You're the man! +10000

'all' is a massive word~ I disagree with fitting it in any part of the aforementioned post of yours~

Oh yes, this is the ideal man.....which may not exist in the world....

If i understand moorish's theory correctly, just marry the richest one u can get. 

Yup.

But sadly, this ghetto bit.ch is only going to spit on you.

ok..i think i understand what u mean.
thts wht im trying to say also...lol

Hawky, my expenses are low, too but I will not cease to aim for higher and higher income... yeah!

i'm not interested in partnership, not interested in MLM, not interested in insurance. And I don't want to get conned.

oh hi, i'm interested pm me ! or issit only for girls ?
i think you don't understand what hawk implies, she married her hushband that is rich, but what would she do if her husband is bankrupt ?

and your senario is, he married her because she is beautiful, what if something happens and beautiful was not it used to be to him anymore, what would he do ?

who's being shallow ? by being simple is sometime shallow too

erm you mean average people can't afford a baby ? lol

basically it is about the evil of money.

you need money to have a baby born in nice enviroment.

Come to think of it,why don't do it at General Hospital...it is cheaper and affordable.
know why??....leceh mah...need to register at Goverment clinic 1st before you can visit before can refer and give birth in General Hospital.

which is why bringing a new baby to the world is so darn expensive as compared to your mother or even grandma time.

tell me..why the changes??? the General Hospital still there.cost might have gone up but still below 1k.
it is all about pampering,nice comfortable surrounding and

Yes!! i am not saying it is wrong but just that time changes as we coming into new age.

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Added on October 6, 2009, 8:57 pm
that if you decided want to pamper yourself at nice hospital

surely expensive!!

After a long idling period of this thread and now again the debate started, I've to say thank you guys for reminding me how lucky I am, I feel so lucky and never regretted my choice, in fact if you guys would pardon I would like to use this word I cant feel any "righter".

Guys who think that I should go govt hospital to have a baby, and me going to work while breast feeding my baby, guys who think mom who stayed at home look after baby are mere lazy prostitute actually you all have any idea how hectic looking after baby are? its 10X worse than any jobs I've experience, its a 24/7 endless cycle, feed, change, pacify marathon.

I'm not looking down on the poor, I'm only saying if you;ve a choice, grab it, dun worry about losers here who try taking short cuts and expect you to work and help support the family.

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Added on October 6, 2009, 11:05 pm

My downstairs mee seller told me dun go govt hospital, the trainy doc simply do her episiotomy and the nurse was so rough stitching her up, she was in pain for a whole week and now her vagina is so badly scarred. My in laws asked us to go gleneagle as its a famous choice but after checking it'll easily cost us 10k, so we hunt around and I prefer pantai Indah, its medium range, my delivery only 6.4k, the extra cash we can save for other things.
really? I dono but i wonder why then he chased her like mad all these years? and now feel so happy and in heaven.
You for one person should understand the theory, the market is always right

I saw this post yesterday but didnt find time to reply. I find his angle very very interesting. Drug dealer.

During my time with my ex he is sort of gangster type, I've come to know a lot of others in gang and of coz the girls would be mixing and chatting.

I used to follow my ex to meet this leader in penang, he is filthy rich and his money of coz isnt clean. He has 4 wifes and all the wifes knows each other. They stay in big houses each of them, with so many big guard dogs, they drive nice cars, he has a guy who drives an Estima to all the wifes house to pick up and send all the children to school,  LV and diamond rolex of coz included in the package, I used to adore her watch we call them "moon thin sing", diamonds were set even on the casing and bracelet, it cost about 120K that time, I'm not sure how much it cost now.

During that time, we're living hands to mouth, no savings, sometimes ex will get big money duno from where and he will spend it all within 2 weeks, karaokes and gambling. I remember sometimes deep in my mind how I wish I was like those wifes enjoying life. All his 4 wifes are ex karaokes GROs

I sometimes try to put my shoes if I can be like them? I guess when you're very low in your life you dun seem to have much choice, so security has a new meaning, you actually dun care, but its only in my mind I didnt do it.

Then I look at those girls and wonder, do they love him? The answer is yes I believe. But if you ask what kinda love this is I dont know. I guess it depends where you come from.

I've mixed even with prostitutes, some of his frens gfs are prost and we do talk a lot, I've asked them why they do what they do and most times they come from poor broken families.

I guess moral and how many people ignored moral, or are force to put moral aside. I dun and never look down on them, I kept in touch with a few girls after married but I can see from hubbys face he dun really like me mixing around with those girls so I slowly stayed away.

Coming back to this topic, those girls comes from broken family with very little guidance, sometimes money is so tight and without much education and mother sick or bro and sis still young need to go to school they sell themselves for quick money. I respect this girls in the sense they willing to lower thier standard and make sure their younger bro and sis can have proper education. OLs I know or white collar girls, will never in thier life sacrifice so much for the family.

They never got out from the slum as its already become part of their lives now.

I dont come from broken family, but I do come from poor family, my parents never agreed with me going out with thugs, but that time young and I practically elope and stay with my ex, I was very in love with him, and broke my mums heart into 1000X pieces.

As I grow older, and time is catching up, I start to panic coz I see this is going nowhere, hence fast forward to today I got out of it.

So you see, if you come from a comfortable lifes, drug money is a big sin, but if you're way down there, its heaven sent.

I know its morally wrong, thats why I make sure I'm a fulltime mother and put as much reality and moral to Noreens life. I'll try to give my best.

ok guys, time for yuo to twist and attack me...I'm being truthful of my experience and what I felt that time, the temptations was strong.

the very fact that this thread reached 100 over pages tells me most of you in here are too insecure about money minded girls.

It's either that or you have off topic as usual.

See Duke Red, I proved me point.

You already answered yourself before this post.