i always wanna date older lady because their thinking more mature and they can be a good GF ....

not like young lady which they still cant think properly and they demand a lot

My boyfriend is 3 years younger than me. We are doing very well together ^__^ Most times however alot of people think that he is actually 3 years older than me ^^;;

After 18(for both parties) age is not really an issue. It all boils down to whether or not both are on the same maturity level and are able to communicate with each other. Love knows no bounderies. So don't make age one  ^__^

Plus, my mum is also older than my dad by 3 years ^^ He spent about 4-5 years to 'kao' her before she said yes to marriage XD

Dating a guy younger than the gurl could feel very awkward

but the guys is think differently, they thinks the bigger the better.

i think its not about the age its about the level of maturity.
even a guy who is 3 years older can act like he's 3 years younger and vice versa.

most of my dates were either my age or older hehe
some of them seem to mind really - and they call me "little brother", WTF?

Been there, done that, never again!

Well... age is not really a matter. To me is... how mature that fellow is. I date a women older than me 7 years for almost a year. To me ... we are so perfect in terms of knowing each other needs and what we want in life. Unfortunately we don't last till now due to some reason that usually most couples go thru. "Misunderstanding". But we are still fren till now. Most of my fren saying I am dating my sister or aunty but to me.. she is as sweet as pure honey.

Age is not a matter.. to me dating an older person is much better cos they are more mature and not tat demanding. And most older lady have aims... they want family and love not like the young 1... enjoyment and fun which of course spending money. my 6cent tho.

my aunt used to date a younger guy. and they are happily married now with 3 kids. and the age differences never been an issue to them or both their family. there are some cases younger guys "love" older women because of their money. and younger girls with older guys too. i dont think age really matters as long as the love for each other is sincere....

i was like "together-not together" with this classmate of mine who was a year younger than me.

but we didnt get into the stage of formal relationship for many reasons. he talked to me when he feels like it, ignored me when he has something better to do. he expected me to appreciate everything he did for me. he wanted me to confess first. i felt that i need to give a lot of care and love in this relationship and no way it will last, because one day i will be exhausted by it. once he didnt talk to me for 2 weeks, just a few sms. then one night he called me at 1130pm when i have already slept to ask me to bring some food to his birthday party, which was a few days later. i got annoyed and then i decided i cant carry on anymore. i acted as if nothing has ever happened between us. he then only confessed that he likes me (well, we never confess to each other before. its sort of like guessing all the while. to be honest, at that time, i sometimes wonder if he actually like me). it was too late and i already give up. i didnt bother to explain. i just replied "i dont know what to say".

recently i noticed that he wrote on his friend's facebook that i am harrassing his friend! (well, he intro his friend to me last time). that was so @#$@%

younger guys = lots of trouble.

oh...i juz found out gal looking forward for the "older" guys (or mature in another word).

I tot gals r always looking for those young young 1,very fashion de,always bring them go out play(wet) de,very leng zai 1 and also always joke wit gal 1(u can say playboy type).

From the fren i saw,all of them r like dat...r they too "young"??Haha

yen..
1) improve your english
2) how old are you? you seems to be living in fantasy. not only in this post, but others as well

Chill people, i think she is still too young to understand .....although i dun agree with yen at some point, but i think she is free to express herself....back to the topic, personally, i wouldn't mind to date with youger guys. But i think guys usually look for younger girls.

he might be playing mouse and cat game with u? 

Hmmm. We are all somewhat missing the point here.
What do we really mean by 'dating' younger/older man/women?
Or do we mean 'having relationship' with younger/older man/women?

The reason i ask is that how many of us would first ask a person's age then pop the question of asking them out on a date?
Example 1:
Boy : Hi miss, how old are you?
Girl : I'm 25 years old (Why the hell is he asking about my age?)
Boy : (Damn, she's older than me by 5 years) Never mind.
Example 2:
Boy : Hi miss, would want to go out on a date with me?
Girl : Hmmm, first tell me how old are you? (I'm 25 years old btw)
Boy : I'm turning 21 in a couple of months.
Girl : Sorry! You're too young. (But nevertheless good looking tho).

I think most of us would go out on a date regardless of whether we know the age of the opposite sex. It all comes down to looks and how comfortable are we during the initial stage of getting to know the opposite sex. We could tell whether that person is mature, has developed a good sense of responsibility, trustworthy, kind and caring from the the first few times we meet them (at work, during fellowship, meetings, business/work discussion etc) then only we could decide whether to date him/her.

And i believe in MOST CASES, it is only after dating them do we really how old are they.

Anyway, i'm a man, so if the question is WOULD I DATE OLDER WOMEN? I'd say, dont really care as long as good looking. Next, WOULD I HAVE RELATIONSHIP WITH OLDER WOMEN? Why not! If she is my type and presents herself maturely, responsible, caring and lovingly submissive.

By the way, I'm 30 years old and now happily married with my wife who will be celebrating her 35th birthday in 2 days time.

I met her 12 years ago. Asked her out on a date just after twice casually seeing her at a friends house party. I didn't even bother to ask her about her age and neither did she. We only came to know about each other's age after the 3rd date. During the 4th date, i asked what she thought about the entire dating thing now that she knows i'm 5 years younger than her, and she said,

"younger boys are often naughty, which helps spice up the relationship. However, it takes an older woman to teach him how to be a man. On the other hand, younger woman tends to nag too much and often immature, and after telling you all this, I think we're simply made for each other".

The End.

ok ok..he is great...cant say wonderful..coz my expectations very high..hhehe...
hehe...no one got dumped...
just decided to break up coz of other factors...difficult family..
what to do? haih...

come and think of it, alot of gals told me their expectation very high. Look at their face then I ask the same question to you.

Do you have the quality that as par as those high quality man ?

Another sorry fella who doesn't know how to differentiate between apple and orange again

Older ones have more experiences than younger one? Well, when majority agree on this, I disagreed. We live in the same world but grow up in different enviroment, thus giving us different kind of experience. And what kind of expereince does an old one have? Sleep, watch TV, eat? Well yeah, if that was the kind of experiences that you're talking about, I pity about you.

Last thing, More Experiences Doesn't mean MATURED.

my hero... 

oh wait it should be the other way around. lol  hehe

i have to agree more with temptations lo, u know quotes in chinese can be used only when the situation is right...not everytime its right u see...

yes ppl often say elder ppl eat salt more then u eat rice, but doesn't mean eat more salt is always better....

we all live in different environment and grow under different circumstances....so you cant generalize everyone for the same situation...

let me say for eg:

i have an elder brother and he's 2 years elder then me, all this while my father pamper him like hell and he gets whatever he wants...my dad bought him a car, gives him good allowance, and good college to go to....almost anything he want also can get,and me? i've been workign since i'm 15 yo, and work my ass out to get me through college, i needed to buy my own car if i wanted to drive which i did when i was 18yo and have been living hell since then........tell me in this, how can he be more matured and experienced then me?yes he did eat more salt then i eat rice since i was born 2 years later, but i dont see he's anymore mature then me?

so i dont find it fancy with any 29 or 3x or 4x years old people who said they are more experience then us....yes maybe in a way, but they are not necessary right.....if someone elder then bill gates told him that IT kenot work laa...and he listen, you wont even have microsoft today.... so we all live in different era...your parents era is old school jor....but i didn't say u must deny watever they say laa... just evaluate wats right and wats wrong...

chinese sayings?

That's kind of all bull shit. You don't live with it, neither you eat it.

P/S : I'm chinese btw. I don't want it later to be a racist thread.

omg la you... lol you help me out with the experience part and i didnt have to say anything

were you backing me up at that time or not ???

ahh never mind anways.  heh

Yes we do sit down and talk about it. We have both agree to deal with it. In the end the result is still the same, we argue back. Nothing has change. I see no point being together since we are not advancing. In the end you will loose confident, trust, and faith in that person. Is just like being with her just for time to past by. Dont waste other people time and your time. There is no need to wait for a replacement then only you switch. When you give up on that person even spiderman wont come to save you. That is when you have been dissapointed for a few times.

Self sided behaviour.
you said he previously trying to chase you. Which means it's a past tense. You feel like he's avoiding something. No, he probably had another and he's on-going with that other girls. To be fair, of course he'll said that you and him are both good friends. Logic enough?
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Hurting you = immature?

Ask yourself again.

i could be the next guy to chase a girl like you...  hope it didnt hurt you...  hehe

are you younger then her? 

yep im younger then her. haha i was just playing around la and i hope yen didnt take that seriously.

anyways we are here for you yen if you have any problems so whatever and plz do share with us you problems with us so that we can help you and also in future

well, Gary wasn't the original singer. Karyn White is the Superwoman

u mean you are very de mature , yen1022 ?
My gf is older than me.
so i dont tink it matter ( i m not mature enough thou)
it is jz how gals thinks nia.

wanna find ? well wish u good luck 1st. lol

hahaha... guys may have a growth sprout somewhere in their lives.. grow misai.. muscle.. taller.. voice turn deeper.. but at the end of the day.. boys will always be boys! xD throw a psp at them an they will turn into a small kid

yes with no sorry, and u despoly 1 2 have a older guy b your bf 

hei u can say anything u wan ah, i dun mind but put the PSP out of this, k ? PSP is sumtin us guys worship so dun u insult our god 
j/k

why so serious ?    yellow yellow 

okay okay, dun take my reply too personal.

If my reply give u an eye hurt. I say sorry then