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 Girls are money minded, And be proud of it.

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SUSDeadlocks
post Oct 5 2009, 01:26 AM

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Y'ALL ARE ALL WRONG LAR.

MOORISH IS RIGHT.

MONEY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN LOVE.

IN FACT, LOVE CAN GO TO HELL IF MONEY IS NOWHERE TO BE FOUND.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY.

MONEY...comes first.

Wait until financially stable first...then maybe love can only take place...



Now all give a STANDING OVATION for MOORISH!!!!!!!!!!!
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post Oct 5 2009, 01:30 AM

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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 5 2009, 01:28 AM)
oh now its b1tch...
you're one really hurting man...

see.... guys like him are complete phailure

stingy...hot heads...non gentleman material...whatelse ...oh arguing online at 1.30am in the morining doh.gif
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Moorish. Why don't you try ignoring?

Since you're so adamant with what your ideals.

Since you no doubts.

Go ahead.

I dare you.

Try ignoring.
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post Oct 5 2009, 01:32 AM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 5 2009, 01:24 AM)
I would like to know as much opinions as possible.
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What is happiness to you, debbieyys?
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post Oct 5 2009, 01:35 AM

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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 5 2009, 01:35 AM)
nah losers like you are pathetic, argue with a woman at 1.30 in the morning about something you dun have. and best you can do is start name calling.
doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif triple face palm for you
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Lol, all the way Dickson, I love where this is going.
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post Oct 5 2009, 01:38 AM

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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 5 2009, 01:37 AM)
what a name d1ckson HAHAHAHAHHA

sorry....bye bye
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That's all folks. Nothing to see here already.
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post Oct 5 2009, 01:43 AM

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Look guys.

Moorish did not really mean what she said.
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post Oct 5 2009, 01:49 AM

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*pulls down curtains*

*switches off lights*
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post Oct 5 2009, 02:01 AM

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QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Oct 5 2009, 01:59 AM)
Wow.... said more eloquently and with more compassion than I could ever muster.

*Salute*
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Yes. Haven't you realize the way she fought with you Dickson? It's not something a ghetto Chinese will do. To be so persistent.

That is why I said she did not mean what she said.

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post Oct 5 2009, 08:51 PM

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Moorish.

Do poor family exist?

This post has been edited by Deadlocks: Oct 5 2009, 08:52 PM
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post Oct 5 2009, 09:17 PM

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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 5 2009, 09:07 PM)
since when you're a female, moorish ?
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post Oct 8 2009, 11:49 PM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 8 2009, 11:26 PM)
Poyozer, told you already. Gals who go after financial security is not because they aim for materialistic enjoyment, but for uncertainties in the future.
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The real question is not whether girls should be money minded or not.

It's how long you can hold on until you can find an above-average financial standing man, because you know you need to go all over to look for one, since most people aren't rich.

You fear uncertainty. Some people fear it more than others. Most people are materialistic to an extent, but some actually motivate themselves materialistically.

Men have that problem too.

But if you ever snap along the way while looking for a suitable person to marry...

That's your business.

And life goes on.

This post has been edited by Deadlocks: Oct 9 2009, 12:04 AM
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post Oct 9 2009, 03:00 AM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 9 2009, 12:42 AM)
Yes, I fear uncertainties and that's why I cherish my life very much, I aim high, I studied very hard, I worked very hard; I hope my future husband does the same. You can't ask me to cling on someone who has promised to work hard but after years he can't show any improvements but only complaints, change jobs, criticisms on others, blame the governments, blame the social...

You get me?
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Why were you attracted to him in the first place?

QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 9 2009, 01:35 AM)
Impress you? Or you're interested to know how they got to where they are and thus be able to support you and your shopping sprees?
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Lol, I like this. Striking hard on superficiality.

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Life is not all about survival.

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post Oct 9 2009, 09:54 PM

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Moorish and debbieyss.

What is happiness to you?

What is LOVE to you?

Have y'all lose faith?

What do you even understand about a soul mate?

This post has been edited by Deadlocks: Oct 9 2009, 09:59 PM
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post Oct 10 2009, 01:05 AM

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QUOTE(blitzboy @ Oct 10 2009, 01:01 AM)
debbiesys and spunkberry are very mature in their thinking and stand on the side of reality, and ready to take on challenge of being working mothers

they deserve my fullest respect.  notworthy.gif
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Realism does not equal to maturity for it does not allow grace for fallible beings.
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post Oct 10 2009, 11:36 AM

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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 10 2009, 10:10 AM)
now soulmate is a heavy word to use, if you meet that soul mate whom happen to be a bum apa macam?
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A soul mate is not important to you?
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post Oct 10 2009, 06:03 PM

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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 10 2009, 02:48 PM)
Another interesting aspect to debate:

Thats why I say such a heavy word to use...soulmate
and that is why I ask what if the soul mate is a bum?
Do we go on believing in the name of love and marry him and have children and then children all end up no education or mat rempit?

Or do we follow my concept and find a man we love lesser but can provide security and comfortable life for our children, interesting angle.

Lets debate on this and see where it goes.
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1st: Aren't you a bum too when you expect men to be the ONLY provider of the family?

2nd: Just because your soul mate is a bum, you give up hope?

Aren't you the REAL bum here?

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post Oct 10 2009, 06:43 PM

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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 10 2009, 06:35 PM)

I dun think so I'm a bum, generally most woman want their man to be the sole provider, but problem is how many man are capable to do so.
ask around woman, if your husband is rich do you expect him to be the sole provider?
Yes I would give up hope if my soulmate is a bum.


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So, is that what LIFE means to you?

You will SACRIFICE a soul mate for someone's who rich who's not your soul mate?

What kind of life you're living if you DON'T WANT a soul mate?

Is there any more MEANING to your life?

Moorish. You didn't give up on bums.

You gave up on YOURSELF.

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post Oct 10 2009, 07:58 PM

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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 10 2009, 07:55 PM)

wow, talk and wining a debate is easy, but I debate putting my real life into consideration, making it real for me and I try to test myself if I'm put into this in real situation, I'm just being honest.

If you think you can go along with a BUM then you're super icon_rolleyes.gif

but as I say talk is cheap, nobody knows including yourself until you've been thru the real test.

I'll tell you another real story, My dad was sick with Parkinson and Alzheimer for 7 years, in the beginning it was nothing really taxing, just clumpsy and we didnt even know he had the sickness until one day my mom told us he tried to do a simple parking and he hit the front, and he reverse and hit it again. She sense something wrong with him and we took him to doc and check.

After few diagnose he was confirm Parkinson and Alzheimer. Thru the years his condition was getting worse, all these while I've told myself, I'll take care of dad. That time I was still with that bum and money was tight.

The last 3 years was the worse, my dad cannot balance himself and would fall, an old man 60+ falling is very dangerous doc already warn us, he might get stroke, and he is very serious Alzheimer, he cannot even remember his own bro and sis and most of his fren but he could remember me and my mom, I was his fav but also the naughtious.

I would take leave and send him to HUKM every 2-3 months, for check up take dopomine medication to suppress the parkinson. I would need to be there early around 9 and by time i get his medicaion it would be around 12.

I still tell myself I would stand by him.

Then the last 3 years we've no choice but tie my dad to a chair, he would shout bad words at me and mom, but we've to do it. He as a proud person, very vain, he dressed up smartly and always with cologne. He is very strict with us. But looking at him deteriorate to such state put tears into my eyes even as I write this now.

He cant go toilet by himself and he wont know when he wanna do his business, we need to carry him after he's done to the toilet and bath him, everyday, my mom is old and I'm only a girl, not a superwoman, I also have my life to live, but yet I stick by my decision.

sometimes when i couldnt leave my work my mom would just let him all in a mess until I come home, Until one day my mom hurt her back and couldnt carry my dad a few times a day, we decide to send him to old folks home at ampang.

When we leave him there, I cried throughtout the night, I drive there every other day, sometimes he would reconize me sometimes he wont, the place was not exactly 5 stars, was just a place to keep him alive, its messy and really smelly, I felt so ashame of myself, the promises I gave myself and not even to my mom, it was just a simple promise to myself that I would take care of dad, and I cant do it.

mom was feeling very bad about this, every morning breakfast she would cry, and both of us would hug each other and cry.

After about 2 months, i used to take mom to this chinese thit tar doc, and finally when her back is ok we decide no matter how hard we'll do it even if it means breaking our back. So we cancel the stay and brought him back.

Life was hard for the remaining 1 and a half years I think, dad was tied to the bed, his skin would be very flaky, i would take leave until nearly kena fire, and at night I really really party getting high not only in alcohol. Many times mom would call me to come back early cos dad made a mess and I would just delay and sometimes ignore her, I was really tired of all these, I was passed the stage where I feel ashame of myself, I just couldnt take the burden.

Many times I would pray to God to take my dad away, I would say it is for his own good but I think I do it because I cant take the burden anymore. one fine morning having breakfast with my mom, she ask me to check on dad as he was coughing, she told me to take him to see doc few days ago but I just dili dali, so I got up and went to dads room and I saw he was yellow, I went near him and feel his hands, it was really could, tears gather at my eyes I gave a last kiss on his forehead, my lips was like kissing on a cold tile.

I've phail, but I gave excuse to myself I'm only human, I can only take burden to only a certain load, I feel guilty and sorry, it has been many years since dad passed away I've never fail to go pray and put orkids to his grave every month, orkid was his fav flower. This is to remind myself, the failure I once was for I couldnt keep a simple promise to look after father.

Actually I duno if its good that I share such personal matter here, but guess nobody knows who I am they wont know who my dad was. And hopefully my experience will bring light to others here, because I know one day it would be my moms turn and this time I think I;m better prepared. And hopefully you guys be prepared to.

I swear to my dads grave every words here are the truth, this is not some chain mail stories, but what I've endure.

So back to you, promises are not given lightly, its easy to promise but hard to keep.

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Go ahead. Live your life with excuses.

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post Oct 10 2009, 10:30 PM

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QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Oct 10 2009, 09:28 PM)
lulz.

So most of you guise feel insecure because of this?

Giving Long wall of text just to feel better?
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Not really. It's more than that.

It's how not to have unknown warrior's life.

We're so insecure that we'll turn out like you, so we do our best.
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post Oct 11 2009, 01:55 AM

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QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Oct 11 2009, 01:21 AM)
Yeah that's the usual excuse after being humiliated.
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No, it's teh shit man.

It's usually the shit.

It's so precious nobody wants to give it away.

Are you worth the excrement?

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