I personally feel it is the guys resposibility for getting a girl pregnant.if U have sex .. use a condom .... but its not as simple as that .. doing it with a condom feels like having sex with a plastic bag .. it feels uncomfortable ... but its secure .... a guy should learn how to control his ejaculation .... safe way to practice this is to have sex when the girl is having her period or 1 day just after her period stops ... control ur motion ... and just as the guy feels like about to cum .. just remove it ... we've all seen it in porn clips ... but its not easy to do ...
I am all for sex before marriage ... for the girls out there ... just make sure the guy ur with knows what the hell he is doing ...
If u'd take a survey .. of all the accidental pregnancies .... the highest number percentage would be from the the couples who frequently have sex, who do the withdrawal method ... but the only problem was ...they got careless...miscalculating the girls period and had unprotected sex during either too late after period stops or too early before period starts .. like on the 11th day .. or 18th day .... to be safe .. if her cycles are regular ...dont cum inside after 9th day ... or before 20th day .... that's why "accidents" happen ... because u were careless ...