i'd say

" Lets hope for the best and prepare for the worst "

sound more optimist rite?

actually dats wat i understand from all of the post and reply in this topic.

cmon fren, im used to be ur type of man. i admit dat and lets try to be better than this

we ain't dat bad maaa
rite?

hell up boy~!

if u dont practise and go through the pain, u wont able to perform any breakdance move.

Heavy metal lovers oso a?

wat similarities we've got here
haha

now tend to like oldies la and evergreen malays song

njoying karaoke with frens nowadays

better than lepak alone maa.. lets hang out man..

Man you are a really sharp guy...
Yeah I missed out on something, I'm leaving for Canada for my tertiary education in September ... she will be leaving for USA one year later.
I do plan to tell her how I feel before I leave, the problem is the aftermath ...

WHAT DOESN'T KILL YOU , MAKES YOU STRONGER !!!

.. but seriously ... confessing out loud to a girl.. saying things like .. " I have to tell u something ... I've known U for 2 months now .... and we're friends .. I really like u ... bla bla bla .. " .. if u say this .. without knowing if the the girl likes u or not .. u r finished .... its a big risk to take ... U'll get ur ego all crushed .. and u'll endup kicking ur nuts ... it's like ... placing a bet in a casino ... and the bet is 1000 bucks !! .. if u are rich and u can afford to lose it fine .. if u cant afford it ? ...
but u also can't go on living life without taking some risks .. you may regret not letting her know ... but there are always ways ..... try subtlety .. girls are good at picking up subtle hints ... .. every guy has to go through atleast 1 rejection ... not everyone will have 100% success rate ..

Actually, there is some better way to just direct confess your feeling about the girl/guy. It is better to give hint to the other and observe the response. Like try the ask whether you have a bf/gf while in the normal conversation. Or whats your desire partner and so on, 1st you can know whether he/she in a relationship, then he/she will notice you are interest in his/her live. Then the relationship can little by little improve till the right time to confess. By then if rejected sure he/she will try to advise or explain to you it not possible to be together. For the safeties way try to be friend 1st, it will really not a good feeling for each part. For sure direct confess will freak out the other party, cos they will feel I'm don't know you or not knowing you enough why I should accept you. And worry why such person act like freak, and any motive on me...

Honestly said, I had experience gals try to approach me by firstly be friend, then try to ask your personal feeling, asking your desire partner, try to get together with you, interest to your hobby. But then gals feeling are sensitive, they will sense even a little words or action of you. Just if you are not interest to them, after some test & hint from them, they will know right after. But I really an idiot which think too much, and so choosy till now I'm still a single which haven't got a gf before. Shame on me.

Mind i take your signature? thanks [even didnt you approve it lol]

what you said is true.....i had this kind of experience before and i thought i was wrong at first for suspecting him but it turn out that he really fall for me.

me: do u like me?
her:do u like me?
me: i ask u first.
her: i like u. do u like me.
me:ya i like u.

u see, so senang.
Why nd such a complicated wall of text to understand such a simple thing as love =O!

No wonder la. 

You just tell her u like her. No need to care if she like u back or not.
Your confession above got ulterior motive, or course she don't like.
Its like u scared to confess and want to question them to make the first move.

Need to be more suave. If thats even possible 

boys suckss                  

very nice writing thats just what i need 2 confess 2 that girl i have been hooking with...1st timer here

lets use a football match as an metaphor.....

u guys always think dat confession, is like the final penalty kick of the game, u score u win, & u miss u loose....
well....it's not....
in fact, confession is just a whistle which kick off the game....
it is a direct approach to say 2 the girl....."i'm here, & i'm gonna try win ur heart"....

dis is for those people who edi sick of the immature 'cat & mouse' game so called the 5 methods of letting the girl know u're interested....

how bout a more direct approach? u confess early, maybe by chance, she edi interested o had a crush on u & says yes....but the chances r low....
even if it is a no, it's just a whistle which kick off the game. she says no, doesn't meant it's the end.

i find the 5 methods of hinting a girl know u're interested r kinda time consuming, & old school young puppy love.....

to have love is better then never to love at all

evangelistica.

go rent a girl, seriously.

Its too expensive la. Best 5 star ones only about RM188 come with buffet meals and spa and extra service.

then, girls hate guys who go cheong. they see the guy as being filthy and dirty already, and wont date/bed him anymore.

so i guess your harga saham jatuh now.

careful la. got std and aids. if hj and bj only then ok i think.

you can't avoid scabbies with safe sex. be careful, check for rashes before you initiate contact.