then 1hour choo choo train...

use gambir sarawak ler, just sapu2 only.

This is called the exercise of the Kegel muscle... I've been doing that since I was 12(no joke,I used to read a lot of articles about sex online when I was really young), you can practically practice it anytime you want. Its really good!

just a general statement: There is also something called Retarded Ejaculation =) f*** long long still cannot cum...

you realise there is also a problem called RETARDED EJACULATION

apa tu vco31 ?

nid help ler here, wanna do with her all nite long marathon

You matured really young...

gambir effect same as vco31...hehe

its a lotion that you apply around your head before you fark...it can last you longer and can move like choo choo train...cost only 30rm...cheap rite.?

Just some corrections to do...

No 1 - gambir effect same as vco31...hehe

Effect of Power Oil VCO 31 is not the same as gambir sarawak because Power Oil VCO 31 DOES NOT CONTAIN GAMBIR because it is 98% Pure Virgin Coconut Oil + 2% Selected Herbs. While Gambir Sarawak does not contain Pure Virgin Coconut Oil and using it will make your "WEAPON" feel numb all the way, only your girl will satisfy NOT YOU but this will not happen when you are using Power Oil VCO 31 as long you use it rightly.


No 2 - its a lotion that you apply around your head before you fark...it can last you longer and can move like choo choo train...cost only 30rm...cheap rite.?

Do not apply the lotion (Power Oil VCO 31) around your weapon head.... Apply it around your weapon neck, rinse it over it, remember, around the weapon nect NOT THE HEAD. People sometime confuse on how to use it and then they start bragging that Power Oil VCO 31 is not good
Another thing, the price if RM35. Care to pm me for more information.

This post has been edited by Jutawan: Jun 4 2009, 03:06 PM

i dun wan vico31 lar
i last too long lar

got drugs to make me cum quicker a not ?

3 minutes is it long enuff???

I think better that 1/2 hour cukup already, takut lenguh pinggang nanti.

The facts are 1 in 3 men at some point in their lives experience some form of premature ejaculation. The root of the problem most likely stems from excessive masterbation. Due to excessive masterbation you have trained yourself to release your ejaculation as quickly as possible causing you to come within seconds.

The first step to ending premature ejaculation is to stop masterbating so much. I know masterbation is fun, but I promise longer lasting sex is MUCH better.

Checkout this ejaculatory training site that I found. It gives tips on how to control your ejaculatory reflex, allowing you to hold your ejaculation as long as possible. Its really helped me alot with my premature ejaculation, and its really helped things with my GF sexually. Hope it helps you.

curepremature-ejaculation .net

Have you try it yet sir? How was the effect?

I don't think that you would need to resort to drugs in order to overcome PE problems. There are methods and steps that you can do to strengthen up the muscles that controls this. Drugs will only make u dependent totally on them and this will in result make u unable to proceed on with the assistance of drugs.

I believe you would have heard about the interrupt technique...in which u masturebath urself till you are in the brink of excitement then you stop. Have you realize when you try to stop, what do you do? You contract your muscle and hold them in. The very same instinct that you have to stop the urge to pee....this muscle is call the PC muscles. I am not going to go in-depth on this. do you research on how to strengthen up ur PC muscles.
Your ability to hold and control this muscle helps you to control and prolong your excitement.

try to resort to nature methods and techniques before you think of drugs and gambir and etc.....getting the ez way out dont help to solve the problem but it only gives a short term solution and a long term headache.


i tried this before when I was in Europe....it was awesome!! that plus the cold weather....hahahahaha.....die exhaustion. LOL!!!

what if we train to masturbate for a longer period?
will we still get PE?

Have you bough the book? Care to share some of the exercise here?

for Q1, i think it will help if you are depressed
excessive stress in general can deteriorate body function
if u not stress i dont see any point taking this med
p/s: this is just my personal opinion..i duno from medical point of view

like perseous said.. it is practical.. but it will ruin ur mental health...

the reason of PE is over stimulants