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TSiceicy
post Jan 21 2009, 01:01 AM, updated 17y ago

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man make me screaming,after divorce wat should i do n wat d man will think bout me n their family
i need u all suggestion.... icon_idea.gif
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post Jan 21 2009, 01:27 AM

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QUOTE(babysiiaozz @ Jan 21 2009, 01:21 AM)
^ zzz

@icecy
i dun hv experience at all, bt i knw girls are not weak!
we should stand up n show the guys girl power! lol ^^
good luck and all the best ^^
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TQ GIRL,YES I MUST STRONG COZ I HAV TO CARE MY 2 LOVER BABY wink.gif

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post Jan 21 2009, 12:30 PM

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QUOTE(Flizzardo @ Jan 21 2009, 02:34 AM)
prove it .
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prove wat? unsure.gif
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post Jan 21 2009, 01:02 PM

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QUOTE(StrawberryGirL @ Jan 21 2009, 12:42 PM)
ya.. u should stand brave to face the fate... eventhough u are divoice doens't mean the end of the day... smile.gif u still have to care ur 2 bb.. work hard to give a nice adn happiness family for ur 2 bb ^^ Good Luck
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thank girl,for me no more man can walk in my life again
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post Jan 21 2009, 07:45 PM

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QUOTE(StrawberryGirL @ Jan 21 2009, 07:10 PM)
i know its hard for u to face this problem sad.gif im sad to hearing tht u r divoice and left 2 bb with u... i hope u dont be sad ya  smile.gif
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i dun vly sad actually,coz i know no need to feel sad for someone like rubbish
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post Jan 22 2009, 01:31 AM

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QUOTE(StrawberryGirL @ Jan 21 2009, 07:49 PM)
actually wat happen to ur ex ? errr.. sorry if im asking  unsure.gif
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how u feel when u pregnant then he hav a girl?
n make u like u r d 3rd party n she is d 1st...
after i fullmoon,oledy settle down wif him,can u believe tat he drive my car to drive tat f***ing girl!


Added on January 22, 2009, 1:36 am
QUOTE(shaun3230 @ Jan 21 2009, 09:07 PM)
u should concentrate on the future and ur kids, forget ur man
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yes i know,but wat make me tension is i still stay them house.
coz my mother n father in law stand my side,they oso dun wan loose they grandson.
n he wif his father was f*** off,then stay beside he uncle house.
so i oso will c tat f***ing face,did u know its like d knife cut again my meet when i c him vmad.gif


Added on January 22, 2009, 1:37 am
QUOTE(Vermilion @ Jan 21 2009, 11:36 PM)
ga yao!!
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Added on January 22, 2009, 1:39 am
QUOTE(ha1o_kitty @ Jan 22 2009, 12:08 AM)
i hv lots of frens who are single mothers...they are doing fine, many of them are dating
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dating???
not again for me,i very tied oh sweat.gif

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post Jan 22 2009, 12:48 PM

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QUOTE(Gary1981 @ Jan 22 2009, 10:42 AM)
Get to know a girl which divorced with 4 kids & remarried to a singaporean guy..So you may wait for the day to come. Off course you may walk down the road alone with the raising of 2 kids, but i do believe at times, you will need someone to care you & share with you. But it is always hard to get a guy partner for a divorcy. As one of my friends complain to me sometimes she feel lonely. At initial year of divorcy, she just like you, i will walk down my road alone & no trust in man anymore, but in fact she faild to seek a guy that can accept her...Off course it can, but the probability will up to your life fate....Good Luck...
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u r rite,tq!


Added on January 22, 2009, 12:57 pm
QUOTE(VelVetDreAmzZz^_^ @ Jan 22 2009, 12:42 PM)
...but seriously...didn't he feel regret or sumting?
coz normally, a mother will usually give the father a chance if they are willing to change their ownself....on behalf of the babies...so that they have a healthy growing environment...

BUT

if he don't...then you must live well and bring up your kids well...prove to him that you can live well without him either and prove him wrong for finding other girls...curse them..hehe =)
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oledy lo,from starting pregnant he oso starting meet d girl,i just keep my mouth shut.but v oso argure bout it,he always said just good friend oli. i dun wanna catch him,i still give him change. but doh.gif
even i put down my wif status to called him,if u really hate me o unlike me o wat pls just pls wait till i give birth. coz i m not 1 life n i will under control.after i giv birth u can do as u like...
but wat happen? his do all it just like single guys,he said not because her third party is becoz we no more felling tats y i will go to other wacko.gif

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post Jan 22 2009, 05:43 PM

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QUOTE(pangping1510 @ Jan 22 2009, 02:49 PM)
walk away from men who have cheated on you, even if its only once cuz he will do it over and over again (even obama cheated on his wife before)

be brave and look into the future
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ya,its true!
but for my situation now is,i must hav enough money to move out 1st rclxub.gif


Added on January 22, 2009, 7:32 pmhuh~i m painful now,knowing the f***ing girl n he still lover!
wat should i do wif tis girl! i feel tat i wanna kill her,damn it! vmad.gif
i was talk to her tats better u ask him shift away n u both can stay together.coz i really dun wan c his f***ing face!
tat time d girl,i was settle to him tat we r break.
wat kind girl of tis f***ing b****!!!
y make herself very cheap one!!!

This post has been edited by iceicy: Jan 22 2009, 07:32 PM
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post Jan 22 2009, 10:15 PM

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QUOTE(shaun3230 @ Jan 22 2009, 08:44 PM)
Walk away frm him and ask ur inlaws for support. Also, tell him to contribute his share for teh kids
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hah~my inlaws ask me to stay here lo blink.gif
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post Jan 22 2009, 11:37 PM

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QUOTE(elite_smart @ Jan 22 2009, 10:53 PM)
Got alimony payment? Anyway, work hard but at the same time care for your children biggrin.gif Its also important to have a nice childhood... JIA YOU!!!
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he cannot pay of it leh,tat f***ing guy always spend it better than giv me.
he can paid shit la
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post Jan 23 2009, 07:55 PM

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they working n they said after cny take maid,i oso wan go to work.but i just hav spm,wat kind of job should i work tat can support everything.
just for normal job is around 1k++,how to support?
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post Jan 24 2009, 10:05 PM

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actually he never give me money since we married

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post Jan 28 2009, 03:37 PM

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QUOTE(shaun3230 @ Jan 28 2009, 11:25 AM)
Learn baking, sell frm home. Can earn big $
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thanks shaun,may i know where can i learn it?academy?
where n which? tq!
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post Jan 28 2009, 08:23 PM

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QUOTE(shaun3230 @ Jan 28 2009, 05:23 PM)
Where to learn? Erm.. mine I learnt from my aunt..

But nowadays, u can try at those community college
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haha u from melaka rite?which part? how to find ur auntie? imposible i go back hometown to learn it
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post Jan 29 2009, 06:52 PM

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QUOTE(shaun3230 @ Jan 29 2009, 12:30 PM)
U want her number? But I dont think she got apperentice programme...

I`m frm Klebang btw

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So, I think ur best bet would be those courses by the Community College. Its free for single mothers and there are some centre that allow u to bring ur kids.

Also, do you have a computer at home? I`m guessing yes. You might wanna do online trade? Or how about a web designer? Learn how to use Microsoft Publisher/ Front Page and Dreamweaver. Its real easy to use and is a powerful tool for designing web sites for those who do not know how to code.

I use to design web site (at a price of  course) since sec school for extra income. I would have chosen it as my career, but my stupid cousin who is 2 years older than me accepted projects and asked for RM10 only.

In general, web designers can earn anywhere between 350 to 3k per project, depending on the complexity of the project.

If u need help in web designing, dont hesitate to ask me ;-)
Another suggestion is to write a book but I dont think u can do this full time. U`d be surprised in ur writing skills I tell you.
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hi shaun nice sounds from u,can u add my msn ling_1238@hotmail.com
im just starting to do online shop,but im stuoid one.haha,no choice. i come from poor family so didn't hav touch pc yet. until now at my low house got pc,but i really not familiar for everything.
n about d academy,could u intru me which one is good,i think better is pj state.
n wat d coz sweat.gif
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post Jan 29 2009, 07:52 PM

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thank to u all

 

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