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 Girls are money minded, And be proud of it.

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used2bcow
post Oct 10 2009, 10:09 PM

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QUOTE(aspire2oo6 @ Oct 10 2009, 10:05 PM)
Welcome to reality alot of ppl are money minded even male.
For me to seek someone tat appreciate friendship first is quite tough.

This potential candidate are like 1 out of 50
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Are u talking in the context of making friends. Friends who would be ur fren if u are rich kinda situation? Yeah some ppl are like dat but so far most ppl ppl i meet arent like dat.
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post Oct 10 2009, 10:11 PM

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QUOTE(Duke Red @ Oct 10 2009, 10:10 PM)
Yeah ok grandpa. Sit back and enjoy the show then.
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Dont really need to bother abt this type of ppl. From his last post, u kno exactly wat his about. Waste of time.
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post Oct 10 2009, 10:22 PM

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QUOTE(myvi5949 @ Oct 10 2009, 10:16 PM)
After 90+ pages, one would think that she would be open to POSIIBILITY that her paradigm are flawed. 

What happen instead was she "editted" her first post.. Ignore relevant points by others. She focuses on some negative feedbacks and take it personally.
I have to admit, some of the responses here are abit immature and uncalled for.. but she need to know that people are generally here to "help". 
You could only help people so much.  Changing core beliefs is really hard.  One must be courageous and willing.  If one is not willing, no amount of convincing would be enough.  wink.gif
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In the end, Its not abt forcing ones view. We say wat we can and we hope for the best coz after all we want everyone to be happy. Ive said before its not to convince but to influence. Coz we can say all we want but if we do not live by our own words, it means nothing. I feel if ppl can see on how we live by our words and how much it benefits us, mind, body and soul, it has more impact.
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post Oct 10 2009, 10:36 PM

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QUOTE(billytong @ Oct 10 2009, 10:22 PM)
You dont need to be feel insecure about money minded woman as long an you are holding your major money and Asset under your name. There is always a limit of expenses when dating, a woman that comments, turn off because you are not spending enough for them, imo they are only making they blow off they chance of getting a nice guy like you.

To be honest, it is more costly for them to spend 20years trying to impress you, making you happy, cheat your money but end up if you are holding you money tight, you will always win and walk away and restart get a new relationship.

Generous does not have to be = sharing asset/money to gain "trust". Trust comes from trusting someone ability to take care of you if you are down.

look back to your ancestors, you'll know if something is working for them, it will work for you too. 

So just date whatever woman that you think it is attractive to you. Dont worry you will find one.
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Lol...i don really mean it when i said i felt insecure. I was just being cynical. tongue.gif

Actually it isnt so much of the expenses when dating, cos dats not a problem. Its when they start digging abt every single financial thing that really irks me. I'll use an example where say a guy asks this girl if she is a virgin. Now she is definitely a virgin but for someone to ask may imply that she isnt.....and doesnt even matter if she is or not coz it shouldnt affect anything coz wat is current may not be the case in the future coz of other more important factors. Likewise a persons current status of rich or poor is not set in stone. One can be poor now but be rich later and vice versa. Sadly, most ppl tend to prejudge. YOu shuld see their faces when u become better of. From being cool to extremely friendly. Its a wonder. Wakakakaka. I sometimes like to play with this type of ppl feigning inadequacy to see wat their true intentions are.

Added on October 10, 2009, 10:40 pm
QUOTE(Duke Red @ Oct 10 2009, 10:19 PM)
It's always an honour when a superior being graces you with his presence  smile.gif
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No one more superior than GOD Himself...lol.

This post has been edited by used2bcow: Oct 10 2009, 10:40 PM
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