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 Any1 here who has not pak tor b4?, Individual with no 1st love

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Kampung2005
post Oct 4 2008, 10:01 PM

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Me

- Being flamed and accused of stealing of other people girlfriend when i never did that, being threatened and almost beaten
- Rejected offer for date from female
- Now on self-imposed moratorium
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post Oct 4 2008, 10:23 PM

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QUOTE(PrincesS86 @ Oct 4 2008, 10:17 PM)
me lorr...22 still single. sometimes worry too old still single.
many frens ask me find bf..give chance to them but i not ready yet to accept any guys.
i very very scare to get hurt and dump at the end. i not trust true love will maintain for long time. i really so scare!! sad.gif  sad.gif
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I am very surprised!

Anyway, be yourself and hope for nice guy coming, and remember to consider the future of your offsprings too!
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post Oct 4 2008, 10:39 PM

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QUOTE(PrincesS86 @ Oct 4 2008, 10:32 PM)
still got nice guy in this world meh?? mostly nice guy have gf alredi lo.
i not mind whether got offsprings or not in the future cuz i very scare nurture children too!
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Hehe, it's your choice...

Anyway, why are you scared to nurture childrens? Economic fear?
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post Oct 4 2008, 10:45 PM

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QUOTE(PrincesS86 @ Oct 4 2008, 10:44 PM)
not economic fear la.. i'm not a independent person... no matter how always need others to help me so how can nurture children?  sweat.gif
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Understandable, at least from your perspective smile.gif
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post Oct 4 2008, 10:50 PM

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QUOTE(PrincesS86 @ Oct 4 2008, 10:46 PM)
i just join lyn not long ago... my fren told me that those guys in lyn are buaya worr... can trust meh..
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It depends, it varies...

You cannot expect all fishes are swimming on the pond biggrin.gif
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post Oct 4 2008, 11:07 PM

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QUOTE(samteng @ Oct 4 2008, 11:06 PM)
How come mostly guys ah? Why so few girls? Does this reflect the male to female ratio in our society? I did pak tor once but it was short lived. Well, at least it's better than not having done so.
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My understanding of this is based from the floral world...

Bees is male

Flower is female

Flower with nectar, attracts bees easily! Honey is something that the bees wanted, so they keep coming to flower for the nectars!
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post Oct 5 2008, 12:25 AM

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QUOTE(Shenay @ Oct 5 2008, 12:20 AM)
me me me
-relationships at young age, never works out, they're only puppy love
-i cant stay loyal to 1 person
-cant find someone i really love
-am not interested to get into relationship quarrels (its stress)
-dont find the need to paktor, happy with my single life smile.gif
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It's like a balancing act...

Hooked up or single? Both got pro's and con's...depending on how you think, both can be the comfort zone just like snail's shell...


Added on October 5, 2008, 12:28 am
QUOTE(samteng @ Oct 5 2008, 12:00 AM)
That's a good analogy and I second that. Now the question is, are there enough flowers for the bees to extract the nectars from?

Assuming my facts are true, do you think the reason why there are more single males around is because Muslim men are allowed to have 4 wives and those rich non-muslim ones keep mistresses?
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This is mostly true for Chinese, in my opinion, Chinese family regards male highly, because they are deemed as the continuation of their family lineage...

Thus, more males compared to females...

This is purely my deduction...

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Oct 5 2008, 12:28 AM
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post Oct 5 2008, 12:35 AM

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QUOTE(lil_flank @ Oct 5 2008, 12:29 AM)
very funny.. the title says ppl who havent even date be4

but some ppl here who admit nvr pat tor be4 will know pat tor at young age never works out/dont trust true love will maintain long/cant stay loyal/scared will get hurt/not interested in quarrels  sweat.gif

is like havent eat sushi,already know wat it taste like  whistling.gif
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I never been in a relationship, but after i felt the asam-garam (thick or thin) of being accused and flamed publicly for stealing a girlfriend, something that i never done.....i am reconsidering to have date and thus, a moratorium has been imposed from Form 3 until now...
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post Oct 7 2008, 04:25 PM

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QUOTE(three forty five @ Oct 7 2008, 11:30 AM)
how come most of the stories here so sad?

I mean seriously, you guys have never been chased by a girl or admired by one? I'm not pointing fingers,,it's just that it seems pretty unreal. I thought everyone would have encountered love in his or her life at least once
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It's not unreal, you cannot expect every single male had their first experience in school or even college/university, each of us has different problems...

For me, the current condition is not conducive for a relationship
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post Oct 8 2008, 12:51 AM

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When my friends asked me whether i had a relationship before in school, i answered, NO.......then they laughed.......i wonder if i failed in my teenage life or not?
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post Oct 8 2008, 07:44 PM

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I am thinking whether to invite a female for a day outing, just to reduce my boring level or not....
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post Oct 9 2008, 04:23 PM

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QUOTE(weikeat90 @ Oct 9 2008, 04:00 PM)
then do my face look like shit??
Click here...
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No way this is shit, your look, can be said, better than mine!
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post Oct 9 2008, 04:27 PM

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QUOTE(weikeat90 @ Oct 9 2008, 04:25 PM)
but worse than others..  cry.gif
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Had you ever courted (attempt) one female before?
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post Oct 12 2008, 12:01 AM

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,Oct 11 2008, 11:48 PM]
Oh my goodness.. I'm 23 but haven pak tor b4...
Dunno what's the problem...  unsure.gif
Untill when shall i waiting for my first love...
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You are flower, you should attract bees easily!

 

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