Anyway, My fren told me about her bf.. what advice will u give her? She asked me to post on her behalf

I'm not sure if this guy is stingy or poor or using her only?

I'm not clear about all their stories but here are some that I was told. Due to they live quite far apart, maybe 12KM away lol.. this guy sometimes drive to her house and then he would use her car to go out together. Reason, save fuel. But the problem is, he doesn't pay for the fuel/gas. Then when the guy's car is broken down, he doesn't wanna fix it but ask the gal to pick him up then he use her car when she's at work.

Another, this guy ever ask the gal. Is it expect him to pay for everything when they go out? Everytime eat also he have to pay. But my fren told me it's cheap food around rm5. he still complain.

So wat u guys think?

This post has been edited by yvliew: Apr 16 2008, 11:54 AM

If the girl like the guys then too bad. We can't steps in as advice can spoiled a relationship.

Does she complaint about it?

It's not a issue if she likes it that way.

no news is good news

is she hawt and nice ? like totally worth dying for ? go spanar her now ! this is a command

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Added on April 16, 2008, 11:45 amno news is bad news

This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Apr 16 2008, 11:45 AM

apasal macam ini pun mau ppl's opinion?

Dun like then tell the guy, guy insist like that, then if not ngam together, then break lo ...

Apa susah?

her bf policy --> my stuff is mine...ur stuff is mine as well...

This post has been edited by JS5016: Apr 16 2008, 11:49 AM

is that cheap guy leng chai? if yes, may be it's worth ...

I remember there's a worse case than this. The girl doesn't have any tissue and ask him to buy a pack from the toilet lady. It cost 20Cents and he ask the GF to pay him back 20 cents. ROFL.

It's here somewhere in CC. HAw haw haw best joke ever!

This post has been edited by unknown warrior: Apr 16 2008, 11:50 AM

i would say all of my friends are better looking than him

Eventhough the fuel isnt pay by him, but that doesnt mean he can use all he want rite?

if you ask me, I would say her bf is cheap.

I drive my own car, and if she drives I'll pay for her fuel, tolls, parking fees. I pay for our meals too. But seriously, a man must be smart in managing his finance and expenditures when it comes to relationship.

guy leng zhai girl not really leng lui - thas y girl still insist on the relationship laa...

or maybe girl is a good girl? hehehe.. lucky guy

The girl pretty? Any pictures?

Ask her to come and post herself.

If you guys have nothing constructive to post, don't post

There's SERIOUS Tag .
Anymore rubbish comment which post been reported will be warn

totally agree ..

other's ppl business u care so much for wat ? d@mn kepochi .that gal enjoyed gettng ride on by the guy did she tell you?
u better close this thread before we all flame u like h@ll , get it ?

u think u wat ah ? she complain to you only , u think u someone special to her ? u only cuddle bitC!ias or a convenient footstool only... duh...

u go read wat errazalim post first ,,

by the way , u phailed ...

not gonna look at this thread anymore , neither will i post anything ...

i juz wasted 5 minutes of my life

Haha, oh man. that's super mega cheap lol.
i guess the saying "avoid going out with gf when broke" applies here.
i can understand for some ppl to avoid confrontation. i'd say act only when it is really needed e.g. there are signs of physical abuse.

to TS

i see that you report alot of all the people posting in here
but then...dont address people 'stupid' like this la...

you know this is lyn right...you also know how people in here and how they always reply in this side of the section of the board...
so be nice when replying to avoid any flame war

thanks

before i met my wife...i'm spending most of my money treating my friends to lunch and yamcha sessions...after meeting my wife...i learned to be spendthrift and i could make out some savings now i bought a house and a new car with her...god i love my wife

Yes, would like to ask them don't be ignorance. And like other mod said, make constructive reply as this is serious talk. This really a spoiled thread becuz of too many ignorance and act smartass ppl. Pls refrain from posting if you're gonna say nonsense.

i think it depends on the girl lor if he love him so much so she wont mind........ but y is this the guy safe money ? maybe for future to get married or maybe he got other girl? or go pros?

same with my cousin situation but what to do my cousin love her BF til death.....

is the guy got a lot of burden??? let say family burden, bills, etc

his car doesnt even need to loan anymore. probably from the family.

Like I've said, eventough its his family's car that doesnt mean he can use all he want rite?

I seriously see no problem with him driving to the girl's house and then use the girl's car.
Although he can opt to share the fuel with her.

Btw are u jealous he got the girl and u dont?

Dude, you totally have no idea how to treat forumers properly. If you think words like stupids, ignorance and act smartass would shut them up and let them think and post smart and constructive posts, you're wasting your time.
People don't like to be treated as trash, especially guys which consists of almost 90% of all the LYN forumers here.

For the girl that you're talking about, she's being treated as trash and she's getting annoyed with it already. I'm not here to make decisions for her. But if her boyfriend has some financial problems in his side, I think he should voice out. But if he so freaking rich but still complains about his outing with the girl ... I suggest action must be taken. Ask the girl to decide what action she should take

luckily din add to my warn. the serious was added later on. like that wanna fitnah me meh?

wah lao ehh ... selling so cheap .. kekeke

if she's feeling uncomfortable on this she should talk to him... and very obvious that he is well... cheap. but there could be circumstances why he's trying so hard to save money. family background, financial difficulties etc....

if she couldn't take it then leave it.

p/s: it's not nice to call others stupids.

This post has been edited by rourou: Apr 16 2008, 12:15 PM

yaya. i remember that one too. made me laugh so loud man. stingy till that extent

*oops. sorry.

hmm. if the guy cant even afford to spend on petrol or even dinner, what makes u think he is capable of doing so as a husband? on the other hand, i agree that it shouldnt be the guy that pays for everything. if they both earn equally same amount of money. why does he have to pay all the time? but he is too stingy in my opinion tho.

This post has been edited by nicawh: Apr 16 2008, 12:21 PM

anyway, this is not murah or cheap... but this is kiamsiap aka stingy
this kind of guy is hopeless... the girl cannot depend on him too much
can see that he's a parasite

Depends on which point u standing on.

She's just your GF, not your WIFE.
Its not a must to spend anything on her, by right... Unless she will be your wife.

No $$$ No F

She should ask his bf what his financial problem. If keep quite will not solve the problem.

ZOMG... i wouldn't think twice bout dumping tat guy...

I got a fren which almost similiar like him.

regarding to this.. hmm, i would say the guy is kiam siap..but not to the extend. i mean, sharing is okay la~ but not til the extend of car broke down ask gf come fetch gua~ this is abit too much i would say..

as for food, don't be so picky bout expensive or cheap food.. share the bill if he cant afford the food and stil want to eat. or just share the food together la~

already couple and stil dont want to talk it out would be not so good.. suppose to be able to share feelings and talk about issues.

THey need to sort it out between themselves. She should bring it up with him the reason for him behaving that way. We're no one to judge. But i do agree that women should not expect men to pay for everything.

ya, but everything also use GF's thing... including car
wah, this is too much woh

i think should have a communication between them.
some solution acceptable for them but we not right.
and what we see here is just your friend told you.

eveyone in different family.. like me spend so much for gf = ="
but what i get ? more love? more facey? lolx

In my opinion , money can't measure the love. but money really bring problem to the relation ship...

the best way, communicate.

Ask ur fren find BF like me.. pay for the gal everytimes........ but she have to pay with loved de wor......



So.... nothing come free.....

TS, let me ask you this: are they only friends or are they dating?

is your friend saying the guy is cheap? on the face of it, yes, the guy is cheap.

what are his reasons for being this cheap?

is he using her? this is a yes.

can your friend accept a cheap person/bf? (not *should* she - this is entirely up to her, but you can influence her too...)

12km consider far meh?

haha 12Km considered far ? everytime i go to my gf's place which is 35 km away and 2 tolls , back another 35km and 3 tolls ... so u tell me man ... normally fr my house --> her house --> 1 U --> her house --> my house around 120-130 Km like that , havent kira if got go yumcha in between , n i drive a 2.5 litre cow ... but i dun mind haha

solution -- > find a richer bf la..stoopid

See on the mirror first.

The car/fuel part is wrong. But a girl cannot expect the bf to pay all food too.

Can't really do anything if she does that voluntarily, but why is that guy so cheapskate ?

Really murah but i have seen worse. My cousin last time lagi teruk. She gotto save all her pocket money (that time still student) so that when weekends comes, she can spend him on their dates, and also to gib him some pocket money. Btw..he not only cheap, but also abusive. Got once he even slammed her head right onto the car window. And she is dem freaking pretty.....dunno what she sees in him....maybe love really is blind.

intro pls.

Does that mean poor guy cannot get a gf? =O
perhaps he did it in a wrong way..
should have communicate with the girlfriend more in a polite manner and solve the cash's problems xD

i really hate to admit it but i somehow have to agree some gals like to be dominated subconciously ,,
go read the erzalimm post about those few rules ,,
haiz ,, why cant we juz treat galz nicely and they treat us back the same way?

excitement, natural urges, and nice = boring...

WOW!!! I really tabik this kind of guys lar. THis is what i say badass guys always have girls lar, hahhaa

Ask your friend, does she love him or not? Or she feel very unhappy about her relationship? Then simply suggest to her that since she already have the answer, go and talk with her bf. IF the bf really want to keep the relationship going, he need to sacrifice something. The bf need to know in a relationship, something need to be sacrifice, so does the gf, although here the gf seems to be the one who sacrifice all.

It;s really best not to give advice that shows that you are against the bf. Suggestion is fine, but not powerful solid like comments, such as "Your bf not a man, go breakup with him."

Just a personal note - your friend - I really tabik her. She can tolerate this knowing the bf is taking advantage of her. If she is like what you wrote here, then she;s one of the hard to find person in this world

This post has been edited by runemastertan: Apr 17 2008, 09:00 AM

i don think this kind of guys will listen...

true, at least she can see herself that her bf is hopeless

love is blind bro...

I couldn;t agree more.

let me ask you a question if you buy a cheap item how do u treat it?

sure u simply put anywhere, never clean or polish, u oso duwan spend money to repair it

but what if u buy expensive thing?

u sure keep it somewhere good and protected, u always clean it...., u service it ... use money buy product to make it livel onger and beautiful

it applies to human also.

really beh tahan all these guys lar.. even girls also wont do that la... !@##$#@%

cheap skate...go out pak toh use gf car while himself got car.
eat rm5 thingy also wanna complain. eat Chillis can die ady lo?

ask this cheap stuff go bang his head on wall and never ever come out to play gal. hate this kind of silly guy. no money still wana "kao" gal..

"""CHEAP!!!!!!"""

That guy is so clever! Good.

Yes her bf is definitely a cheapskate. He has a car and yet he makes the gf drive her car all the time when they go out. They should take turns using each of their cars. It's not fair to make the girl use her car ALL the time.
His car breaks down but he asks her to fetch him? So he can use her car? Too much right.
He should find a way to get to her house. He wants to use her car, go get it.

This guy complains that he pays for meals all the time? Then the gf should complain back that the price of petrol for all that driving around FAR outweighs the price of a RM5 meal.

I can see that this guy will become a millionaire one day. Keep up the good work bro!

Seriously, the guy also already drived to her hosue 12 KM. Quite far already lo..I mean, the least the girl can do is pay for the meal right? Whoever drive then no need to pay la, good arrangement what..Nothing to say about the borrowing car thing.

This post has been edited by bonedragon: Apr 18 2008, 02:58 PM