first step: clear your head.

ask this: do you WANT to start a family? not what others say, or what's the norm, or what your best buddy told you. do you want to start a family?

if no, then just continue with your life. if a family is not your concern, then don't make it a problem. if yes, then ask yourself, what should i do to get myself a family.

not excuses, or polyannish wishy washy foregone conclusions answers. "i want a family, and this is what i will do to get it." then you do it.

done. not that hard.

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Added on September 7, 2008, 4:36 amfirst step: clear your head.

ask this: do you WANT to start a family? not what others say, or what's the norm, or what your best buddy told you. do you want to start a family?

if no, then just continue with your life. if a family is not your concern, then don't make it a problem. if yes, then ask yourself, what should i do to get myself a family.

not excuses, or polyannish wishy washy foregone conclusions answers. "i want a family, and this is what i will do to get it." then you do it.

done. not that hard.

This post has been edited by empyreal: Sep 7 2008, 04:36 AM

maybe it's not simple like abc , but he must give a try at least..

i just wanna a girlfriend ....... hehehhe so long im been single..
dont have a time for searching .... got me i pretty awesome and i give you my DSLR.. arhh ..

you have just wasted 40 yrs of life

anyway, just dont die virgin

if u dont like free sex ideology, go to pay one

get ur own myspace or friendster acount... or get some adulfriendfinder wish you luck bro..

oh shit, after ive read that i need to get married and start a family soon

i realize i need to get married as soon as possible
after i kena "near death experience" for few times already

aiseh. i just 20. so better picking up a girl . just 'leave it' inside. all kawtim within 9month later. i got a child and a wife.

This post has been edited by detomaso: Sep 7 2008, 06:57 AM

try facebook application called speedDate

walau...this case is more complicated... LoL...
ts shld have socialize more in the past...anyway,there is a "vietnam bride" option which can guarantee u a wife if u r willing to pay for some $$$... LoL...

A popular movie comes to mind


Are you sure its because of your ideology and NOT because of your level of attractiveness?

Many people couldnt get laid even if they wanted to. Or the girls who are willing to go out with them are so unattractive/ugly/repulsive that they couldnt imagine themselves sleeping with her - ie. the pretty attractive ones are out of reach.



I was almost, almost... about to call "hatekiasuppl" (IMO, one of the best storytellers CC has ever seen) on you... then i noticed your post count lol.

I've been single for a long time too!
can we hookup on a date or something?

AIDS?

first of all.. Hahahahaha wow.. ok.. now srsly..

they say Life begins at 40.. so.. cheer-up! if ur dat desperate, lemme show u the woody-allen way.. what he did was adopt a child.. then when the baby grew to around 20.. he married her... he was SOOo old when he did but. she agreed to marry his step dad

+since u raise her from kid, u have all the time and 'privacy' in the world (as too did woody) to nurture her to 'look' at u 'that' way...

im not saying this is the best way. but it is a SURE WORK way

i suggest u look to adopt Kazakhstan girl.. they are cheap (free) and they all grow up HOT...

Cham...life still can be wonderful...

Oh ****. I'm 30 now. I still searching for pretty girl.

hello!!!!

lowkung, when you come to KL? I boil soup for you

Crap,after i saw this thread.

I think i'll also have the same problem in the future.

still virgin ah....u must have a big load down there..haha

to all virgin men, please contact me for free service of deflowering you.

thank you.

thanks for all advise, some are really helpful..

I came from future yesterday night.. my "future me" pay me a visit..I was back..

now this thread might will serve a good reference for me if I cant change the future down the road..

seriously.. it makes one think that when u have missed it, it is hard to get back to it..

so, appreciate the TIME and LIFE my friend..