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Advice Wanted Convenient Store Girl, How would you approach for numbers?

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basriucs
post Dec 23 2008, 10:40 AM

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QUOTE(emino @ Dec 23 2008, 10:30 AM)
note to self - get a car license.
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hahaha..

emm most malay gals i've dated are quite shy to have a face to face conversation(on the first date)...they more comfortable to have side-by-side conversation(such in a car)..

Well anyway, gud luck to u
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post Dec 23 2008, 11:16 AM

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TS mission accomplished. rclxms.gif
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post Dec 23 2008, 11:20 AM

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QUOTE(emino @ Dec 21 2008, 02:06 PM)
She just replied... ITS 7E GIRL! WOOHOO!!!
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honestly, i dun think u need our advise anymore
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post Dec 23 2008, 02:08 PM

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QUOTE(basriucs @ Dec 23 2008, 10:40 AM)
hahaha..

emm most malay gals i've dated are quite shy to have a face to face conversation(on the first date)...they more comfortable to have side-by-side conversation(such in a car)..

Well anyway, gud luck to u
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post Dec 23 2008, 02:19 PM

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ask oni lar...
may i have ur number plz?
if she dun give, just give up tongue.gif
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post Dec 23 2008, 03:48 PM

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QUOTE(al3xa_piggy @ Dec 23 2008, 02:19 PM)
ask oni lar...
may i have ur number plz?
if she dun give, just give up tongue.gif
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post Dec 23 2008, 10:57 PM

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aiyak..u never have a date with gurl kaa? i know you...quit outspoken...still need guide from us ka?hehehe
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post Dec 23 2008, 11:30 PM

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QUOTE(sissoko @ Dec 23 2008, 10:57 PM)
aiyak..u never have a date with gurl kaa? i know you...quit outspoken...still need guide from us ka?hehehe
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Never with someone who I really, really like. Usually they asked me out wor... Shy guy!
Plus, this time its a total stranger. Not college friends etc...
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post Dec 24 2008, 01:00 AM

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Seriously, I thought I am watching Densha Otoko all over again. What the hell ...

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KITAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!


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Job well done on getting her attention. Next step is to get to know her well, don't rush into things. Movie on a first date isn't really a good idea. As in my opinion, girls like these needed to be shown respect towards them.

Heck, she already agreed. Just try to have a good long conversation with her. Be yourself. No need to act all mighty and proud. Be humble and aware.

Insya-Allah, if your intentions are good(which I assumed they are), the girl might make a place in her heart for you.

This post has been edited by boxsystem: Dec 24 2008, 01:12 AM
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post Dec 24 2008, 05:05 AM

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ok first,

just forget everything you learned on PUA or all that shit, this is daylight game, not some party or club where people are open to strangers approaching them, and if she is, I doubt you want to blow your only chance finding out.

this works,trust me, for peeps who are skeptical, you either did not deliver it with enough confidence, correct tone, good posture, eye contact, or that girl was just having a bad day. Girls in Malaysia are not usually approached in daylight by men, for the very reason that most men are afraid. So doing so, will show that you are in fact an alpha among all those other men and even if she DOES reject you, would you rather her having remember you as that unknown stranger at the store or that confident guy who grabbed opportunity when it came but just wasn't her type? I propose the latter.

go up to her slowly in a 45 degree angle from to her (not from the back-stalker or front-might be too intimidating)

eye contact FIRST, then smile.

"I don't mean to be rude, but I just think you are an amazingly beautiful person and decided to come over here to introduce myself"

Tell your name, shake hands, ask hers.

"So I gotta run soon, but I'm getting a friendly vibe from you, could I have your number and call you out sometime?"

props to Mystery for this, this sentence does two things: 1) false time constraint-avoids and awkward silence and shows you are not lifeless 2)you said she was friendly,,now a friendly girl would not reject an invitation cause that would make her....??? yes, unfriendly. So she won't want that image.

That's all,simple and beautiful. Used it tons of times in malls,clubs,bars,college. Even on a bad day, success rate is 1 number out of 4 approaches. Which is pretty good considering most guys don't approach even one. So carpe deim, seize the day,life is short and you're gonna be a fertilizer soon, so what if you get embarassed? so what if you rejected? you're gonna die anyway,,that's worst. get everything you can out of this earth and make a change in your life. No exceptions.




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post Dec 24 2008, 08:43 AM

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So what's next? smile.gif

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abg power
post Dec 24 2008, 09:51 AM

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QUOTE(emino @ Dec 15 2008, 02:43 PM)
Hello.

Recently at the 7-11 near my house theres this cute malay girl starts working. Shes so softspooken, welldressed and very polite. She's so cute. Sometimes she wear glasses and sometimes she wear contacts. Both are very cute... Anyway...

I'm very interested in her. She is the reason of my frequest visit to 7-11 these few weeks. I've attempted small talks with the girl and know some little info about her. And finally last week I managed to get her name.

The question. How should I get her number? Isit too soon? I'm really seriously interested in her. And remember, before you give your advice, we're talking about those good malay girl type, not the social and casual kind of girl. She'll only work there till the end of this year (semester break). I think I dont look too bad, and have a steady job. Do I have a chance?

Should I go for it?

p.s. NO PICTAR!
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uiks,HAHAHAHA...i know this guy..my office mate...
what a shame...
never fall in love before aaaa??????!!!!!1


Added on December 24, 2008, 10:07 am
QUOTE(abg power @ Dec 24 2008, 09:51 AM)
uiks,HAHAHAHA...i know this guy..my office mate...
what a shame...
never fall in love before aaaa??????!!!!!1
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bring ur glider..
definitely she will accept u...
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This post has been edited by nairud: Dec 25 2008, 02:19 AM
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post Dec 24 2008, 10:11 AM

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QUOTE(abg power @ Dec 24 2008, 09:51 AM)
uiks,HAHAHAHA...i know this guy..my office mate...
what a shame...
never fall in love before aaaa??????!!!!!1


Added on December 24, 2008, 10:07 am
bring ur glider..
definitely she will accept u...
drool.gif
the girl name is xxx
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I think the fact that you purposely create an account just to throw an insult is more shameful than what I've ever done. Dah takde keje ke? Gi la buat keje. Shoosh!

You're such a jerk for doing this. Revealing the girl's identity and all. What had she ever done to you huh?

If you're a gentlemen, please remove her name from your post. Any problem with me, should be settled with me. Not by releasing personal info about that girl.

This post has been edited by emino: Dec 24 2008, 10:21 AM
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QUOTE(emino @ Dec 23 2008, 11:30 PM)
Never with someone who I really, really like. Usually they asked me out wor... Shy guy!
Plus, this time its a total stranger. Not college friends etc...
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so how is da progress? eaten called her yet? laugh.gif
today xmas eve wor, got any plan? blush.gif

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QUOTE(AHBOON @ Dec 24 2008, 10:14 AM)
so how is da progress? eaten called her yet?  laugh.gif
today xmas eve wor, got any plan? blush.gif
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Tonight cannot do anything wor... Got food poisoning since last night. Need to stay near toilets all time. sweat.gif
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post Dec 24 2008, 10:17 AM

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QUOTE(Beachkid @ Dec 24 2008, 05:05 AM)
ok first,

just forget everything you learned on PUA or all that shit, this is daylight game, not some party or club where people are open to strangers approaching them, and if she is, I doubt you want to blow your only chance finding out.

this works,trust me, for peeps who are skeptical, you either did not deliver it with enough confidence, correct tone, good posture, eye contact, or that girl was just having a bad day. Girls in Malaysia are not usually approached in daylight by men, for the very reason that most men are afraid. So doing so, will show that you are in fact an alpha among all those other men and even if she DOES reject you, would you rather her having remember you as that unknown stranger at the store or that confident guy who grabbed opportunity when it came but just wasn't her type? I propose the latter.

go up to her slowly in a 45 degree angle from to her (not from the back-stalker or front-might be too intimidating)

eye contact FIRST, then smile.

"I don't mean to be rude, but I just think you are an amazingly beautiful person and decided to come over here to introduce myself"

Tell your name, shake hands, ask hers.

"So I gotta run soon, but I'm getting a friendly vibe from you, could I have your number and call you out sometime?"

props to Mystery for this, this sentence does two things: 1) false time constraint-avoids and awkward silence and shows you are not lifeless 2)you said she was friendly,,now a friendly girl would not reject an invitation cause that would make her....??? yes, unfriendly. So she won't want that image.

That's all,simple and beautiful. Used it tons of times in malls,clubs,bars,college. Even on a bad day, success rate is 1 number out of 4 approaches. Which is pretty good considering most guys don't approach even one. So carpe deim, seize the day,life is short and you're gonna be a fertilizer soon, so what if you get embarassed? so what if you rejected? you're gonna die anyway,,that's worst. get everything you can out of this earth and make a change in your life. No exceptions.
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if she dunwan to shake the hand at all ler? i got this kind of experince b4, so shame

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post Dec 24 2008, 01:04 PM

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Hoho, all the best TS on the movie date. You did prove some doubters wrong, those who doubt she's interested in you since she did not gave you her number. Looking forward to hear more stories from you after the date .. brows.gif
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honestly, you told ppl to forget about PUA things...and you are recommending to use it yourself, daygame, nightgame...still, it's just socialization...and believe me...i see a whole lot of PUA techniques in your conversation above...=)

i ain't saying that it's bad, but well, one really needs to know how to open to game...XD, and even better, you have quite a success rate there...for strangers (random people) that is..

to another person:
if she dunwan to shake the hand at all ler? i got this kind of experince b4, so shame
just tell her that be sporting abit, and it's fine shaking hands...and give her a smile...unless you look pretty creepy...

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post Dec 24 2008, 02:36 PM

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u guys ni...TS already got her number la...smile.gif

umbrella ela ela eh eh smile.gif

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