Hi LYN fellows,

As mention on the topic title,.....I just would like to know is there any1 here (guys or gals) who nvr paktor b4? Which means nvr had 1st love also.

Mind 2 tell and share it out the reason why?

me

the reason

= too much self analysis
= egoistic
= low self esteem
= cynical
= Doing the world a favour

i am...dunno why...its not a problem to me..why ask?

me

Me, never had any relationship before; always one sided one.

Reason?

Not enough merits in me I guess.

Me

- Being flamed and accused of stealing of other people girlfriend when i never did that, being threatened and almost beaten
- Rejected offer for date from female
- Now on self-imposed moratorium

looking for lonely-souls anonymous?

me me.
Staying single when you're young is cool.
No worries.

I thought tat I was the only 1 here

me me me.

same situation with me


how young is young?

I am 27
never been love before

am I too old?

I pak tor before ...... 6th times ..... time to dump the 6th and go for 7th.....

me. cause i'm too much like a friend to everybody to be a proper BF.

me lorr...22 still single. sometimes worry too old still single.
many frens ask me find bf..give chance to them but i not ready yet to accept any guys.
i very very scare to get hurt and dump at the end. i not trust true love will maintain for long time. i really so scare!!

here, do yourself a favour and be happy
http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/795421

I am very surprised!

Anyway, be yourself and hope for nice guy coming, and remember to consider the future of your offsprings too!

22 is your post count...post one more on your next birthday..

im 22 too...enjoy the life..!

This post has been edited by xen0: Oct 4 2008, 10:25 PM

get a platonic friend then

still got nice guy in this world meh?? mostly nice guy have gf alredi lo.
i not mind whether got offsprings or not in the future cuz i very scare nurture children too!

Hehe, it's your choice...

Anyway, why are you scared to nurture childrens? Economic fear?

u both should try going out on blind dates or something..im sure LYN has many nice guys to offer..

not economic fear la.. i'm not a independent person... no matter how always need others to help me so how can nurture children?

Understandable, at least from your perspective

i just join lyn not long ago... my fren told me that those guys in lyn are buaya worr... can trust meh..

This post has been edited by PrincesS86: Oct 4 2008, 10:52 PM

I am still lookinf for a girl that can fly, if not I will stay single forever.

It depends, it varies...

You cannot expect all fishes are swimming on the pond

facebook application like speeddate helps alot

me also...
spend most of my time taking care of Nobita...
no pak tor so how???

not all i guess..sure got some nice guys one..like me..

is it true? just an excuse oni.
what reason actually

be a hero
find a girl that got wings
hahaha

How come mostly guys ah? Why so few girls? Does this reflect the male to female ratio in our society? I did pak tor once but it was short lived. Well, at least it's better than not having done so.

chicks normally got wing...

My understanding of this is based from the floral world...

Bees is male

Flower is female

Flower with nectar, attracts bees easily! Honey is something that the bees wanted, so they keep coming to flower for the nectars!

Me too.Never pak tor before.

ME...y?

Coz..no girlfriend...


and.....


Still depend on parents money.....no joy in that.


But....being single is nice...no need to jaga people's hati and no need to waste time go paktoh here and there just to know that it ends so soon..

Dont bang me....its my way of thinkin....i dont have such luxury time to waste on some unstable investment...unless if i want to get married.

i enjoyed my life when i was single, and still do....

That's a good analogy and I second that. Now the question is, are there enough flowers for the bees to extract the nectars from?

Assuming my facts are true, do you think the reason why there are more single males around is because Muslim men are allowed to have 4 wives and those rich non-muslim ones keep mistresses?

reporting in........ the girls say i m just too perfect for them....sad case

where you go also got a lot of buaya wan la
be safe, choose to go with a bird

hey, you're the one who used to have the floral shop in the signature right?

I got pak toh b4 but most of my friend around me dont, mind to listen too?

What i know from them
mostly they got someone interested in but just too shy to tell the girl
or they know that in a relationship require lots of money and headaches
so they just wait a girl suddenly come to them and beg them to be with her (this is what i think)

me me me
-relationships at young age, never works out, they're only puppy love
-i cant stay loyal to 1 person
-cant find someone i really love
-am not interested to get into relationship quarrels (its stress)
-dont find the need to paktor, happy with my single life

I don't see it anymore
maybe my adblock is removing the image

shenay never paktor b4?

It's like a balancing act...

Hooked up or single? Both got pro's and con's...depending on how you think, both can be the comfort zone just like snail's shell...

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Added on October 5, 2008, 12:28 amThis is mostly true for Chinese, in my opinion, Chinese family regards male highly, because they are deemed as the continuation of their family lineage...

Thus, more males compared to females...

This is purely my deduction...

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Oct 5 2008, 12:28 AM

haha i everyday tengok leng chai, cannot pak tor lar =x

being attached got its pros too, like doing things together.
but somehow i never feel like its something i lack of in life maybe cause i still find comfort in my girlfriends xD

i just dont like being attached even with the one i like.
probably just not the right time yet

very funny.. the title says ppl who havent even date be4

but some ppl here who admit nvr pat tor be4 will know pat tor at young age never works out/dont trust true love will maintain long/cant stay loyal/scared will get hurt/not interested in quarrels

is like havent eat sushi,already know wat it taste like

deceptive

why so indirect lil_flank?
its only my point of view when i see what my other girlfriends go through.
probably your relationship since young is still maintained until today.
thank your lucky star if thats the case, because it happens 1/1000 time.

haha bad dazzy, its true xD

This post has been edited by Shenay: Oct 5 2008, 12:33 AM

I never been in a relationship, but after i felt the asam-garam (thick or thin) of being accused and flamed publicly for stealing a girlfriend, something that i never done.....i am reconsidering to have date and thus, a moratorium has been imposed from Form 3 until now...

me too... huhu
been going alone with girls thats it

i agree 1st love is hard to maintain n is very rare. in my opinion,those reasons jus now i stated are jus excuse for ppl who havent meet thier mr/miss right yet. if a super lengchai/lenglui ask u to become their partner,will those reasons still flowing around ur mind?i doubt it

another eg:
don tell me u know driving a car will hav some risk of being in an accident, so u don hav any plans on taking a driving license.

from accidents,we gain more experience and learn to be more careful

you mean the reasons i stated, not you stated right ?
its not excuses, its just what i feel at the moment when i havent gotten my mr right yet.
well to me, it doesnt mean i will be happy if im with a leng chai.
though i love looking at leng chai's, i only admire them & never had the thought of being with them because there's so many other stuff to be taken into consideration before getting into one r/s.
maybe im still quite young that's why i dont wanna venture into a r/s.
and besides, my reasons are for NOW & only now.
of course i cant tell whats gonna happen in the future.

oh well,different ppl different mindsets

btw,i like ur signature i've never been perfect, but neither have you

its from linkin park-leave out all the rest

very meaningful

haha yeah probably to guys, its a different side.
no hard feelings man.
yep im in love with that song & will always be!
so meaningful and super sweet.

how about tat plumber? ?

me

Me, me

isit something to be proud of or what ?

me

im 10

some of my friends have not even touch a girl hand before,so do you think they had couple before.

anyway,i think they only reason they have not couple is because they are not prepare for a relationship as it require lots of commitment.

well,...when 1st time knowing a new fren....nvr shake hand also?

me

well,i are not sure about that,but i can ask them

me

reason :- the girls whom i have crush on all are taken away =/

Me

Not good looking enuf
Taken away
No time,study is important..

yukiz?

yukiz here...
UGPM...

no,he's not yukiz~

This post has been edited by cheeann: Oct 5 2008, 11:06 AM

heh the plumber's butt was attractive mar =x

me...

so is yukiz'a butt~

me me

me me
too much spend time infront of computer..

count me in

meow

me lor..

reason?? i wish i noe..

girls hand touch many time b4.. coz dancing ma in camps.. haha..

damn u bro
i really admire dancer. especially guys.
surely you do have a outburst personalities.

Envy you haha.

nope.. i am not a dancer.. juz some camps organised by students..

and in plkn of coz.. dance with the "camp flower"..

got it??

ahahha
damn but still envy u.

okok i got it

I havent~ Xx
\
Cheer me up Xx

Ah, on 2nd thought,mmm no need, i see all those post of comfort making it worse only lolx

Thinking: PMR in a week time.. scared 2

aiyoo..
u only form 3 only nia..
got a lot of time..
wait till finis spm 1st la..

and that is why im the spam beast~~

hahahaha,

Form 3 so...? I see gt half of my friend doing french kiss with another gurl d lo..

wah bro
virgin detected cant believe it

u tot i din c b4 meh..

but sumtimes really feel lonely loo..

if i not mistaken, you are driving an SLK and flirting around in clubs

Whats wrong with being a virgin!! TELL ME WHATS WRONG!!!


LoLx, glad thats over...

Virgin got its advantage, .....

on second thought, nope

hahah no bro virgin is good
everything seems so EXCITING lol

i know hehehhehehehe, but sometimes i feel like experiencing s*x, or maybe foreplay is good enough hahahaha

hahaha
dowan to elaborate further go with the flow of life and you will experience it lol

But its going to be a long time away~ I dont expect 16 year old to have s*x, start elaborate pls

dunno la bro i am an old faggot
never pathor also when i was form 3 lol

I may have chance, but give up a lots

Similar to you

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Added on October 5, 2008, 7:17 pmmy queen, why don't give you a trial ?

This post has been edited by davidmu: Oct 5 2008, 07:17 PM

i feel so abandoned, being the only virgin around LYN

me

coz too picky, not good de no interest, too nice, hard get

now kinda malas oso la wan kao lol, enjoy freedom a while ba

izit nice guys hard to get gf??
like ppl say.. boys not bad, gals dun wan..
izit??

Simple trick to find a gf.

Join a dance class.

Girls digs guys who can dance, and chaces are, u'll be the few RARE guys in the dance class. Tadaaaa.......take ur pick with all the girls there.