Serious HOW TO GET OVER A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP, Post all "getting over" advice here
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 Jun 15 2010, 05:59 PM
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If you don't mind, I'm here to listen.
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Jun 15 2010, 08:18 PM
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QUOTE(bbcheryl @ Jun 15 2010, 08:00 PM) already one month since the day we brokeup.. sometimes i still holding my phone and looking at our photos. gosh. i miss him but i hate him so much Slowly ba it's only been a month Added on June 15, 2010, 8:01 pm let's talk..  |
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Jun 16 2010, 11:17 AM
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So how have you been coping with the feelings with her while you told her off?
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Jun 16 2010, 11:57 AM
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Decided not to dwell in the past is a good thing. While you feel that you have wasted your time for the last 2 years and you ended up with nothing, can be quite disappointing. You are angry at her because she wasn't giving her full commitment into you as well as the relationship for the past 2 years.
Rather than focusing so much energy on getting angry with her, have you tried finding some activities to vent out? |
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Jun 16 2010, 05:10 PM
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Yup, at least you might learn something from your past. The sad thing is that you haven't found the right person yet. Give it more patience.
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Jun 16 2010, 08:56 PM
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You know that you don't deserve this, don't give up just yet.
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Jun 17 2010, 04:58 PM
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Glad to hear that you finally have a smile on your face.
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Jul 2 2010, 01:08 PM
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Care to tell us what was the cause?
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Jul 3 2010, 11:55 AM
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It sounds that you really have lots of things bottled up inside, with your family problems and your career has given you a tremendous pressure and you needed somebody to listen to your rants. He gets angry because he feels helpless that he couldn't do anything to make you feel better, and he seems didn't understand very well that all he needs to do is just be there with you and listen.
Have you tried looking your friends and confide your problems? |
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Jul 3 2010, 01:48 PM
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And it's your birthday today. Bad day for you.
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Jul 3 2010, 04:30 PM
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Now you're more happier than before. Glad to hear that and happy birthday
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Jul 3 2010, 05:50 PM
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Jul 12 2010, 12:36 PM
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Stay strong man
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Jul 13 2010, 10:51 PM
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Couldn't agree more. I don't know why I just feel glad that she is living happily.
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Jul 15 2010, 09:48 PM
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That should help somebody who needs it.
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Jul 24 2010, 09:14 PM
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You are not able to cope with the sudden emptiness in your heart, that's why you feel lonely at times. Give yourself some more time to heal. Sure it does hurt at times, but you just have to learn to deal with it.
There is nothing wrong with thinking back the past as I do too but I know that I already let it go. |
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Jul 31 2010, 08:10 PM
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Memories are there to stay. You have to ask yourself if you still miss your ex and wish you could turn back the time? If you have no feelings on that but only regain the memory you had during the old times then it's normal and you already let it go. That's my opinion. I still think about the memories sometimes but I never thought of wanting her back.
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Jul 31 2010, 11:36 PM
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Are you ready for a new relationship or feeling comfortable with being single now? - Yeah, like suffaxile said, take it slow, sooner or later you will know for sure that you no longer dwell on the past anymore. But for now, it's a good sign that you decided not to dwell in this and I don't think you're lying to yourself. I really don't know why girls can just suddenly cry. Probably they are more emotionally attached, but that doesn't mean it will take them longer to heal.
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Aug 2 2010, 11:28 AM
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You patched with her back but you're not used to it?
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Sep 25 2010, 06:01 PM
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QUOTE(JemmyBemBem @ Sep 25 2010, 12:19 AM) Few years back, i liked this particular guy a lot (so much so I was willing to forego the then current relationship for - due to incompatibility). He also has a long time 7-yr girlfriend then (but told me that he'd been wanting to end it but there was no reason to do so). The flower almost blossomed but died a pre-mature death when the he suddenly pulled out stating he felt guilty over the gf. I would suggest you to just walk away and keep a distance from him. I'm sure you can find a better guy than him.2 years back, they've gotten married but still telling me he's not happy blah blah and missing me blah blah, and the worse decision ever was to get married with his gf and if given a chance would have tried it out between us few yrs back. What do you guys//girl think of these type of man? QUOTE(annjk @ Sep 25 2010, 08:44 AM) I trust she didn't come to me as a rebound..it was me who went for her..her ex and ex were together for more than 4 years, so then what is our 1 month or so? They shared so much memories, went to UK together..it was that cameron trip that rekindled her memory with her ex in UK..it just feels like I've just shot myself for planning the trip.. Just because you have failed quite a number of relationships, doesn't mean you are a failure. It can be very demotivating for you knowing that she wants to go back to her ex. You have already done this several times on letting go the girls you loved previously, even though it was the worse break up ever, always remember that there are many more important things for you to face.I know I have to let go, but I can't.. |
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