Sometimes I wish things will never happen at the first place haha

Sucks to feel this way. Is there a place where I can bang myself? LOL

Yeah, same here.. I am glad to be able to meet such a wonderful person. Feel like yelling and release all the tension. Haha

Lol, we both are in a one-sided thing. Meh. Anyway, you take care.

Only if I have plenty of girl friends that I know, I would go for a rebound relationship but sadly I do not have one right now lol. I think I can cope without it.

Yeah, today I read an article in The Star about why people feel regret after they broke up and I think it really helped us to point out why are we acting this way and what we could do to overcome it.

I think that's the one. At least it helped me a little bit in some ways.

Do you still love your bf? Or you like that guy because he has his attention on you?

What will be your feeling if you were to meet this guy? Do you feel you are cheating behind your bf or just meeting as a friend?

Yes, cry and rant to somebody whom you trusted the most until you are exhausted. Tell yourself that you deserve a better guy than him, the failure of your relationship isn't your fault and never from the beginning. It's definitely going to be really tough for you for the next few months or so but believe yourself that you will get over it as time passes. Take care.

I think you both shouldn't keep in contact at the moment because you might confuse yourself and even giving yourself a false hope that there is still a chance with him especially when you get to care for him and stuff like that. You already decided to leave him, so just take a time off then come back to him and ask how is he doing.

Your heart feels pain is mainly because you didn't really want to leave him at the first place, and he chose to end this relationship with you. How do you know he needs your encouragement? If he does, would he be asking for a break up and telling you he is tired of everything?

You want to let go of him slowly, then better not contact him for the next few months until you both are ready to be friends again.

How have you been these days?

Sorry, I was asking you.

It's hard to be happy especially when you just ended your relationship, try not to force yourself too much on being happy when you are not. Take care and stay strong.

Yeah, think you're right. Dumpers wouldn't come here and tell us how bad they feel. Sad but true enough.

Yup, I do have some flashback at times too. Whenever there's this same word comes out, it will immediately remind me of the past. You should remember one thing, you are not dwelling in that anymore, but rather just some memories that reminds you whether you like it or not as suffaxile said. At the end of the day, just deal with it and continue with our life.

Just imagine those efforts we poured into our past relationship and when it ends, it feels like everything is down to the drain.

If there is no ups and downs in our life, what is there to be called life? lol

That would be nice