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TSyvliew
post Apr 16 2008, 12:01 PM

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QUOTE(VincC454 @ Apr 16 2008, 11:59 AM)
to TS

i see that you report alot of all the people posting in here
but then...dont address people 'stupid' like this la...

you know this is lyn right...you also know how people in here and how they always reply in this side of the section of the board...
so be nice when replying to avoid any flame war

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Yes, would like to ask them don't be ignorance. And like other mod said, make constructive reply as this is serious talk. This really a spoiled thread becuz of too many ignorance and act smartass ppl. Pls refrain from posting if you're gonna say nonsense.
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post Apr 16 2008, 12:04 PM

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i think it depends on the girl lor if he love him so much so she wont mind........ but y is this the guy safe money ? maybe for future to get married or maybe he got other girl? or go pros?
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post Apr 16 2008, 12:04 PM

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QUOTE(yvliew @ Apr 16 2008, 11:36 AM)
Anyway, My fren told me about her bf.. what advice will u give her? She asked me to post on her behalf

I'm not sure if this guy is stingy or poor or using her only?

I'm not clear about all their stories but here are some that I was told. Due to they live quite far apart, maybe 12KM away lol.. this guy sometimes drive to her house and then he would use her car to go out together. Reason, save fuel. But the problem is, he doesn't pay for the fuel/gas. Then when the guy's car is broken down, he doesn't wanna fix it but ask the gal to pick him up then he use her car when she's at work.

Another, this guy ever ask the gal. Is it expect him to pay for everything when they go out? Everytime eat also he have to pay. But my fren told me it's cheap food around rm5. he still complain.

So wat u guys think?
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same with my cousin situation but what to do my cousin love her BF til death.....

is the guy got a lot of burden??? let say family burden, bills, etc
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post Apr 16 2008, 12:06 PM

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QUOTE(*devilelle* @ Apr 16 2008, 12:04 PM)
same with my cousin situation but what to do my cousin love her BF til death.....

is the guy got a lot of burden??? let say family burden, bills, etc
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his car doesnt even need to loan anymore. probably from the family.
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post Apr 16 2008, 12:09 PM

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QUOTE(yvliew @ Apr 16 2008, 12:06 PM)
his car doesnt even need to loan anymore. probably from the family.
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Like I've said, eventough its his family's car that doesnt mean he can use all he want rite?

I seriously see no problem with him driving to the girl's house and then use the girl's car.
Although he can opt to share the fuel with her.

Btw are u jealous he got the girl and u dont?
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post Apr 16 2008, 12:10 PM

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QUOTE(yvliew @ Apr 16 2008, 12:01 PM)
Yes, would like to ask them don't be ignorance. And like other mod said, make constructive reply as this is serious talk. This really a spoiled thread becuz of too many ignorance and act smartass ppl. Pls refrain from posting if you're gonna say nonsense.
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Dude, you totally have no idea how to treat forumers properly. If you think words like stupids, ignorance and act smartass would shut them up and let them think and post smart and constructive posts, you're wasting your time.
People don't like to be treated as trash, especially guys which consists of almost 90% of all the LYN forumers here.

For the girl that you're talking about, she's being treated as trash and she's getting annoyed with it already. I'm not here to make decisions for her. But if her boyfriend has some financial problems in his side, I think he should voice out. But if he so freaking rich but still complains about his outing with the girl ... I suggest action must be taken. Ask the girl to decide what action she should take dry.gif


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post Apr 16 2008, 12:14 PM

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luckily din add to my warn. the serious was added later on. like that wanna fitnah me meh?
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post Apr 16 2008, 12:14 PM

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wah lao ehh ... selling so cheap .. kekeke
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post Apr 16 2008, 12:14 PM

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if she's feeling uncomfortable on this she should talk to him... and very obvious that he is well... cheap. but there could be circumstances why he's trying so hard to save money. family background, financial difficulties etc....

if she couldn't take it then leave it.

p/s: it's not nice to call others stupids.

This post has been edited by rourou: Apr 16 2008, 12:15 PM
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post Apr 16 2008, 12:17 PM

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QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Apr 16 2008, 11:50 AM)
I remember there's a worse case than this. The girl doesn't have any tissue and ask him to buy a pack from the toilet lady. It cost 20Cents and he ask the GF to pay him back 20 cents. ROFL.  doh.gif

It's here somewhere in CC. HAw haw haw best joke ever!  thumbup.gif
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yaya. i remember that one too. made me laugh so loud man. stingy till that extent

*oops. sorry.

hmm. if the guy cant even afford to spend on petrol or even dinner, what makes u think he is capable of doing so as a husband? on the other hand, i agree that it shouldnt be the guy that pays for everything. if they both earn equally same amount of money. why does he have to pay all the time? but he is too stingy in my opinion tho.

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post Apr 16 2008, 12:18 PM

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anyway, this is not murah or cheap... but this is kiamsiap aka stingy
this kind of guy is hopeless... the girl cannot depend on him too much
can see that he's a parasite
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post Apr 16 2008, 12:20 PM

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QUOTE(andyjyneo @ Apr 16 2008, 12:18 PM)
anyway, this is not murah or cheap... but this is kiamsiap aka stingy
this kind of guy is hopeless... the girl cannot depend on him too much
can see that he's a parasite
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Depends on which point u standing on.

She's just your GF, not your WIFE.
Its not a must to spend anything on her, by right... Unless she will be your wife.
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post Apr 16 2008, 12:28 PM

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post Apr 16 2008, 12:29 PM

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She should ask his bf what his financial problem. If keep quite will not solve the problem.
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post Apr 16 2008, 12:31 PM

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ZOMG... i wouldn't think twice bout dumping tat guy... doh.gif
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post Apr 16 2008, 01:15 PM

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QUOTE(yvliew @ Apr 16 2008, 11:36 AM)
Anyway, My fren told me about her bf.. what advice will u give her? She asked me to post on her behalf

I'm not sure if this guy is stingy or poor or using her only?

I'm not clear about all their stories but here are some that I was told. Due to they live quite far apart, maybe 12KM away lol.. this guy sometimes drive to her house and then he would use her car to go out together. Reason, save fuel. But the problem is, he doesn't pay for the fuel/gas. Then when the guy's car is broken down, he doesn't wanna fix it but ask the gal to pick him up then he use her car when she's at work.

Another, this guy ever ask the gal. Is it expect him to pay for everything when they go out? Everytime eat also he have to pay. But my fren told me it's cheap food around rm5. he still complain.

So wat u guys think?
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I got a fren which almost similiar like him.
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QUOTE(yvliew @ Apr 16 2008, 11:36 AM)
Anyway, My fren told me about her bf.. what advice will u give her? She asked me to post on her behalf

I'm not sure if this guy is stingy or poor or using her only?

I'm not clear about all their stories but here are some that I was told. Due to they live quite far apart, maybe 12KM away lol.. this guy sometimes drive to her house and then he would use her car to go out together. Reason, save fuel. But the problem is, he doesn't pay for the fuel/gas. Then when the guy's car is broken down, he doesn't wanna fix it but ask the gal to pick him up then he use her car when she's at work.

Another, this guy ever ask the gal. Is it expect him to pay for everything when they go out? Everytime eat also he have to pay. But my fren told me it's cheap food around rm5. he still complain.

So wat u guys think?
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regarding to this.. hmm, i would say the guy is kiam siap..but not to the extend. i mean, sharing is okay la~ but not til the extend of car broke down ask gf come fetch gua~ this is abit too much i would say..

as for food, don't be so picky bout expensive or cheap food.. share the bill if he cant afford the food and stil want to eat. or just share the food together la~

already couple and stil dont want to talk it out would be not so good.. suppose to be able to share feelings and talk about issues. happy.gif
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post Apr 16 2008, 01:30 PM

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THey need to sort it out between themselves. She should bring it up with him the reason for him behaving that way. We're no one to judge. But i do agree that women should not expect men to pay for everything.
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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Apr 16 2008, 12:20 PM)
Depends on which point u standing on.

She's just your GF, not your WIFE.
Its not a must to spend anything on her, by right... Unless she will be your wife.
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ya, but everything also use GF's thing... including car
wah, this is too much woh
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post Apr 16 2008, 03:42 PM

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i think should have a communication between them.
some solution acceptable for them but we not right.
and what we see here is just your friend told you.

eveyone in different family.. like me spend so much for gf = ="
but what i get ? more love? more facey? lolx

In my opinion , money can't measure the love. but money really bring problem to the relation ship...

the best way, communicate.





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