Dude, you totally have no idea how to treat forumers properly. If you think words like stupids, ignorance and act smartass would shut them up and let them think and post smart and constructive posts, you're wasting your time.
People don't like to be treated as trash, especially guys which consists of almost 90% of all the LYN forumers here.

For the girl that you're talking about, she's being treated as trash and she's getting annoyed with it already. I'm not here to make decisions for her. But if her boyfriend has some financial problems in his side, I think he should voice out. But if he so freaking rich but still complains about his outing with the girl ... I suggest action must be taken. Ask the girl to decide what action she should take