Hey gals,

Appreciate n feel lucky with the good 1 u hv now.. i hv staying in a house for years n changed few housemates.. all hv different problem so it make we human imperfect maybe.. but most of them keen to take u for granted specially on cleaning house part.. most of them juz keep quiet n hide in their room without cleaning the house common area like toilet, bathroom, living room n kitchen which everyone r using it.. when the topic is arises among them all just keep quiet n show none-of-my-business tat kind of face.. some more worst, make dirty the floor by walking in the house with their d*mn shoes n not bother to clean the floor at all.. for drinking water, as we hv the water dispenser at home everyone just take the water from there n not bother to "refill" it at all even when it gonna to dry..

This post has been edited by @lice~~: Dec 4 2008, 12:54 PM

my experience,... never have housemate with your best friend, coz you will lose your best friend at the end .... lolz.... But this is just my experienced. I believe others can stay well with girl**** .

btw, last time i stayed at that house is haunted house, scary. i wont go back again!!! ......

Just try your best to try to save the friendship. But if the other party has no intention to, then just forget about it.
I faced the same problem few yr back. I tried my best to save it, so no regrets!

talk is key

now my housemate all ok...we have 3 rooms,3 toilets so no need rebut. myself 1 room (student),another gal 1room (working),3 guys master room (student)...this type of environment,i feel so happy...my point is---i din kacau u,u dun kacau me,else WAR...

i've 2 experience in this house:

previously the whole house is all students,i'm the only girl in that house and 6 guys...all of us are close,caz senior junior all staying together... till one day,1 of my housemate--my secondary friend oso my current classmates--(crazy)...have new gf...this girl..1st is ok,but i getting mad when come to group work with her,slow and lazy type,i'm type of acting fast person so with my other group members. 1 sem pass by,this girl need to move house,so,she ask me whether i can stay with her in my room,i refused,reason,i'm not so close with u and i've encountered with over busybody roomate before this. so,she ask her bf,my ex-housemate(crazy) to ask whether i can let his gf be my roomate or not,my bf refused caz scare once again i have bad bad roomate..so i rejected and saying that i'm not very close and not clear wat type of person ur gf is... so no asking anymore.... lab work gonna start,then one of my groupmate refused to group up with this girl,but i had promised to keep this as secret,so who ever ask,i will just say,i duno..

so,this crazy's gf was mad at me now,saying that i cheated her.i dun bother caz lazy to explain with this type of barbarian.... soon,she cant take it and started making story with crazy...my exhousemate... problem starts...whole house was like war... other housemate involved too because dislike this crazy's act,rude and alcoholic...and oso his gf used to come and stay...finally,this gf persuade crazy to move and rent a whole house to stay with her.then they moved,and on that time,he asked back for his previous deposit,but he didnt obey the contract,so we cant give back the deposit,and he resisted to return the key... see,ridiculous person


so,a house will never be peaceful is lots of girl staying together,especially with those talkative,mouth like chicken butt....

no problem for mix stay (girl and guy)....less problem and live in a peaceful condition...


now,someone who stay with this crazy and crazy's gf suffer,reason becaz this 2 ppl selfish,and lots of gossip among housemates...till in class,they still wanna talk bad things about their housemate....really bad ppl i feel,thank goodness they shifted out from my place...glad....
during final exam,imagine,4 guys 1 girl staying in 1 room...(news spreading by their housemate)...and 1 of the guy complaining to my housemate,saying that he cant sleep the whole nite,becaz so uncomfortable 4 guys 1 girl in a room... whenever he turn his body,the crazy's gf is beside him...



not all of gal is bad,but mostly problem start becaz of some problematic girl

Thanks for all ur advise.....new news is that i already moved from that house....the reason because they acted reallly rude by throwing my clothes on the "tong sampah hitam" luar rumah....b4 that i tried to be friends with them but this is wut they give me.....my other frend they took out her thing from the cupboard and put them at the hall (all terabur)....both of us moved out and live together at another house....

wa, they really act so rude to u wo

my experience same with mimi82
super bad experience and bad memories i gained

once stay together, all the bad attitude some out, what i hate is i doing my best but she tot i hutang her like tat, gr.......
i spend my final semester hiding in my room and library, cannot tahan to listen to 'cold word' and d stupid face, d*mn
juz hate the self-central ppl, create the rule but braek the rule pula

I've been in malacca for 4 yrs of my uni yrs. Hsmate crisis seldom la, rather its always problem with da landlord coz i use 2 stay in teres houses, not quite use 2 stay in apartments where u have all kinds of ppl around. Landlords r pure A-holes. They will have da thinking dat u students who can afford 2 study in some other states r usually damn loaded with cash n all.

But as my experience, usually a peaceful house always consists of guys n gals. Pure guys home = Dirty n messy. Pure gals home = Havoc. U PMS I PMS = 3rd world war. Guys usually have girlfriends problem n all. Some guys who r overprotected n pampered will also throw a tantrum at petty things. Some pondans who r not fit 2 be guys will be very picky over things and calculative. Gals, usually its da housework dat sparks da fire. All wants da house to be clean but none wants to start acting. PMS time, for nothing they will put a long face. Gals r even more calculative. They can calculate with u 2 da cents, horrible. In total, when things screw up, it can turn 2 be very very ugly, i mean extremely unexpected, not something dat they will usually do.

Advice, try not 2 live in da same house with ur best friends or ur cousins. I believe dat living under da same roof will definitely spark out some sort of crisis, its all depending on da time n da willingness of 1 part to give way. If both r hot tempered, it can be as soon as a month or sooner.

one word : confrontation

this problem will continue to persist even after you leave college. At work, when you move away from your house to a bigger town or outstation for a job...continue to ignore and the other party will think its okay to continue doing what they think is right. You have to confront them or it'll only get uglier.

my situation exactly what u mentioned lor..
now we have our own life without bothering each other. those who 'supporting' her not looking for me, and those who 'supporting' me not talk with her ( anyway, those fren with me dun like her attitude long time ago, and those with her are keep on tolerate her like what i did before, pity!!))

Considered ok liao if compared to mine

Well, I had a housemate that was a pain in the arse. She was moody all the time and she brought the whole house down from her moodiness. And the best part was we shared a room. Well, in the end, she just couldn't get along with the whole house and she moved out. The 3 of us still get along perfectly well with each other.

u r too pretty and they envy of u!!! or did you backstab them?

mouth so evil.. maybe

my matric roommates... never talk to them for two years now...
my first year roommate.. we argued at the end of first year, and now, she only talk to me since I'm one of the student's faculty council... figures...
my second year roommate (my room)... I had a problem of waking up late with her
my second year housemates (the house)... I had a problem with people keep using the bathroom frequently (like shower, go out. Go in, brush teeth. Go out. Go in wash face. go out. Go in, pee, go out) Its friggin annoying.. I almost blurt out if she had some pathological problem since she always enter to pee every half an hour... duh... its really annoying is when its happen when I was really late...

But just bear with it....

Are they the one paying for your rental????i mean RENTAL(the answer NO)..if thats the case just let them be,dont talk better than talk alot.

My FaV BlOg

PENNY GRACE 3D HOUSE

hoho, lucky me. all this is over, but i stayed in all guys home. true enough, very messy, and i was staying in a rented room, room only i had, and a shared toilet,

but the toilet the other person never kleen it. so i got to clean it, but i never complained, i only had one goal , buy my own house, so i went out there shop for a house then i had it, now im staying in my own place, of course some of u are students. well i prefer those house with less ppl in it , so that u have more time for urselves. like during my college years, i was staying with only 3 person, my room mate not in 60% of the time, my housemate only go out in the morning, and comeback late in the night, so seldom see him , only when collecting money for rent, and water and power bill,
so i had the time all for myself, so much fun, but some ppl cannot take it, so this is the problem , i like things to myself, and seldom mix with ppl, it is annoying sometimes ppl come kacau u what u doing, what u watching, and we always like privacy, but i bet i paid through my nose for the privacy. less room mate more expensive the price to stay loh.....