May 12 2008, 03:13 PM
QUOTE(SadGuy2 @ May 12 2008, 01:10 PM)
this topic is waking me up again! i am in the dilemma for these few days. I am in the early 30s and so surprise a 21 yr old gal is tellingme that she like to be my life partner.. i stop keeping in touch with gals after my 4 yrs of breaks and presently being a filial son looking after my only mother. I told her to go away cos she is young and there are plenty time more for her to learn, enjoy and grow up instead of attaching with someone old like me. She refuse and insisted that she will behave mature and sharing my burden in anyway - which i don't have 1 for her. i ask her many times why she choose me and she says she love to be a man that love his family like i do. But to me... i don't trust this cos to them... these are just words that playing in her mind just to convince me to accept her.
see... its easy to say .. age is not a matter at all but ... gals at the young age is eager and thirst for love and companion which they have yet to experience before since their childhood. I cant blame them much for that... but why an old man? i've seen alot of cases where young gal intend to fool around and some will leave their partner when they reach the age of 25 to 28 after realising something much more for them to learn and go thru than attaching to someone reaching a wheel chair or somewhere near to coffin. Be honest age does matter.... it is just that couple never sit and think what are the consequences being together... diff thoughts diff need and diff perspective.
think about it....
I agree with the bold words.. but it apply to normal couple too.. some just think they r "click-able" then can get together... see... its easy to say .. age is not a matter at all but ... gals at the young age is eager and thirst for love and companion which they have yet to experience before since their childhood. I cant blame them much for that... but why an old man? i've seen alot of cases where young gal intend to fool around and some will leave their partner when they reach the age of 25 to 28 after realising something much more for them to learn and go thru than attaching to someone reaching a wheel chair or somewhere near to coffin. Be honest age does matter.... it is just that couple never sit and think what are the consequences being together... diff thoughts diff need and diff perspective.
think about it....
As for ur case, a young gal can b as mature as a matured gal.. if u r doubt abt her mature-ness y not start as fren 1st n get to know her more.. maybe she is the one for u.. well, family background, environment, n problem she faced can make her more mature than her age.. give each other a chance..
As for TS, b more confident to urself n b urself.. he likes/love the one is ur current 1.. if u hv changed just bcoz of him then wat's the point he love u for? yes, u need to upgrade n improve urself but not changing urself... n i agree wif one of the post here.. find out wat make him love u the most n try to utility it to max.. eg ur smile, ur happy-go-lucky style, n etc.. we should love ourselves more so that other can love us more too..
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