nowadays, a 'nope' means 'no' to rape. unless da female is enjoy with that kind of sex. actually is simple, if husband want to rape his wife, & wife enjoy it, then thats ok, no harm. but either 1 is not enjoying that kind of sex, that means 'no'. sometimes guys has forgotten that 'sex' should be gentle & sweet, not bloody violence...shame on me as a guy saying like this...haihhh...