typical bf snatcher...wonder y these kinda people actually exist...aih..been thru all these myself...my bf..think that this model(who already married with a daughter) who celebrated his birthday with him while i was super bz preparing for my exam which i couldnt afford to screw up...thinks that she understands him more than me, more caring, good tempered and all...i only found out something fishy between them later on like a month later..and he insist me that nothing is wrong..but finally he admitted everything..he went to do so many things and all that i dont like him doing...he even asked me to meet up with that model during some car event in bkt Jalil last year...i was so devastated..and we fought...almost ended a relationship of 2 and a half years becoz of someone unworthy like her...
words for u: BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL... dont fight with that gal as the gal might tell ur bf something that might spoil both of ur relationship...and ur bf will think that ur trying to condemn her....good luck in dealing with it 

I have a gf , I love my gf.
Ppl who try to spanar my gf, will be met with a farking pissed off dude holding a farking big and farking expensive golf stick.

Im not afraid to say that I have told her friends off before. They offer to come fetch her for yamcha at 10 in the nite. Yeah bullshit, she has a bf with a perfectly good car who can send her, who the hell needs them. LOL.

But thats it, sometimes girls look at it as just a good will by her fren but then again, we guys know. All this are bullshit tactics aimed at trying to court a girl. Mweh, im a guy, i know the sleazy underhanded tactics, other guys do.

XD .
Sometimes girls are oblivious to the fact that another guy is chasing her and not just being nice until its too late.

Guys on the other hand are horny son's of b****es who should learn how to control their d*** and tink with their brain instead of that snake in the pants. LOL .

Regardless, either way, guy or girl, ppl who try and steal anothers significant other are scum .
And that fact that if you succeed in getting that piece of shit, just be aware, what goes around comes around.

If he/she can leave their partner, whats goin to stop they from leaving you for another cause clearly, that person has relationship issues and you even bothering to exploit that flaw in that person just to get laid is even more retarded.

Mweh, people who post up shit like I stole another persons bf and sounds proud of it should be shot. Its people like you who come online and give confidence to other retards like urself that makes this world a f***in nuclear warzone for love.

Hence making some girls so paranoid and clingy to their bf and etc.

But yes, I am in a happy relationship for 3 yrs and I'd hate to see my gf taken away from me just cause some mofo went to lowyat.net and said

"I like this girl, she has a bf, should i go for it?"
and instead of ppl f***in him up for being such an *******. they push him along and say go for it.

Sweet god. Whats wrong with you ppl. Ive seen countless posts in multiple threads. U SHUD GO FOR IT.

Man, in my case and for many others who tink like me. U SHUD GO FOR IT, YEAH I AGREE, U SHUD GO TO HELL.

u n ur bf r not yet marriage, so it is reasonable other wan to fight with u...sorry of using example below...
  ' u tried a dress in boutique, u luv it n u decided to buy later...there is another gal cums in n luv it very much also, she nvr tried it but straight away take n pay at the cashier......'YES, u luv the dress n u tried it, u hint everybody that u want it, but the problem is u haven;t pay it!!!!
if i reli like the dress, of coz i will hold it in my hand, nt let anyone grap it before me...

Luv is fair game, winner takes all...u couldn't blame other trying to 'grap' ur bf, BUT....u can prevent it. Since ur bf n the gal ald atr that stage( i mean keep sms, phone....) u cannt stop it inone short, but u should tell ur bf SERIOUSLY, u dun like it...sms n calling is nothing, but if she keeps flirting with ur bf, u r sick of it! then i think ur bf would be behave a bit....
n u r onli 20~~~~u can actually scan for a better one...

gals, if u dun wan the dress to be graped, better hold it tight...because i will grap the one i like if the owner doesn't watch it well...

Well.. I did an attempt once... but then again, he was the one who was harassing me even when he had a GF. So instead I was "sort of" using him la... so its like his GF was worried (we act a bit lovey dovey) and told me off through a friend of mine...

When he got kicked out, she actually snatched her ex's bestfriend to replace him and tried to show off her latest fling around me... and I was like, "Whatever..." the guy wasn't that attractive anyway...

thank u al for ur concern...i rely feel very touched..yest i cant even get 2 sleep..my family aredi noe bout it..my mum was so worried bout me..i was so scare 2 be left alone..i went 2 my parent's room 2 slep,at least i able 2 slep 4 few hours..
i noe i shouldnt be wit him anymore...but 4 years 2geta..everything we have been thru..although there sure have problems..but never ever come so close 2 this serious....my heart felt so pain so pain that the pain turned into another pain..i duno how 2 explain it..at 1st the pain is like making me so hard 2 breathe...den now the pain is like needle pain..i think i already think properly...i noe wat 2 do...but i cant tel u al here cuz i scare he will take a look at this thread cuz yest i showed him wat i wrote previously b4 i noe he like that gal...what he did not know that i suffer alone wen he was consoling her..i nvr told him that i felt backfired..cuz i tot everything is fine..untill yest....
he 2day told me that he sms that gal 2 make a deal wit her..it says like tis:I HAD A DEAL WIT HER,WE BOTH ASO AGREED 2 CONTACT EACH OTHER LESS..WE BOTH ASO BE WITH THE 1 WE LOVE MORE NOW.BUT IN THE FUTURE WE ASO DUN DENY MAYB WIL GET 2GETA,BUT NOW I DECIDED 2 BE WIT U HONEY.
i was like..shit9 u la..the gal wun stop contacting my bf ga la..4 years relationship can be destroyed by jus less than half a year knowing her..they oni even met once which is in the company's dinner.
2day i din cry(later i duno la i wil cry anot)..my college's frens brought me out 2 have fun,n i rely did have fun,hehehehe!!i think i wil now spend more time wit my frens..go shopping,new hair cut n dye my hair take dancing lessons clubbing charity gym!!wah so much 2 do i rely cant wait!!dun even 1 2 be tied up 2 him anymore!!!
i also think that i was like an object..like wen u 1 2 take me back den push me away den take back den push again..i told him i felt like a puppet 2 him..im 20 years old!!!i stil have long way 2 go!!2 al the gals out there facing this kind of prob same s mine..we should hang out n jus "voodoo+curse+black magic" at them hahaha!jus jokin..2 al those gals thinkin of spanar-ing other ppl's bf..u al sux 2 the max..n the guys that successful being spanar..u al sux 2 the max 2..i cant think wat 2scold already

beggining of a sweet friendship btw you sound like 1 of those suicide hotline punya ppl, banyak potential

One thing i dont agree.

i rely din expect that u (my bf) wil be coming into my thread to write..alamak...habis...he noes wat bad thing i wrote bout him...hahaha!dear,if u read this thread again..i will giv u chance again 2 be a good bf..i mean i aso 1 2 be wit u aso..but i rely hope that u dun do this 2 me again..rely painful... mayb this is jus a small obstacle we have 2 face..there r more 2 come..we wil go tru it 2geta okie???jus dun do this type of hal anymore...banyak banyak sakit..say sakit but u duno how pain is it lah sei guai!!!!alice u r right..i jus din have the courage 2 move on like my fren..noe how 2 talk but cant even do it...so sorry...but i rely thank u 4 ur advises..hehehe!

after i read some of the replies from all of you, i really feel like that girl is kinda dangerous, she is like... will do anything when she wants me, but when she feels like want to be with bf again, will just let off immediately without any hesitation, haha! Honestly i'm really glad my gf still willing to be with me, i really appreciate that, and i promise will treat her better!!!! in meantime, i wish some of our forumers here don't be too disappointed here.. perhaps think will change to be right way again... i will be a good bf ... thank u semua!!!

yeah i agree wit u..we girls alwis 2 soft-hearted..thats y mother's day is celebrated earlier than father's day!!!yeah it rely take time..he (my bf) take time 2 4get that girl(AH HEMM!!2 my bf if u read tis u noe wat i mean)..me..i have 2 take time 2 heal..i mean whatever things he is doing now especially on the phone i wil take a peek(wen he is around..not behind his back)...cant rely trust 100% anymore..i hope i wun be like that..i hope i wil have trust again n no need 2 feel insecure..
2 alice,i hope u wil get out from this sh*t ASAP!!although i think my situation is not so serious s urs..but mayb this sh*t wil come back 2 me aso...one day..mayb..that shity guy of urs mayb come running back 2 u..if u aredi get rid of him in ur heart..u can have sweet revenge time hahaha!!jus joking!

i'm kinda selfsifh to say this ... even though i really appreciated the advices, but pls dun misguide my gf to be mean or something, she is kind hearted, i hope she always will be that way... wrong guidance will only worsen our relationship, i love my gf... thank you for the cooperation 

oh...dun be sad..but if u feel like crying jus let it all out...2day i aso cried..i aso duno y...my mood is like ur mood 2day..not very good with all the assignments 2 come..that gal did sms my bf again..haihz...i feel so helpless..but like u said..i have made my decision so i think i mus face the consequences now..i aso wished that my bf sometimes tiny tiny little bit think in my shoes..its not easy 2 c him smsed that gal wen i have 2 pretend nth is happening..feel like jus 1 2 knock my head against the wall..faint den dun need 2 think so much..i hope he wun come 2 read my thread again..

im rely concern bout u..u have worse case than me but u stil come forward 2 console n advise me...mayb im the 1 who should be consoling u..hehehe!!take it slowly la..im sure time wil make everything better...that time wen we look back and think bout what had happen..mayb we wil jus laugh at how stupid we r that time..hahaha! but i think now...we jus knock our head against the wall la,hahaha!! mayb u should play sum yahoo games..rely takes ur mind off things!!
I REALLY HOPE U WIL FEEL BETTER..SMILE NOW!!!

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Added on June 9, 2008, 7:32 pmomGOSH!!!alice...i read ur thread..ur case n thinking is totally same s my thinking!!!about the appreciation thing..settle things by meeting her wit u n ur bf..but ur bf dun1 2 settle bringing u..bf say u r thinking 2 much..same same same..but i din go contact the gal la..jus everything hear from my bf's mouth...i feel no confidance anymore on love..mayb i should break off wit my bf n continue my life without partners..like 1 of the guy's say in ur thread..

Similar as u, i told my ex i want to maintain the relationship, but tht time my heart is like going to the other gal 
this sentence had rely struck me hard hard n i mean HARD..my bf say he 1 2 be wit me..but wat i scare that his heart is going 2 that gal..u noe ler..wat they have they dun appreciate..what they dun have..they sure wan it..

all this sounds so familiar..with dun 1 2 contact the gal anymore..but stil keep on contacting..haihz..alwis me who asking him 2 cal n sms me..alwis me who call wen i go 4 holidays..me who ask him call wen he go holiday..i rely felt that im not being appreciated by him..he say he willing 2 come meet me is how he show his appreciation 2 me..like im not the 1 who is sacrificing my time 2 meet him...wen ist rely going 2 stop all these nonsense...i dun 1 2 go tru all these stupid pain anymore..i think i wil discus it wit my bf later..