Ask ur fren find BF like me.. pay for the gal everytimes........ but she have to pay with loved de wor......



So.... nothing come free.....

TS, let me ask you this: are they only friends or are they dating?

is your friend saying the guy is cheap? on the face of it, yes, the guy is cheap.

what are his reasons for being this cheap?

is he using her? this is a yes.

can your friend accept a cheap person/bf? (not *should* she - this is entirely up to her, but you can influence her too...)

12km consider far meh?

haha 12Km considered far ? everytime i go to my gf's place which is 35 km away and 2 tolls , back another 35km and 3 tolls ... so u tell me man ... normally fr my house --> her house --> 1 U --> her house --> my house around 120-130 Km like that , havent kira if got go yumcha in between , n i drive a 2.5 litre cow ... but i dun mind haha

solution -- > find a richer bf la..stoopid

See on the mirror first.

The car/fuel part is wrong. But a girl cannot expect the bf to pay all food too.

Can't really do anything if she does that voluntarily, but why is that guy so cheapskate ?

Really murah but i have seen worse. My cousin last time lagi teruk. She gotto save all her pocket money (that time still student) so that when weekends comes, she can spend him on their dates, and also to gib him some pocket money. Btw..he not only cheap, but also abusive. Got once he even slammed her head right onto the car window. And she is dem freaking pretty.....dunno what she sees in him....maybe love really is blind.

intro pls.

Does that mean poor guy cannot get a gf? =O
perhaps he did it in a wrong way..
should have communicate with the girlfriend more in a polite manner and solve the cash's problems xD

i really hate to admit it but i somehow have to agree some gals like to be dominated subconciously ,,
go read the erzalimm post about those few rules ,,
haiz ,, why cant we juz treat galz nicely and they treat us back the same way?

excitement, natural urges, and nice = boring...

WOW!!! I really tabik this kind of guys lar. THis is what i say badass guys always have girls lar, hahhaa

Ask your friend, does she love him or not? Or she feel very unhappy about her relationship? Then simply suggest to her that since she already have the answer, go and talk with her bf. IF the bf really want to keep the relationship going, he need to sacrifice something. The bf need to know in a relationship, something need to be sacrifice, so does the gf, although here the gf seems to be the one who sacrifice all.

It;s really best not to give advice that shows that you are against the bf. Suggestion is fine, but not powerful solid like comments, such as "Your bf not a man, go breakup with him."

Just a personal note - your friend - I really tabik her. She can tolerate this knowing the bf is taking advantage of her. If she is like what you wrote here, then she;s one of the hard to find person in this world

This post has been edited by runemastertan: Apr 17 2008, 09:00 AM

i don think this kind of guys will listen...

true, at least she can see herself that her bf is hopeless

love is blind bro...

I couldn;t agree more.

let me ask you a question if you buy a cheap item how do u treat it?

sure u simply put anywhere, never clean or polish, u oso duwan spend money to repair it

but what if u buy expensive thing?

u sure keep it somewhere good and protected, u always clean it...., u service it ... use money buy product to make it livel onger and beautiful

it applies to human also.

really beh tahan all these guys lar.. even girls also wont do that la... !@##$#@%