I think the best choice is try get more nearer with the gal.. Let u be the person to show empathy and sympathy instead of ur bf.. Yaya, chinese zodiac (cow) will have many gal go after them... So try not too control o pull the hopes too tight... As previous says, show the gal tat u wit ur bf having a strong relationship.. u same as me having a 4years relationship.. try something new on ur bf like do somethinf tat he won expect it... spicy up ur relationship...