nope i`m not calling you cheapo.
Its very shallow thinking if you did it reality; you will be worthless within family member; or etc..i dont know
but I dont call you cheapo; pls change your mindset; this is not open minded.

if you want open minded; asian guys in general will reject it badly if they know this girl.

reality bites; to my open minded view: this person do not have value n do not actually consider the long run of the impact of her action.
hope this help you yeelin.

yeah...true

Well not only to yourself but your unborn too, would you want your child to be growing up in a harsh environment cos the parents are always unhappy, insufficient funds and not able to attend school cos there is no birth certificate not to mention the pressure given by the society.

Just think about it.........

I really hate parents that do not care about the consequences and just "accidentally" brought them to this world if Im the child Id hate my parents.

different ppl different perception. u hav the ability then its ok. no ability dun do it. that's all. everyone here is just voicing out their thoughts. some might be offended some don't. responsible or not.. its up to those involved to judge themselves... i dun think we shud look at them with 1 mindset onli.

Yes responsiblility is the word, if they are able to take care of the child by all means do it.

no offence, but your postings are quite lame and shortsighted....... have you taken into consideration that most girls who got pregnant before they got married never wanted it to be that way in the first place?

now a girl comes along and says she doesnt mind if she got pregnant before she gets married and you give her 2 barrels of crap? get a life man. most girls would scream for abortion the moment they found out, and would be screaming their heads off blaming their partners.

who're you to put her down man. i dont know her, but the attitude you have is some bad sh1t man. who're you to say whether a person has value or not? you worth very much yourself? bro.. please step into the 21st century.

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Added on September 6, 2008, 4:24 am you seem to be badly blinkered man.. who says those girls who get pregnant before marriage end up having kids with broken families, having insufficient funds, no birth cert, not being able to attend school etc?pressure from society? sounds like you like in a 3rd world country. if you did abit of research, alot of couples in malaysia, even kl, end up conceiving before they get married, but live happily ever after.

i've got friends who have kids, but are not even married yet. having a difficult life? dont think so. one of the babies even has 4 maids to look after him. parents still in college, and when we all hang out, they'll bring the kid along. what's the fuss man.

have you not read the rest of the replies in this thread or do you choose to ignore the happier endings? lol.

you sound like you've got alot of hurt and pain inside you...to hate your parents is a very big sin in my opinion. i do hope you checked the circumstances of your own entry into this world before making that statement.


This post has been edited by KKKRD: Sep 6 2008, 04:24 AM

Hi KKND man, why so serious man. maaaannn

omg!!...i am so so touched...
at last got ppl backing up me...
thank you for understanding me...

just dont like ppl putting others down for no reason. noone is perfect lol. btw, just remember getting pregnant before marriage is never advisable. it can make life very difficult.

Yah its true...!

So Boys n Girls .....
if u wanna do ehem till to u get pregnant...
just make sure u have MONEY!!!!!
no money no baby!!
no responsibility dont horny!!

every 1 start shooting me when i posted that...
only u didnt..
so touched...

I think last few comments are already out of the topic. The topic is about pregnant/gave birth before completing your studies. It becomes bashing and harshing comments.

AFAIK, there are students who are married and have children before completing their studies. Some of them are very successful in their studies while others are not really so. There are students (female) who have to extend their studies because of the pregnancy - have to take a leave to give birth etc.
For that, IMO the most important thing is to think thoroughly and second to have a good time management (if possible dont get pregnant before completing study)

nah, some ppl are just too conservative and dont realise it could also happen to them lol. it's not wrong to play with fire. just play safe.

yeah...
i agrees with you..

lol zeroglyph nice rating you got there..

yea stop calling ppl names!

This post has been edited by Osphotic: Apr 18 2009, 02:09 PM

touch than marry with him lo. ngek ngek ngek.. i will never let his happen to my wife or girl friend .. dont like baby even though they are cute..

I personally feel it is the guys resposibility for getting a girl pregnant.if U have sex .. use a condom .... but its not as simple as that .. doing it with a condom feels like having sex with a plastic bag .. it feels uncomfortable ... but its secure .... a guy should learn how to control his ejaculation .... safe way to practice this is to have sex when the girl is having her period or 1 day just after her period stops ... control ur motion ... and just as the guy feels like about to cum .. just remove it ... we've all seen it in porn clips ... but its not easy to do ...
I am all for sex before marriage ... for the girls out there ... just make sure the guy ur with knows what the hell he is doing ...
If u'd take a survey .. of all the accidental pregnancies .... the highest number percentage would be from the the couples who frequently have sex, who do the withdrawal method ... but the only problem was ...they got careless...miscalculating the girls period and had unprotected sex during either too late after period stops or too early before period starts .. like on the 11th day .. or 18th day .... to be safe .. if her cycles are regular ...dont cum inside after 9th day ... or before 20th day .... that's why "accidents" happen ... because u were careless ...

This is true story:

1) a guy get married at 17 while the girl is 15.. that happens 7 years ago.. now they got 2 baby and live happily.. the girl stp study after pregant, then go to work till now..
2) a girl get married at 20, now also live happily with her husband.. so my friend around me who get married at early age also get happy ending..

So not all couple will get bad ending.. think wise..

depends. IMO, some girls are open minded, like yeelin04, it ain't wrong for her to think that way, but its her point of view though. mayb you can have the dislikeful thought of her view, but keep it to yourself, she has that thinkin, so be it. =D. you have your own thought too rite?

some couples are still very successful even after giving birth before completing studies. some aren't. if the girls have fate, they meet wit a loving and caring husband that cares for them their entire life, so the girl is lucky. but some cases no.. well.. ya, welcome to the real word ;\