All my ex is 5 years, 3 years & 2 years. The maturity does not measure in age, its very subjective & depends the individual. The most important is comes to compatibilities of both couples.
But pls take note that gals are tends to be more mature faster than guys.

7 years that's a big gap.. anyway the most important is compatibility.. age is a figure only..

forgot to mention...looks is one of the considerations...

my aunt used to date a younger guy. and they are happily married now with 3 kids. and the age differences never been an issue to them or both their family. there are some cases younger guys "love" older women because of their money. and younger girls with older guys too. i dont think age really matters as long as the love for each other is sincere....

hehe tats becos u look younger than them.

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Added on June 26, 2008, 9:14 pmgot the same feeling too. but now there's another guy 2 yrs younger than me is dating me but i still observing whether to accept.

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Added on June 26, 2008, 9:15 pmcuz gals really mind when the guy they r dating look younger than them. if onli the age is younger still ok but when comes to look hardly gals dun mind lor. cuz me oso mind if the guy i'm dating look younger than me. looks like bringing my didi out.

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Added on June 26, 2008, 9:17 pmwell perhaps its due to case to case basis. more often v used to accept guys older than gals compare gals older than guys lor.

This post has been edited by yen1022: Jun 26 2008, 09:17 PM

i have a frenz..guy...he always dating wif de lady dat older den he..haiz...duno wat magic he use..haha..by the..love really is blind..haha

i am MIND..that if my bf is younger than me...the fact is i cant take it...ppl will gossip..so not good lor..after the guy also no face..so i nv accept guys that is younger than me...

i think u need to hang out with right type of people.

Sien lor.. later even u find an older than u and ppl still gossip something, then what? Break up?

U find ur own life why need people comment? So when u having sex, do you need to ask your relatives, friend, stranger?

Then,
PPL gossip, guy no face = that guy no guts at all.

PPL believe in Gossip never successful one.

Good, Im strongly agree with you. hehe

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Added on June 27, 2008, 5:41 pmThe most important thing to keep a relationship last long is feeling and thinking. Age is just a figure..
We are date with our gf but not date with our friends.
Why so care about people comment.
For me i just will follow my feeling, as long as im happy, i wont care what ppl gossip.


This post has been edited by uno: Jun 27 2008, 05:41 PM

i was like "together-not together" with this classmate of mine who was a year younger than me.

but we didnt get into the stage of formal relationship for many reasons. he talked to me when he feels like it, ignored me when he has something better to do. he expected me to appreciate everything he did for me. he wanted me to confess first. i felt that i need to give a lot of care and love in this relationship and no way it will last, because one day i will be exhausted by it. once he didnt talk to me for 2 weeks, just a few sms. then one night he called me at 1130pm when i have already slept to ask me to bring some food to his birthday party, which was a few days later. i got annoyed and then i decided i cant carry on anymore. i acted as if nothing has ever happened between us. he then only confessed that he likes me (well, we never confess to each other before. its sort of like guessing all the while. to be honest, at that time, i sometimes wonder if he actually like me). it was too late and i already give up. i didnt bother to explain. i just replied "i dont know what to say".

recently i noticed that he wrote on his friend's facebook that i am harrassing his friend! (well, he intro his friend to me last time). that was so @#$@%

younger guys = lots of trouble.

^ another wrong kind of thinking

younger guys not = lots of trouble

Un-matured person, give it male of female, give him either 30years old or 40years old only have this kind of trouble.

Which means, you still have long way to go

hihi i hv a similar scenario like u hv but this guy is not tat bad like ur classmate. he did confess to me for the 2nd time v meet. v go clubbing n after tat they went to hv supper. he did it in front of his frens when everyone is eating. this is the first time i met a guy which is so direct. i'm too shocked n surprised as i dun used to meet such guys which is so direct. i told him u r drunk o watever excuses i can find tat time. even his fren is trying to promote him as well. even since then v used to chat via sms n on off he'll b calling me. in btw he'll ignored me sometimes then will call o sms me back. i felt really uncertain. just dun understand wat can help to break this situation. just like yesterday me n him went to mamak stall yum cha. just 2 of us onli n he sent me back home. v r just walking back from the mamak stall to my house which is 15 mins apart. i think i did gv him some hints but he's not really getting it o trying to avoid. is there any recommendations here?

dont need u to teach me what type of guys i need to mixed with..

no offence!!

just that as long i am confortable mixing around then its fine...

i just close to guys...

well, i guess thats abit generalize. But again, I guess the kid got problem at the 1st place.

yeelin04> I wont teach people that I neva saw their face b4.

nevermind lar 7chai...

stubborness to accept good advices is not rare case also...

We'll see ok?

looking for old ladies

oh...i juz found out gal looking forward for the "older" guys (or mature in another word).

I tot gals r always looking for those young young 1,very fashion de,always bring them go out play(wet) de,very leng zai 1 and also always joke wit gal 1(u can say playboy type).

From the fren i saw,all of them r like dat...r they too "young"??Haha

other said if wife older than husband, the husband will become prosperity??????

my gf is 5 years older then me and i dun mind lol