I tot about this, moving out for you maybe is difficult now because you need money and have 2 kids. Maybe now is good chance for you to prove yourself you are strong, you go back to work and be a super OL, climb up the ladder and reach the top, since you don't need to worry about relationship. Your in laws will do a good job in taking care of your kids, so dun worry about them, just be a normal mom and be strong in your work! After you climb to the top of the ladder, you will have money and status, I bet your man will come back looking for you since he's a trash!

That time, you have money & status, walk away with your kids, prove that he has made the wrong choice, live strong and live happy! You don't have to avoid the trash, don't have to be angry when you see him, the more you get angry, the more he take it for granted, show him your pride!

I know it's easy said than done, but gals are strong when they need to be, they are better in survival than men do! GO GALS!