QUOTE(ndgoh @ Mar 11 2009, 11:17 PM)
I received a notice with deep regrets that meeting on 12/3 will be postponed to next week... Ample time and notice is already given and yet majority are unable to attend. Why? Even if there are 3-4 members attending, I'll still come...
I take this charity thing very very seriously and have made BIG effort to attend 12/3 meeting by canceling or rescheduling my meetings and appointments.
I even take time off (weekends) and went shopping for clothes for the kids with a very happy heart... After buying lots of new clothes I felt so eager and excited for this event. I also thought of buying some sweets and chocolates as well... Well... sigh...
The response in this thread also luke warm and since this is the attitude and "warmth" response from members, I'll just pass on the clothes and the budget for the KFC/wedges to another member to deliver it to the kids la...
With a heavy heart, I wont be attending anymore meetings next week onwards (will be very very busy next week onwards) and I wont be coming on the 28/3 as well coz I need to go back hometown for Cheng Beng...
Please do make a big and kind effort for those kids so that they can have some funs once in a while...
Pls do PM me if there is anymore things I can do for those kids ya...
Cheers...
p/s Pls dont delete this post ya...

I'm sorry regarding about the meeting. Anyway, just to speak out from my part, I also made very BIG effort by preparing the agenda and my schedule for the meetings. When got to change to next week, I have to reschedule my meetings and appointments too, but is there anyone know about it? I can show everyone how pack my schedule is, even for my next month schedule is almost full. I'm not here to compare but just want it to be fair for everyone because I know a lot of us DO put in effort and being very SERIOUS with it.
The thread is for information and also let some people to drop questionse. I don't encourage 1 liner spamming here thus all one liner spam posts are deleted. We have the headline in LYN page to bump up this thread, why should we still yet spam the thread with not much information and make the thread being some like chat thread? Just in case you don't know, I had many many many discussion with a number of them in MSN, pm, sms, in fact a few of us came out talk about it too. So, what sort of attitude is this?
I may sound harsh but sorry to say, since everyone here treat me as a leader, I have my responsibility to take care of them and as well protect them. They do make a very big and kind effort to let the children have fun, in fact we even want to do more for them. For me, I'm doing it for the kids, for them who need our hands, thus I don't see a point by telling people what sort of sacrification I've made and what sort of things I'm doing for them. I just try my best to do for them and I think that's more than enough for me. This is what I'm expeecting from everyone here too. Do it for the children, why want to bother about the others? Do it with a heart of willingly and happily, never be stingy to your love and happiness, we should spread it all out around. If there's no donation or any materials contirbution it's alright, I can take the pain to get it out there. What I want is the attendance and the hand. That's far more important than those materials. They are happy to see people visit them, not happy with whatever things you give them.
Everyone do have their busy and tight schedule. I do have one and I don't mind when those who unable to make it for meeting or whatever. Just postpone it, I don't mind to cancel my two meetings next week just for it since most will be happier with that way. Why we only think of ownself? Try to put yourself in others shoes. From there I think will be better and happier.
Thank you
QUOTE(fastcx @ Mar 11 2009, 11:29 PM)
js to make things clear, most of the member do not post here its because to make sure it is clean. v discuss in msn. every1 has their sacrifice for this event, not just you, thx for being there. as for y sherly postponed the meeting, only she n those who cant attend knows.
on the side note, pls, will u guys do some time keeping? i dnt wish to see members being late on that day with excuses. if a simple time keeping is so hard to do well, what else can be done well? there r lots of time b4 the event, dont tell me it's not enough. do planning! when meeting time is set, n location for meet up is set, make sure u gets there in the time specified. if u r not sure about the location, ask at least a day before! if u'll be there late, call! its a simple task to be perform as a human
its a team project, not all handle by 1 person, so pls communicate well. other ppl cant read your mind if u dont speak.
Yes, it's a team project and I do agree with Vincent about the time keeping. I won't be able to handle everything alone, this is why I open up a thread here to ask for help. When I said I need your confirmation it mean I seriouosly do. I always give enough of time for everyone. Coming late, well seriously just let me know and I will be fine with it. FFK also, I won't mind if you let me know the real last minute.