ya,its true!
but for my situation now is,i must hav enough money to move out 1st

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Added on January 22, 2009, 7:32 pmhuh~i m painful now,knowing the f***ing girl n he still lover!
wat should i do wif tis girl! i feel tat i wanna kill her,damn it!
i was talk to her tats better u ask him shift away n u both can stay together.coz i really dun wan c his f***ing face!
tat time d girl,i was settle to him tat we r break.
wat kind girl of tis f***ing b****!!!
y make herself very cheap one!!!

This post has been edited by iceicy: Jan 22 2009, 07:32 PM

Walk away frm him and ask ur inlaws for support. Also, tell him to contribute his share for teh kids

hah~my inlaws ask me to stay here lo

Got alimony payment? Anyway, work hard but at the same time care for your children Its also important to have a nice childhood... JIA YOU!!!

he cannot pay of it leh,tat f***ing guy always spend it better than giv me.
he can paid shit la

I tot about this, moving out for you maybe is difficult now because you need money and have 2 kids. Maybe now is good chance for you to prove yourself you are strong, you go back to work and be a super OL, climb up the ladder and reach the top, since you don't need to worry about relationship. Your in laws will do a good job in taking care of your kids, so dun worry about them, just be a normal mom and be strong in your work! After you climb to the top of the ladder, you will have money and status, I bet your man will come back looking for you since he's a trash!

That time, you have money & status, walk away with your kids, prove that he has made the wrong choice, live strong and live happy! You don't have to avoid the trash, don't have to be angry when you see him, the more you get angry, the more he take it for granted, show him your pride!

I know it's easy said than done, but gals are strong when they need to be, they are better in survival than men do! GO GALS!

tell ur in law tht u cant tahan already la.... even ur in law support u, but ur ex husband treat u like a stranger and ignore ur feeling why dont u just pack ur stuff and bring the kids to ur mother side ? ur in law support u also no use coz tht one also their son... watever their son doing also his son just tot ur in law singing only ....

i agree with you.. come out to work as a super OL.. prove to him that we gals are strong and vrave..

but i guess, ur age is around 20s, right? hope u dun mind...

he can don't care about your feeling, you can do so to him..

he will regret one day.. blif me.. guys always like that...

go for which is better.. so u must live better than him.. prove to him tat he make a wrong decision to treat u like dis..

hate that kind of *******..

gambate.. be strong..

Since ur in-laws still supporting u, ask them to take care of the kids during teh day and u start working

they working n they said after cny take maid,i oso wan go to work.but i just hav spm,wat kind of job should i work tat can support everything.
just for normal job is around 1k++,how to support?

For ur current situation, I think only 2 choice:

1) 1 eye open 1 eye close, live ur life as nothing happen
2) find another man

Since u hardly can survive on ur own with 2 kids with a salary of 1k++

2 options:

Work as a factory worker/ cashier, etc

Or furthur ur studies for a brighter future

maybe you can look for sales field...
or find a stall to sell food also not bad.

btw, do you really know your husband well before married to him ?
what is your age when you married to him?

Have you signed the divorce paper? You and your kids need money, it's not the time to think about how other guys will look at you with 2 kids now. I know how it's frustrated seeing the man who promised to take care of you all your life and now eating his own words. Think calm, ask the man for MONEY, your kids need money for basic education and not to mention those daily necessities.

actually he never give me money since we married

Cannot claim anything from him? Court action?

Actually do not look down on those food stall seller, I once met a Auntie sell variety mee (liu fen) at market earning 7-8k a month open stall from 6 am to 12 pm only, but that work is hot and tired la.. lol..

ya, i'm not surprice about this.
everybody maybe will save money from shopping and entertainment....
but still need to eat...

I never look down at food sellers.... My aunt sells cookies and cakes, and she earns more than some engineers in my family

The truth is, many girls are so cheap nowadays...
Will do anything to get a guy...
Your ex got money?
I wonder what the girl want from him...
Don't be sad... just move on and be strong