siao !
I don't think its first time XD

UPDATE 2
So Ah Liang edi been ask by d gal, dun so "rush"... he realize also, that time at the cinema, she was being a little open, there was no special thing, nothing, NOTHING ...

Ah Liang made his own assumption, now he feels, sad, regret a bit, he thought he want to keep d momentum, ask her out again this week, but no...

She free, but she duwan go out. She feels, uncomfortable when he ask her ... means Ah Liang also, too excite that he forget to pace his words and actions ...

So now, Ah Liang take a breather, also, not text/msn/whatever so much dy ...

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Ah Liang realize, she was being open, and he misread the notion ...

I am posting this thread on behalf of my fren, Ah Liang

Its not Ah Liang's first date, seem he is kan cheong cos he strongly for her

hehehe first time wif her i suppose...



This post has been edited by vey99: Mar 6 2008, 12:35 PM

*sigh*
remind me of my first date...
last time i ask a gal go out watch cinema 2 but not at morning la. Actually i invite 2 gal as both of them so close, so i mah invite them watch movie lo. But unfortunately, one of them cant go cuz got emergency, so i juz go watch wif her alone lo. Everthing went as usual but sudd, (the same thing as TS), she felt colt and i take my hand and hold her tight. I ask her warm or not, she juz nodded.... we hold and close to her till the end of movie... after tat i dunno wat to do so ask her let go home...

At tat night, i sms her wat do she feel and she got some kind of feeling. At the end, we start our relationship but still din last long.

ok vey99. Tell liang.. if girl dowan then dont keep force..

keep it cool and try start everything all over again.. she now start rejecting jor.. means something wrong in between..

if for me i will stop for a moment.. a week or so..
then i will text her.. how are you and wat so ever la..
then try share things on the phone.. dun ask her out for now..
if wan jz go out YC onli la.. dun go too far.. near her house can d..
makes her feel safe..
then slow slow pick up from there..
if push now sure break line de..

Good luck to you

wassup super agree

Ah Liang also said, that time was nice to hold her... he feels so floating. I ask him how was the movie and he said he dunno much really, he as just kinda hold her and half the time enjoy the feel oni...

Thanks for the tip bro. Ah Liang now is cooler a bit dy, when sms also, if she reply, he will leave it for few hours den oni reply her ...

Keep the updates coming.. can tumpang happy oso 1..

ah liang is a ghey ?

Ah Liang is not ghey la...
He now busy ... say he no time for her this week dy, but *might* able to see her for a while on weekend, if he is lucky ...

UPDATE 3

Dear Vey,
This will be my last update to you about me and her.
Her name is Xiao Wei, not Mystery Gal.
I ... please let the forum know I appreciated their feedback
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Xiao Wei,

I think... we started off wrong ... everything I did was wrong to begin with.
I shouldn't have try to be a hero. I shouldn't have tried to be a Romeo.
I started to misunderstand what happened at the cinema, and was confused.

In that confusion, I followed up ... with even more emotions that should not have been shown...
I said a lot of things I shouldn't have, I was eager ... and foolish ...
I did not realize the impact of
the things I said,
the things I did,
the way I acted ...

At times, I felt caring, concern for you, and I mistook those feelings as being infatuated with you...
I understand now ... I was one big confused mess that you were so unlucky to bump into ...
I never meant to take you on a rollercoaster ride of emotions ...

There is no way to say how sorry i am, and nothing I do will ever take away the hurt that I caused ....
I only wish that ... that ... I had just treated you as a friend in the first place...

From the bottom of my heart,
Ah Liang




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Geez... I never expect this type of outcome from him. WTH was he thinking in the first place???
He said he her, suddenly he said, his feeling was misplaced. ...
When I got his mail I called him up and told him: Are u stupid or what???
He replied with regretful tone... and said "I realise I ... I dun really have the feeling that I thought I had ..."
I was like, dude... U are such a dumba$$ ...
KNS I really waste time follow ur story, ingat u got interest, got chance...

This post has been edited by vey99: Mar 9 2008, 08:43 PM

ah liang, u phailed....

u made ur first step.... she accepted ur first step.... but when she wants to play mouse and cat with him, he backed off.... for the gal, vr 'potong stim' one ler.... if in future he still wants a chance from her, sure KO geh....

make ur line clear on whether u wanna continue with her or not... dont give confusing signal to the gal... gals dont like guys who cant even decide for himself.... 1 means 1... 2 means 2....

*** u love a girl then love la omg..

now 3am in the morning.. juz go and find her and get things done homie!

I tell u lar.. the longer u kau the further they will go away from u. U see ngam u straight take. Trust me on this.

Juz go fking confess. If reject means reject. If u wait longer what made u think she will accept u?

At least when u got rejected, juz continue going out with heras friends. And eventually she will confess to u instead. Be youself and treat her good. Believe me or not? I can bet with u on this sh!t.

Girls heart are soft but their mouth are smelly. Maybe u will end up with a bad answer. But honestly la, trust me.

This post has been edited by mthc: Mar 10 2008, 02:55 AM

Ah Liang has shown her that he is a confused person, so yeah, I believe he is not gonna continue chase, because he realise that he just temporary her, and the strong feeling was more of confius,kan-cheong more than anything else...

Ah Liang said to me, yeah, the gal is ok to be frens, she also understand his feeling of unsure, confius, and she willing to let be frens, have some activity together, becos she think he is a nice guy, and makes her happy.
She also brighten up Ah Liang day, just that, not to jump into full courtship now, just fren first...

I think may be you should ask Ah Liang to take a deep breathe only think about this issue when he is calm and relax. It is very easy to find out does he has any feeling towards her or not. It is not his fault by being so because sometimes we will really be uncertain with our own feeling. This may because of something in us that hold us back, or may be some bad experience which cause so. Anyway, ask Ah Liang to ask himself a few questions, to ensure his own feeling if he wants to.

Ah Liang concluded with me few day ago, I dint update here.

Anyway he is gonna take her as fren, dun pursue her, he wont let his hormone/l'il bro do the thinking.
Let it develop if there is any spark, if not then juz be frenz.

Cheers.