Dear Ts,

I think you should focus on your career right now. I imagine that your lack of good job and lack of opportunities must be tearing your confidence down. It becomes an extra thing that your ex had to cope with.

Also, love is important but so is money. Why? Well, so you and your gf/wife will not have to argue about money all the time. Girls want financially stable men because they don't want to suffer every month from the lack of cash. They want to know that if they marry the guy, their children will not have to starve and their life will not be lacking of necessities.

Love turns sour when 1 argues too much about the same thing and money is a gigantic cause to arguments.

So for now, just work, seek opportunities and so forth. Asking a poor person to cope with being a rich guy is hard. Asking a rich person to cope with a poor partner is practically impossible. they are used to luxuries.