there's a lot types of playboy

some are amateurs, some are pros


it's hard to generalise them into a certain category ... but through experince you notice a particular distinction ..... but it takes months and years ... and need to be sibuk a lot ....


but keep in mind: sometimes guys might give soft words, he might be talented to entertain women, but still he might not be a playboy

smart talking to girls is a talent ... but that doesnt reflect their motive. some learn it when mixing with a lot of girls (or sisters)

yup.. i think very true

Perhaps the reason why they are labeled as players is the very fact they play people around. Lets not talk about amateurs. Women have their intuition to spot these a mile away. The over-exaggeration acts and overly sweet talks. These are amateurs.

The good ones is where the problem starts.

Off the top of my head (without experience) perhaps someways to check is to

a)Talk to his friends, not just one but a few. Ask them how they got to know him and in doing so you might find out more about him.

b)Make a note of how often he gives gifts? I don't know but IMHO affection shouldn't have a cumulative price attached to it. It's nice to get surprise gifts, everyone likes gifts but are they coming in waaay too often and really extravagant gifts?

c)He falls very fast and very hard for you. This at first is flattering. But think about it - is it normal? In a normal relationship, a man or woman moves at a gradual pace to "get to know" the other person. They will call up for a date, if the date goes well, they will ask for a
second date. They will probably call you prior to the second date (they should, anyway, to make arrangements). But if they start calling or text messaging you every day after that first date, it's not normal. Don't be flattered, be wary.

d) and lastly FYA: http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-spot-a-player-playa/

One of the telltale sign I've always observed are guys who are vain, they're particular about their hair, or dressin, they tend to wanna look good, always shop for cloths.

Actually real players DON'T fall for women very fast. They're more independant emotionally and contradicts with point b) and c). They don't seek for women's approval and they're more confident. If you're confident, you wouldn't be texting or calling her everyday.
Point c) and b) indicates a desparate guy or a player wannabe wanting a girls attention, they're called wuss.

Guys who attempts to play around but not successful are not called players.

This post has been edited by Drian: Apr 1 2009, 02:40 PM

sweet talker not necessary is a playboy leh~

check his msn, phonebook, facebook, friendster.. if 80% of his friends are girls.. then you know the drill

look at the forehead , look 4 the word playboy

Use time to judge it.

But from time to time, a good guy can change to playboy or vice versa.

interesting, if all the methods above works, then its easier to spot a playboy.

ive encounter many, and yes, including ugly ones and they are good..
it takes a playboy to recognize one at fist sight. other than that, you have to look into their history, habits, etc. and no, not cz they smell nice or look nice.

moreover, a playboy usually have a very distinct characteristic where they are
1.talkative- they can smooth talk even your parents.
2.self confidence- they belif in their self. if u want to kill one playboy, just break their ego
3.always surrounded by girls or constantly changing girlfriend
4.multiple girlfriends which never stop coming in


anyway.those are my opinions.

Interesting thread with many interesting replies. I don't have words to add. I tend to avoid those guys who like to flirt around. Sweet talk and flirt are kinda different, somehow.

interesting topic,
haha... basically there really no guide line to differentiate if the guy is a playboy anot...
every1 is different...

but then again... checking his fs,fb,myspace etc... if majority is gals and also he very active (leaving comments) with the gals then he could be one...
then, the number of ex... and duration of each relationship i guess....

playboy reporting in

hey never heard before? any photo of her?

Ling Zhi Ling look alike in Penang? I want to see!

agree with u
there is differences between playa n despo

hah...just like dat u wanna go out with me? i busy wor...sori a...

http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne%2BNew...211-106930.html

theyr'e flirtatious

successful playboy will not choose what type of girls to eat..so be careful if u r not so pretty